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Maur�cio Sim�o
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 Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 2:10 pm Post subject: Beauty is really basic in a loving relationship? |
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| In my opinion, not. More appreciated things to being in a person exist. E who said that she is necessary to be pretty to love? |
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ad-miral
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| Posted: Fri May 11, 2007 3:08 pm Post subject: |
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Beauty is a gift, like intelligence is a gift. If someone uses it in the right way, he can get advantages. If he uses it in the wrong way, the life will be hard.
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RedRose
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At the beginning, beauty is based on how much a girl can seduce a boy by talking, her appearance, her smiling, her characters ,etc. but after they get into a steady relationship, beauty is based on how much the girl can physically turn the boy on by bathing together, stripping in front of him, exciting screaming and scratching on his back....
Correct me if I am wrong.  sometimes I am too shy to speak up everything out load, you know |
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fa6ma
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| Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 12:06 am Post subject: |
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hello veryone  .. to me beuaty is not everything...it may be a way of attraction but what is more importnat is the personality of that person... 
take an example: a wonderful and beautiful girl that you wish to date her...and when you do you see her so booring ...nothing interesting about her..material gil ....selfish ....is that the beauty that we all want...so the joining of both beauty and good personality is better ....Any one agree with me? 
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ad-miral
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| Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 3:49 am Post subject: |
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| RedRose wrote: |
| sometimes I am too shy to speak up everything out load, you know |
Come on! You don't have to pretend to be anyone who is not you. 
From my point of view, character is the dish, and beauty is the spice.
The spice can only make a good dish more tasty, but if you don't like the dish, a good spice won't rescue too much.
So I agree with fa6ma. But however if I have 2 good dishes, maybe I will choose the spicier one.
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beancurdturtle
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| Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 1:49 pm Post subject: |
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| RedRose wrote: |
| Correct me if I am wrong. sometimes I am too shy to speak up everything out load, you know |
Hmmm... You may be wrong - you sometimes seem to be a coquettish young lady.
| ad-miral wrote: |
| From my point of view, character is the dish, and beauty is the spice. |
I like that explanation.
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RedRose
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| Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 4:01 pm Post subject: |
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| beancurdturtle wrote: |
| RedRose wrote: |
| Correct me if I am wrong. sometimes I am too shy to speak up everything out load, you know |
Hmmm... You may be wrong - you sometimes seem to be a coquettish young lady.
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Really? then thanks for everything
Fortunately, my daughter can't read this forum, otherwise she would think little of me, if she got to know I am not as demure as she thought I was
| beancurdturtle wrote: |
| ad-miral wrote: |
| From my point of view, character is the dish, and beauty is the spice. |
I like that explanation. |
I don't think so. I think character is the image of your ideal woman, but beauty is how you feel when you touch her body and do her. |
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beancurdturtle
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| Posted: Sun May 13, 2007 10:27 pm Post subject: |
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| RedRose wrote: |
| beancurdturtle wrote: |
| ad-miral wrote: |
| From my point of view, character is the dish, and beauty is the spice. |
I like that explanation. |
I don't think so. I think character is the image of your ideal woman, but beauty is how you feel when you touch her body and do her. |
Good character magnifies a person's beauty, and love for someone also magnifies their beauty.
I think you might be surprised at how very beautiful and desirable a plain woman of good character is, to a man who loves her.
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RedRose
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| Posted: Mon May 14, 2007 12:15 am Post subject: |
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| beancurdturtle wrote: |
Good character magnifies a person's beauty, and love for someone also magnifies their beauty. |
If a woman isn't beautiful, then, only a man with bad taste would love her, I think so. we also see some men love some ugly women, I guess that's because those men find those ugly women desirable in a different way.
| beancurdturtle wrote: |
I think you might be surprised at how very beautiful and desirable a plain woman of good character is, to a man who loves her. |
That dose surprise me. |
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hoshi
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Location: At the best place of your dreams :D Loveland
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for me beauty is like this:
1) Perfect (models )
2) cute
3) normal
4) less than normal but more than ugly
5) really ugly
and I take the opportunities with girls who are over or equal to "4" but I prefer number 3 'cause the more beautiful girls are, the more egocentric they feel. and if they feel really cute they can exchange you for another guy easier than a normal girl
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