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ad-miral

Joined: 01 Sep 2006
Posts: 1488

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 10:16 am Post subject:

hoshi wrote:

Why don't we start a school for this kind of art here in the forum? I think everybody can participate and learn a lot

Perfect! I just need this kind of education, because somehow I like girls very much but somehow I never get a girlfriend. Sometimes it's because of my very conservative kind of thinking (not so tricky, virgin, loyal) and sometimes it's because I'm different than how I look. (many girls think I'm a player but in reality I'm very shy)

There was a German girl I have known from the internet when I was 16. (At that time she was 13) I always treat her as friend and I have lots of fun with her. Although we live far away from each other a lot of things happened. For example she thought I was living near her and once she asked me: "Are you the guy who was at the train station today? Are you this guy, are you that guy..." And I had nothing to do so I tried to use all tricks in Erich Fromm's "art of love" on her. Hmm somehow I like her, too. Redrose thinks she is very hot.

The distance between me and her is similar to the distance between me and Pommezani. With train, it will cost me 4 or 5 hours to get to her town. I think that's too far for a real relationship but somehow I think it would be perfect if I had a date with her. (maybe one-night-stand? hahaha)
Recently it's getting a little bit hotter, but still she doesn't want to meet with me. She is really hot and I have known her even before my grandmother arranged that Chinese girl for me. What should I do in this situation, dear RR and beancurd?

Should I try to meet her? If yes, how should I do this, what should I say to her? I had been waiting in the train station of her town once, but she didn't come. You know maybe she thinks I'm dangerous because I don't like my girlfriend to have slept with different guys, maybe she thinks we are too far away from each other or maybe her parents are too strict, I don't know.

Do you have some advices for me? Will the two flirt experts help me? Laughing

(Isn't it a good start for the topic?)
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If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I also love everyone else inside you, I love the whole world because of you, I also love myself inside you." -- Erich Fromm, the Art of Love

hoshi

Joined: 01 Feb 2007
Posts: 564
Location: At the best place of your dreams :D Loveland

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2007 10:29 am Post subject:

ad-miral wrote:

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Why don't we start a school for this kind of art here in the forum? I think everybody can participate and learn a lot

I am a little conservative too, but not so much Very Happy

ad-miral wrote:

Should I try to meet her? If yes, how should I do this, what should I say to her? You know maybe she thinks I'm dangerous because I don't like my girlfriend to have slept with different guys, maybe she thinks we are too far away from each other or maybe her parents are too strict, I don't know.
Do you have some advices for me? Laughing

(Isn't it a good start for the topic?)

Does your parents look for a girlfriend for you? I think that's an old tradition
How do you know that she slept with a lot of guys? there are hot girls (chikens hahaha) who don't like that
I think you have to talk with her and if you really like her you'll not be worry about her past. But I think that you have to meet her and talk A LOT to know all her past... I think we have similar personalities Laughing

by the way be sure she doesn't has aids
Oh I will start the new topic in opinions right now Wink

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Oriani

Joined: 13 Oct 2006
Posts: 208
Location: Venezuela

Posted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 8:19 am Post subject:

I'm studying an English teaching career in college. I'm in my 5th semester now and I'm also a musician

Oriani

Joined: 13 Oct 2006
Posts: 208
Location: Venezuela

Posted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 8:21 am Post subject:

ad-miral wrote:

hoshi wrote:

Why don't we start a school for this kind of art here in the forum? I think everybody can participate and learn a lot

(Isn't it a good start for the topic?)

I thought I had given you some advice about it Crying or Very sad

ad-miral

Joined: 01 Sep 2006
Posts: 1488

Posted: Sun Apr 01, 2007 11:43 am Post subject:

hahahahaha, Oriani!!!
Yeah of course I remember, just want to hear some other suggestions. Like hoshi's one. Laughing

hoshi wrote:

Does your parents look for a girlfriend for you? I think that's an old tradition

Whaaat??? No... I never let OTHER GUYS search MY girlfriend. I always search them by my own 'cause I think otherwise it would be too cowardly.

hoshi wrote:

by the way be sure she doesn't has aids

Hahaha, you hit the nail on the head! It's one of the reasons why I prefer virgin girls. Laughing

Back to Oriani... Where were you? I missed you here, maaan, thought you had an accident or so. Hey your advices were sooooo good, with your tactics, I made a homerun at the girl. Laughing

But at the end I separated because she was not honest with me in many things.
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If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I also love everyone else inside you, I love the whole world because of you, I also love myself inside you." -- Erich Fromm, the Art of Love

Oriani

Joined: 13 Oct 2006
Posts: 208
Location: Venezuela

Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 6:21 am Post subject:

ad-miral wrote:

hahahahaha, Oriani!!!
Yeah of course I remember, just want to hear some other suggestions. Like hoshi's one. Laughing

Back to Oriani... Where were you? I missed you here, maaan, thought you had an accident or so. Hey your advices were sooooo good, with your tactics, I made a homerun at the girl. Laughing

But at the end I separated because she was not honest with me in many things.

