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Nicolas_nc
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 Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 12:49 pm Post subject: Why girls choose older boys? |
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There are many girls that care too much about age. Many of them, when meet a younger boy, even if he is cute, they choose someone older.
Why some girl think like this? What does age got to do with the girls choice? |
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Oriani
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| Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 3:26 pm Post subject: |
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Maybe because they are more mature!!  |
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hoshi
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| Posted: Mon Apr 23, 2007 7:53 am Post subject: |
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| Oriani wrote: |
| Maybe because they are more mature!! |
older guys just want a girl with them because they know they are becoming older and older so they look for a young girl and other old man look for a young woman 'cause they think they will feel better because of the sexism. But more mature? I disagree with that.
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ad-miral
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| Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 9:17 am Post subject: |
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 normally older guys are stronger and according to nature, female living things want to be protected by the male living thing during the months of pregnancy. As "being young" implies weakness and "being mature" implies "strongness", female living things search for mature living things.
Used at human, women want a man who has a good job, earns a lot of money, a bit dumb so they can cheat his money or find some others without him leaving her, has more life-experience than her and has higher academical grade.
Mostly, a man who knows how to pretend in such a way, is older.
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Oriani
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| Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 6:43 am Post subject: |
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| As long as they love me, it's ok |
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hoshi
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| Posted: Wed May 02, 2007 11:45 am Post subject: |
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| Oriani wrote: |
| As long as they love me, it's ok |
Nice
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weiyao
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| Posted: Sat May 05, 2007 9:55 pm Post subject: |
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| a boy and a girl at the same age, usually the girl looks more mature than the boy. So girsl like to choose an older boy |
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beancurdturtle
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| Posted: Sun May 06, 2007 10:37 am Post subject: |
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| hoshi wrote: |
| older guys just want a girl with them because they know they are becoming older and older so they look for a young girl and other old man look for a young woman 'cause they think they will feel better because of the sexism. But more mature? I disagree with that. |
The kind of man you are describing is the kind of man that has never developed self confidence. A smart woman of good character will not be attracted to the kind of man who wants a "trophy wife." A woman of low self esteem who just wants to find someone with money and interest in her might like this kind of man.
| Nicolas_nc wrote: |
| Why some girl think like this? What does age got to do with the girls choice? |
Most women, regardless of age, want their life to have a base of security and stability.
Men have a desire to see and play, and security and stability are less important to them. As a man gets older he learns the value of security and stability.
Smart women of good character want a man who is secure, stable, a little bit predictable, able to be monogamous, and who appreciates and loves them. Anything more than this - cute, wealthy, etc. - is frosting on the cake.
Usually it takes a few years for a man to develop these qualities.
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ad-miral
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| Posted: Mon May 07, 2007 7:11 am Post subject: |
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| hoshi wrote: |
| Oriani wrote: |
| As long as they love me, it's ok |
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As long as she's sexy, it's ok 
hahaha joke so of course love is important but it's better if the girl has other advantages like being intelligent or have things to talk with you etc.
And nevertheless, looking good or not looking good, that's the question.
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hoshi
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| Posted: Tue May 08, 2007 12:32 pm Post subject: Re: Why girls choose older boys? |
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| Nicolas_nc wrote: |
| Why girls choose older boys? |
It seems like I choose girls who are older than me
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StephenLong
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| Posted: Mon May 21, 2007 4:02 am Post subject: hoshi |
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hoshi, me too. hehe
but the truth punched me down--- so hard to get successful. |
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