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RedRose
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 Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 12:39 am Post subject: What would you do if you were the girl? |
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I just read a newspaper on which a message attracted my attention. let me tell you this true story. Here you go!
A girl(let's call her Xu) had a boyfriend, but she never had sex with him no matter how hard he asked for. One day, her boyfriend forced her to have sex with him, she refused, but he still insisted. In order to get rid of his coercion, she jumped down from the window to the floor. Finally, she got disabled.
Her dad got into debt for her illness. and now, she asked her dad to kill herself because she felt very painful to live such a life.
That's the true story.
What would you do if you were the girl Xu? |
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Jekzhou
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Bob S.
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| Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 11:02 am Post subject: |
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She is not a very bright girl.
First, she should not have had such a pushy crude boyfriend. If I were her, when he got pushy and too horny, I'd dump him and find a different nicer boyfriend.
Second, you say he tried to force her against her will? She should tell the police that he tried to rape her, and when she resisted, he pushed her out the window. Knowing that he is getting homosexually raped in prison would be a good vengence. It would do much to cool his horny jets!
Finally, how would his family feel knowing their son committed such a terrible crime? Would they feel any shame? Maybe she could sue them for money to help her family take care of her for the rest of her life.
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RedRose
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| Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 4:29 am Post subject: |
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| Bob wrote: |
| you say he tried to force her against her will? She should tell the police that he tried to rape her |
This point was that she had no time to call any cop because he was holding her arms and forcing her with his "strength", and then she happened to lean against the window, so she jumped down.
IMHO, the girl was so silly!!! what's more important between virginity and her life? she made a silly choice.
Like all Chinese girls, since we were little girls, we have been educated to keep our virginity until we get married, otherwise, once we lose our virginity, we will have to reap as we have sown. and we are told that it's very honorable if we own virginity; vice versa. OMG!!! what our parents and teachers have told us about virginity is such a crap!!! men are totally ok if they lose their virginity, but women are not!!
IMO, virginity is nothing for both men and women. |
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mat
Joined: 03 Feb 2006
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Location: England
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| Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 10:40 am Post subject: |
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| RedRose wrote: |
| IMHO, the girl was so silly!!! what's more important between virginity and her life? she made a silly choice. |
I'm sure she didn't have time to think and just wanted to get away. That's a very sad story.
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pugachevV
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| Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 11:10 am Post subject: |
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You're blaming the girl, but the boyfriend should be charged with attempted rape, or attempted murder, or assault causing bodilly harm at the very least.
What kind of society are you building in China when this kind of thing can go unpunished?
Even in the worst days of the Soviet Union, this would not be allowed.
(Well - maybe if the boyfriend was some well-connected apparatchik.) |
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laus
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| Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 11:31 am Post subject: |
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So sad story... 
Last edited by laus on Wed Jun 07, 2006 1:23 am; edited 1 time in total |
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RedRose
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| Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 4:25 pm Post subject: |
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| pugachevV wrote: |
You're blaming the girl, but the boyfriend should be charged with attempted rape, or attempted murder, or assault causing bodilly harm at the very least.
What kind of society are you building in China when this kind of thing can go unpunished?
Even in the worst days of the Soviet Union, this would not be allowed.
(Well - maybe if the boyfriend was some well-connected apparatchik.) |
Of course this boy was punished by law!! If I had power, I could have killed the boy into pieces!! But that's not my question. My question is:"what would u do if you were the girl?" |
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Snake777
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She got ill ?! Disabled ?! Hmmn that sounds weird ! Peole get disabled after being raped ?!
Why dont they call police and report what that jacka** did to her huh ?! He would probably pay their money and be arrested ! At least , his money can help her dad to solve dept problem .
But wait , is her illness sooo serious that she wants to die ?! Aww plz , it cant cause death for her . She just feels ashamed or something . People who re Asianz know that ! Virgin is soo important . We girls re not allowed to have sex b4 marriage . She probaby feels soo shameful .
I dont know if i'm soo mean to this girl . But i think she is so stupid . From redrose said , he had asked her too have sex many times and she refused . See ?! Her bf did not respect her at all ( Oh wait , how old is she? I guess she is still teenager )
If i were here , i would dump him . Yup , like Bob said , he was soo horny . To him , love is just sex ! She probably loved that *beep* but this is not the true love that she expects . |
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RedRose
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| Posted: Thu Apr 20, 2006 5:18 am Post subject: |
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| Snake777 wrote: |
| She got ill ?! Disabled ?! Hmmn that sounds weird ! Peole get disabled after being raped ?! . |
No, she got disable for jumping from a five-flat floor, not for being raped.
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| But wait , is her illness sooo serious that she wants to die ?! Aww plz , it cant cause death for her . She just feels ashamed or something . |
No, she wanted to die because she was disable and hopeless to get cured, and her dad had got into debt for her illness. she didn't feel ashamed.
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| how old is she? I guess she is still teenager |
she was 23 years old. not a teenager.
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| If i were here , i would dump him . |
Me too. |
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pugachevV
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| If I were the girl I'd have thrown him out the window. (Ju do - the gentle way!) |
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Winkydragonfly
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er.......I will try to run away..If I really can't run away.......
I think I will choose then same way!
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RedRose
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| If I were the girl, I would have had sex with the boy and when he got into an orgasm, I would have squeezed his balls to death. |
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Hardi
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| Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 7:12 am Post subject: |
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| RedRose wrote: |
| If I were the girl, I would have had sex with the boy and when he got into an orgasm, I would have squeezed his balls to death. |
I will never ask you do have sex with me... I even will deny, if you ask it your self.. who knows what sadistic ideas circulates around in side of your crazy head. |
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RedRose
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| Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 7:45 am Post subject: |
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| Hardi wrote: |
| RedRose wrote: |
| If I were the girl, I would have had sex with the boy and when he got into an orgasm, I would have squeezed his balls to death. |
I will never ask you do have sex with me... I even will deny, if you ask it your self.. who knows what sadistic ideas circulates around in side of your crazy head. |
don't worry!  if you ask me for that thing, I am sure your balls would be safe enough! |
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