Yes I know how everything ended up, but you have to remember that for one experience you're not going to give up in love's stuff!! It's nice hearing others's opinios and point of view.

On other hand, I didn't have the accident. It was a friend of mine who did. He died and I got really depressed.. you know.. he died on March 15th and his b-day was on March 16th Confused

I promise I am going to be here more often.. but sometimes I just focus on my HOTMAIL inbox and that's it ., hahahaha---

I hope you and this forum members are ok and I wish I could find friends here as well..

Kisses..

hoshi

Joined: 01 Feb 2007
Posts: 564
Location: At the best place of your dreams :D Loveland

Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 10:19 am Post subject:

Oriani wrote:

On other hand, I didn't have the accident. It was a friend of mine who did. He died and I got really depressed.. you know.. he died on March 15th and his b-day was on March 16th Confused

Kisses..

Oh I am so sorry Crying or Very sad

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God gave us two ears to hear, two eyes to see and two hands to hold. But why did God gave us only one heart? Because He wants us to find the other one!

Oriani

Joined: 13 Oct 2006
Posts: 208
Location: Venezuela

Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 3:55 pm Post subject:

hoshi wrote:

Oriani wrote:

On other hand, I didn't have the accident. It was a friend of mine who did. He died and I got really depressed.. you know.. he died on March 15th and his b-day was on March 16th Confused

Kisses..

Oh I am so sorry Crying or Very sad

It's ok. Thanks.. But everytime I close my eyes I see his face.. it's a very not good feeling Crying or Very sad

hoshi

Joined: 01 Feb 2007
Posts: 564
Location: At the best place of your dreams :D Loveland

Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 3:58 pm Post subject:

Oriani wrote:

It's ok. Thanks.. But everytime I close my eyes I see his face.. it's a very not good feeling Crying or Very sad

just remember all the good times you shared before. You don't have to be sad because you did all what you wanted to do with him. And all the experiences you have with him were great.
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God gave us two ears to hear, two eyes to see and two hands to hold. But why did God gave us only one heart? Because He wants us to find the other one!

Oriani

Joined: 13 Oct 2006
Posts: 208
Location: Venezuela

Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 4:10 pm Post subject:

hoshi wrote:

Oriani wrote:

It's ok. Thanks.. But everytime I close my eyes I see his face.. it's a very not good feeling Crying or Very sad

just remember all the good times you shared before. You don't have to be sad because you did all what you wanted to do with him. And all the experiences you have with him were great.

You know, 2 or 3 days before his accident ( death) he called me to remind me about his b-day and he asked me to tell him that I loved him ( as a friend of course) and I said " Of course I love you".. and he said " Please but say it from the botton of your heart Ori" .. and I said " Yes Allan ( his name) I do love and I always will because you're one of the few people who appreciates my hear, my soul.. our friendship"...

And after a few minutes he told me "Ori, Never forget remembering me, and remember not forgetting me" and I said.. "Oh Come on. you're not going to die yet.. your b-day is on Friday...."-- and that was the last day we talked on the phone.... I see his phone call registered on my cellphone.. his number.. it's weird.. really..

hoshi

Joined: 01 Feb 2007
Posts: 564
Location: At the best place of your dreams :D Loveland

Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 4:12 pm Post subject:

I don't know what to say. Just keep him in your heart. And remember the promise you did. _________________ God gave us two ears to hear, two eyes to see and two hands to hold. But why did God gave us only one heart? Because He wants us to find the other one!

Oriani

Joined: 13 Oct 2006
Posts: 208
Location: Venezuela

Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2007 4:19 pm Post subject:

I will..

Dixie

Joined: 11 Nov 2005
Posts: 169
Location: Catalunya

Posted: Tue Apr 03, 2007 12:19 am Post subject:

Oriani wrote:

So it was like he was saying goodbye...

beancurdturtle

Joined: 23 Aug 2006
Posts: 1041
Location: Southern California

Posted: Tue Apr 03, 2007 12:37 am Post subject:

I'm sorry for your loss Oriani. _________________ Daniel �Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.� --Dr. Seuss

Oriani

Joined: 13 Oct 2006
Posts: 208
Location: Venezuela

Posted: Tue Apr 03, 2007 7:27 am Post subject:

Dixie wrote:

Oriani wrote:

So it was like he was saying goodbye...

I feel so!! I mean... Every person knows very deep inside when the death is close.. maybe we don't know that but there is a feeling that make us behave like that or say those kinds of things.. I don't know, but at least I could talk to him .. There is something left.. I really wanted to say "I love you" but more seriously.. I thought he was joking.. and now he's gone...

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