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[FernandaKlauck]

How many more women it's better! It is the idea of the men.
Alredy the women think about the love, she want to find her prince, only one man.
What do you think about this?

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[beancurdturtle]

I don't think that all men believe the more women they can have the better.

I think most men who think they need to have many women do so because they have low self esteem. It makes them feel some kind of accomplishment to have many women. Instead of getting many women, they should get some self confidence.

I think a confident man can love only one woman. A confident man can thrive giving all his love and attention to one woman in an honest and respectful relationship.

Admiral is a man like this I think. He wants to find a true and deep relationship. But he may be trying to hard for this at a young age - he should maybe be more like hoshi.

Hoshi knows he is young, and now it the time to play. But I think he will look for a deep and committed relationship when he is done playing. Admiral and hoshi can both learn a little from each other.

But maybe - for the next few years - they both need to find the woman that can appreciate who they are today.

Confident men will eventually grow into men that will look for a woman (one woman) they can appreciate - a woman who will respect them for who they are. Then they can be together and grow into that happy, white haired couple we sometimes see walking together holding hands.
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[RedRose]

FernandaKlauck, you are generalizing this situation. not every woman is idealist, and not every guy is womanizor. don't you think you are a little partial on this issue?

[hoshi]

[ad-miral]

good analysis, beancurdturtle, you said the right thing about me. You know it's because I already have something like a fiancee in China, but I think I'm still studying and don't have that much income to "open" a family. And I'm not sure whether she is good enough to do such a big investment, so I don't want to marry now.

So the result is that I'm looking around for a girl in Germany who can substitue the girl in China. At the same time I call my family in China from time to time and ask how the girl in China is, and sometimes I call her.
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If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I also love everyone else inside you, I love the whole world because of you, I also love myself inside you." -- Erich Fromm, the Art of Love