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RedRose
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what's just happening here?? I intended to start a serious topic about perfectionism, now it has turned into a perverted one AGAIN! That's something I wouldn't like to see 
When will we start a really decent topic? is that just a matter of time? |
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ad-miral
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Don't be ridiculous  If you don't like it why have you written
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RedRose
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| Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 12:46 am Post subject: |
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| That's something I wouldn't like to see |
Don't be ridiculous If you don't like it why have you written
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Are you questioning my motivation? what side do you take? |
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ad-miral
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oh yeah sorry I forgot
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RedRose
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| Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 3:41 am Post subject: |
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| oh yeah sorry I forgot |
You don't have to feel sorry. you can do whatever you want on this forum, and do whoever ou want here  |
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ad-miral
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| Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 9:29 am Post subject: |
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hey come on, I have a girlfriend... 
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Bob S.
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| Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 12:30 pm Post subject: Re: Perfectionist |
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I have a friend...he almost got married....he found a terrific girl, and he seemed satisfied with the girl, but he eventually found the girl speaking with food in her mouth, of course, they were over. he is hopeless.
"I don't know exactly. I demand myself to be perfect, and I demand my partner the same, that's my way, I just can't help it." said he. |
Back on your original topic, you must have pity for the poor insane guy. Imagine the hell of living in his own brain that is borderline obsessive compulsive. He can never find peace. Nothing is ever good enough.
Maybe it is for the best that he cannot find a girl. Imagine if he ever had children. What horrible torture it would be for them! 
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RedRose
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| Posted: Sat Jul 07, 2007 2:41 pm Post subject: Re: Perfectionist |
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I have a friend...he almost got married....he found a terrific girl, and he seemed satisfied with the girl, but he eventually found the girl speaking with food in her mouth, of course, they were over. he is hopeless.
"I don't know exactly. I demand myself to be perfect, and I demand my partner the same, that's my way, I just can't help it." said he. |
Back on your original topic, you must have pity for the poor insane guy. Imagine the hell of living in his own brain that is borderline obsessive compulsive. He can never find peace. Nothing is ever good enough.
Maybe it is for the best that he cannot find a girl. Imagine if he ever had children. What horrible torture it would be for them!
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My friend isn't that psychiatrically disordered yet. But he definitely wouldn't be a tolerant father or husband if he gets married. Yeah, I agree that it's the best for him to never find a girlfriend, in that case, there will be at least one woman who won't suffer from perfectionism. |
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