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avolkiteshvara

Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 33 Location: Seattle US
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 6:14 pm Post subject: What does it mean that so many Ex-Pats continue |
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to use Dave's ESL boards. The whole idea behind going abroad is to be immersed in a new culture. But a lot of people send a lot of time on these boards communicating with native English speakers. If going abroad is so great.....why the need to come here?
I am not making a judgement either way. I just want to stir up a little discussion and get people's thoughts. |
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denise

Joined: 23 Apr 2003 Posts: 3419 Location: finally home-ish
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 9:20 pm Post subject: |
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For me, part of it is because I like to hear other people's experiences, just to see if I might want to work in their country or in a similar program. And get advice about living and working conditions. When you've got a specific question and don't know exactly who in your school/community to ask, you can rest assured that there's probably someone on the forum who's got an answer. And part of it is because I really love this job and want to encourage others to give it a try.
And part of it is just plain ol' addiction!
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tedkarma

Joined: 17 May 2004 Posts: 1598 Location: The World is my Oyster
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 10:25 pm Post subject: |
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I agree with Denise.
But . . . particularly on this board - I feel some obligation to help people who are thinking about making the move overseas.
So many people have helped me find jobs, make good choices, figure where to go next - on Dave's! |
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Jizzo T. Clown

Joined: 28 Apr 2005 Posts: 668 Location: performing in a classroom near you!
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 3:54 am Post subject: |
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I enjoy the culture here at Dave's. Lots of knowledgeable people (even though they sometimes get an attitude, myself included!).
This is just another resource that any *professional* would do well to use.
And I'm addicted...
(from a former and maybe-future ex-pat) |
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Gordon

Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Posts: 5309 Location: Japan
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 4:36 am Post subject: |
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Some of us may work in pretty isolated locales and this might be the only or best chance to speak to other teachers who are in similar situations.
If we want to move to a new country, what better place to ask questions and learn? I think over time, it can get addictive too, so not completely healthy. |
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sidjameson
Joined: 11 Jan 2004 Posts: 629 Location: osaka
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 5:32 am Post subject: |
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the ironic thing is that the longer you teach the less you need to prepare. But also the lnger you teach the more likely you are to get work that doesnt require too many teaching hours. The result? A Lot of free time. What of the real benefits over not choosing a "real" career. |
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sidjameson
Joined: 11 Jan 2004 Posts: 629 Location: osaka
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 5:32 am Post subject: |
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the ironic thing is that the longer you teach the less you need to prepare. But also the lnger you teach the more likely you are to get work that doesnt require too many teaching hours. The result? A Lot of free time. One of the real benefits over not choosing a "real" career. |
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Girl Scout

Joined: 13 Jan 2005 Posts: 525 Location: Inbetween worlds
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 6:27 am Post subject: |
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It's a chance to chat with people about different topics. If you talk with your students, you always seem to answer the same question or discuss the same topics. If you talk to your co-works you are sharing the same experience. Again the conversations lack diversity. Here people are having different experiences and live in different areas of the world. Most threads on the board are nonrepetetive. I find it a break from the routine. |
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QatarChic
Joined: 06 May 2005 Posts: 445 Location: Qatar
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 10:14 am Post subject: |
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Agree with what others have said. Several people have given me lots of advice/useful info and I like to do the same. Its also nice to chat with people who are in the same field of work as myself and see what TEFL life is like in other parts of the world.........
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Kent F. Kruhoeffer

Joined: 22 Jan 2003 Posts: 2129 Location: 中国
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 1:06 pm Post subject: hi mom it's me |
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For me, Dave's is something like a surrogate, mobile family.
In fact I've met roughly 10 members and 1 moderator
up close & in person over the past five or six years.
Without exception, they have been very decent, well-read people;
the kind you'd take home to meet mom, if ya know what I mean?
It's nice to be able to share 'war stories' & learn from each other
as we move around from one corner of the globe to another.
The forum allows us to do just that; to stay in touch.
M�nchen, Constanţa, Istanbul, Tokyo, Chon-Ju, Manila ...
from a very chilly New Year's Eve spent on Red Square at -28C
to the chaotic traffic and tropical heat of downtown Bangkok
Dave's is always a welcome calm in the storm.
Cheers !
Thailand teaching and travel resources available here :::: The Master Index Thailand :::: |
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ls650

Joined: 10 May 2003 Posts: 3484 Location: British Columbia
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 5:56 pm Post subject: Re: What does it mean that so many Ex-Pats continue |
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avolkiteshvara wrote: |
If going abroad is so great.....why the need to come here? |
Why are ex-pat bars so successful in foreign countries? Because after being immersed in a foreign culture all day long, folks just want a little taste of their 'homeland'. This is an opportunity to 'escape' from the immersion and b�tch to my compatriots. |
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avolkiteshvara

Joined: 15 Feb 2006 Posts: 33 Location: Seattle US
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 7:00 pm Post subject: |
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I get the whole networking with other teachers and meeting intelligent people aspect.
I just wonder if this is ever like crutch that Expats use when they get "home sick".
I guess what I was trying to bring up.........it seems like there is a threshold at which Expats, either at a conscious or subconscious level, yearn for the familiar, their home. It seems ironic to purposely thrust your self into a new culture only to go pubs, online boards, and other places to talk with other English speakers. I don't think I am exempt from this either. It seems the non-ethnocentric, adventurous image I have of myself, and possibly others, isn't quite what we thought it is. |
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Guy Courchesne

Joined: 10 Mar 2003 Posts: 9650 Location: Mexico City
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 7:13 pm Post subject: |
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I come for the witty banter, but I keep coming back for the Dave's airmiles bonus. |
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wildchild

Joined: 14 Nov 2005 Posts: 519 Location: Puebla 2009 - 2010
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 8:15 pm Post subject: |
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I used to think that it was crazy that one would blast the heater all winter long and then when spring finally comes and the first day that it gets hot (and that is what we have been waiting for all winter) we blast the air conditioner.
Perhaps we need an escape or variation. In a cold environment, you may want to be hot sometimes. But yes, sometimes we may go overboard. I remember once at a restaurant, they blasted the a/c so much that my food got cold before I could finish. Yeah that was kind of crazy: it's like 108 F outside, so one wears as little clothes as possible, yet when you enter a retaurant, you begin to freeze! So yes, we need an escape from the heat sometimes, just not too much cause the food will get cold. |
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Gregor

Joined: 06 Jan 2005 Posts: 842 Location: Jakarta, Indonesia
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 10:03 pm Post subject: |
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The whole idea behind going abroad is to be immersed in a new culture. |
What???
Not true at ALL. I didn't go abroad to become immersed in another culture. In fact, I wasn't particularly interested in the other culture at all. I wanted to improve my Spanish so I chose Mexico, but the reason I became an expat was to get OUT of my OWN native country's culture. That and because I wanted to try out this new teaching ESL thing (new to ME, that is).
The US is absurdly expensive and complicated to live in, and when I found out that there was no reason why I had to deal with that absurdity, I quit doing it. That's all.
Turned out that I DID like learning about languages and culture and life as an expat suited me, but that was certainly not why I did it in the first place.
Are there others like me, or are all of you the adventurous sort? |
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