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[masakyoko]

Hello everyone, I'm a university student and our class is doing a research. If you have ever been involved in an older-woman-younger-man relationship, we will deeply appreciate it if you could spend one minute to do our survey. It is very interesting and we will tell you the result after we collect the data. It is a very important part of our academic research, so we really hope that you can do it! Thank you very much!!

for females: http://www.my3q.com/home2/160/masakyoko/79588.phtml

for males: http://www.my3q.com/home2/160/masakyoko/62122.phtml[/url]
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[ad-miral]

I made this survey I'm interested what you wrote there
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If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I also love everyone else inside you, I love the whole world because of you, I also love myself inside you." -- Erich Fromm, the Art of Love

[RedRose]

I answered every question the survey asked, but I didn't get result.

Bad design of survey

[masakyoko]

i mean i will give the results after our data study.
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when things come too easy we suspect. Do they have to be complicated before we believe they are for real?

[ad-miral]

will you give it out here? That would be very nice.
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If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I also love everyone else inside you, I love the whole world because of you, I also love myself inside you." -- Erich Fromm, the Art of Love

[masakyoko]

of coz! i'd love to ^^
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when things come too easy we suspect. Do they have to be complicated before we believe they are for real?

[masakyoko]

it's very hard to find those who have been involed in such kind of relationship...sigh...
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when things come too easy we suspect. Do they have to be complicated before we believe they are for real?

[masakyoko]

If you are a girl, please answer the following questions.

1. Do you really love each other?
A- A Yes, I think so. (24)
B- B No, I�m afraid not. (2)


2. Do you think your love for him can last long?
A- A Yes, I think so. (6)
B- B No, I�m afraid not. (20)

3. If his income per month is hardly sufficient for the cost of living, when you dine out with him, will you pay the bill often?
A- A Yes, I will. (20)
B- B No, I won�t. (

4. If he doesn't have any income, are you willing to support him financially for a long time?
A- A Yes, I am. (22)
B- B No, I am not. (6)

5. Will you often lend him money if he has financial difficulties?
A- A Yes, I will. (17)
B- B No, I won�t. (11)


6. If there are quite a lot of young female employees in the company where he may work,
(1) do you worry that he might fall in love with another woman?
A- A Yes, I do. (10)
B- B No, I don�t. (1

(2) do you think some of those young female employees have an advantage over you in terms of age?
A- A No, they don�t. (16)
B- B Yes, they do. (12)

(3) will you attempt to prevent him from working there?

A- A Yes, I will. (23)
B- B No, I won�t. (5)


7. If you have more and more wrinkles and flabby muscles as time goes by,
(1) when you go out with him, will you avoid doing something that shows your relation with him in front of others, for instance, walking hand in hand ?
A. No, I won�t. (21)
B. Yes, I will. (7)

(2) will you spend thousands of dollars or even more on facials in a beauty parlor to make you look better so that he won�t lose interest in you?
A- A Yes, I will. (13)
B- B No, I won�t. (15)

8. If you have a heart disease or rheumatism when you grow old and need to be taken care of while he is at the apex of his career and wants a helpful wife, do you worry that he might leave you someday and might find a healthy young woman who could assist him?
A- A No, I don�t. (14)
B- B Yes, I do. (14)

About the relationship itself:
9. If your friends invite you to a party, will you take him along and make your relations public?
A- A No, I won�t. (22)
B- B Yes, I will. (5)

10. If you frequently have to take care of and concern about him as what you do to an adolescent, you might
A- A. hope that he could be sensible and dependable, and could look after himself well. (1
B- B. find it happy to look after him. (
C- C. have a sense of achievement about his dependence on you. (2)



If you are a boy, please answer the following questions.
1. Do you really love each other?
A- A Yes, I think so. (29)
B- B No, I�m afraid not. (3)



2. Do you think your love for her can last long?
A- A Yes, I think so. (12)
B- B No, I�m afraid not. (20)

3. If her income per month is hardly sufficient for the cost of living, when you dine out with her, will you pay the bill often?
A- A Yes, I will. (29)
B- B No, I won�t. (3)

4. If she doesn't have any income, are you willing to support her financially for a long time?
A- A Yes, I am. (22)
B- B No, I am not. (

5. Will you often lend her money if she has financial difficulties?
A- A Yes, I will. (2
B- B No, I won�t. (3)




6. If there are quite a lot of male employees who are of the same age with her or older in the company where she may work,
(1) do you worry that she might fall in love with another man?
A- A Yes, I do. (7)
B- B No, I don�t. (24)
(2) do you think some of those male employees have an advantage over you because they are older and might be more steady and attractive?
A- A No, they don�t. (17)
B- B Yes, they do. (15)

(3) will you attempt to prevent her from working there?
A- A Yes, I will. (23)
B- B No, I won�t. (9)



7. If she has more and more wrinkles and flabby muscles as time goes by,
(1) when you go out with her, will you avoid doing something that shows your relation with her in front of others, for instance, walking hand in hand ?
A- A No, I won�t. (
B- B Yes, I will. (23)

(2) will you spend thousands of dollars or even more on her for her facials in a beauty parlor to make her look better?
A- A Yes, I will. (7)
B- B No, I won�t. (24)

8. If she has a heart disease or rheumatism when she grows old and needs to be taken care of while you are at the apex of you career and want a helpful wife, will you leave her and find a healthy young woman who could assist you?
A- A Yes, I will. (6)
B- B No, I won�t. (25)



9. If your friends invite you to a party, will you take her along and make your relations public?
A- A No, I won�t. (2)
B- B Yes, I will. (2

10. If you find that she does not have a mature mind and needs you to take care of and concern about her all the time, what will you do?
A- A I will leave her. (
B- B I will continue to stay with her. (23)
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when things come too easy we suspect. Do they have to be complicated before we believe they are for real?