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It is good to be a parent who concern about their children. But when the parent is carried to the extreme, the result is that they would bring a great effect on their children�s interpersonal development .The overprotective parent try their best to make their children be better than others. They help their children do everything as soon as possible. Not only offer perfect surroundings for the studies, these parents but also take care the children�s daily life well. Take my personal experience for example; I have such overprotective parent. They indeed love me; however, they also give me lots of limitation. It is good to help children study well, but the mire extreme parents sometimes use more fierce matter to help children. Because wanting me to be better than other students, my parent spends a great deal of money to force me to the cram school. They seem ignore to find out the children�s interests in advance. We all need friends to accompany us during the childhood, whereas, the overprotective parent always ban their children to have intimate relationship with their friends. They always think that making friends is a behavior of wasting time. Therefore, these parents� children are not usually good at dealing with the relationship of the classmates. In my opinion, I think these parents can concern about the children�s personality, and the most important of all, they should have a good communication with children instead of just giving children what they own want.