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[lotus]

Hi,

It may be another cultural thing (if I'm interpreting it correctly). Students will say thank you even if the teacher has commanded the student to do something. Sounds submissive, but it's equivalent to a polite bow after a request.

The answer to your query, Gloria, is yes. As mentioned, younger children often address their teachers as "Miss Gloria" even if Gloria is married. There is a quaintness to such a greeting and it personalizes the teacher. At some time though, older students will address their teachers as "Mrs. Wong." This commands a certain respect.

I must say that I admire your resolve and dedication toward the work you're doing for your foundation to educate children. You must feel great satisfaction and joy. I encourage you to use and reference English textbooks (without infringing upon copyrights). You'll get lots of good ideas.

The contributors in this forum are kind individuals who are dedicated to the integrity of the language and helping others learn it. Everyone is different in their philosophy and view of English and how to teach it. The diversity of ideas is what makes this forum great.

Let's go back to the idea of Teacher Wong. Consider the list below:

Professor Wong
Principal Wong
Rabbi Wong
Doctor Wong
Inspector Wong
Teacher Wong

Each title acknowleges and gives the person respect for what he/she does in his/her profession. Should the last title be stricken from the list of professionals?

In my humble opinion, it is a sad state of affairs that teaching professionals do not get the recognition (or pay) that they deserve - considering that we entrust the future of our children with them.

In the Chinese culture, education is way up there as one of the major things that parents can give their children for life (happiness, love, food and shelter being others). Respect for elders and mentors is part of that education philosophy. In the Chinese culture, there are more titles and names for extended family members and relatives than you can shake a stick at. But, every family member will tell their children to respect their "Lo See" as much as they respect other family members. If a "Lo See" visits your home, it is the same as a doctor visiting your house. That's how important they are.

I wish you the best of luck in teaching and writing your textbook. May Buddha bless you for your kind work.


--lotus

[gloria_taipei]

Hi, lotus,
Thanks! I enjoy writing English dialogs and I do hope it'll help children here learn English.

We'll explain to our students how native speakers address people and about the culture differences. It's important to respect all cultures and the differences between each other.

Thanks again to all the people who replied.