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Susan WW
Joined: 24 Jul 2007 Posts: 60 Location: Japan
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 3:14 pm Post subject: living and working conditions |
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Anyone who has been working in KSA / arab countries to share this info with me.
Countries I`ve been to,
fully furnished apartment on campus (currently , for the first time, sharing a 5 bedroom house with one female teacher, in residential area)
TV set with cable/sky connection, landline phone and connection, internet connection and PC, whitewares
new
beddings, household appliances ,pots and pans even chopping board
( its so welcoming when provided with body shampoo, and dishwasing liquid)
lunch provided for all staff (international and local food)
( some even provides breakfast)
utilities (receipts attached)deducted from salary.
I never have ideas where to pay these bills.
transportation provided (school van for teachers) or actual costs reimbursed
lunch or dinner parties ( christmas/ sports day,etc) non-locals only, or
all staff
day trips or overnight trips (employer`s expense)
health care 100% ,or I join Government Health care 70% covered
wish to learn local standards before negotiations
Arigatoo |
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Bebsi
Joined: 07 Feb 2005 Posts: 958
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 4:15 pm Post subject: |
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lunch or dinner parties ( christmas/ sports day,etc) non-locals only, or
all staff
day trips or overnight trips (employer`s expense) |
You did say Saudi Arabia, yes Susan?
If I may say so Susan, you really have two preconceptions here:
1. Saudi is an oil-rich Nirvana where just for being there, you are provided with every possible material need and wish;
2. Saudi Arabia culturally is just like everywhere else you've been to. after all, they've got a TEFL industry, so it's just got be like other TEFL destinations, after all that's what TEFL is all about!! Ooooooo-kayyyyyy....!!!!
Susan, do you or can you read? |
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Bob Gorn
Joined: 27 Jun 2007 Posts: 58 Location: gimme three steps....
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 5:34 pm Post subject: |
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Susan, you're going to get whatever they have, regardless of what you "negotiate" with them. They will tell you "yes, yes, of course" to whatever silly thing you request of them, and then it will never appear.
My advice to you,[ if you must go, is to find out exactly what they usually offer and then ask yourself if you can be happy with that.
KSA is not Japan and no one will be intimidated by your presence. Regardless of what they tell you, you are just another foreign guest worker once you get here. And they will discard you quickly if you prove to be too high maintenance.
Your job in Japan sounds great. Why don't you just keep it? |
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Susan WW
Joined: 24 Jul 2007 Posts: 60 Location: Japan
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 9:39 pm Post subject: |
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In Japan, some employers do not provide everything, and new teachers end up settting up their own accomodation (rent plus deposit, key money, gift money to owner), and buying all houshold things. Buying is not a problem, but disposing them of is in Japan. I know teachers who ship everything home on completion of Contract, but I dont feel attached to materials that much.
In othere countries, some teachers do not get provided accomodation or anything.
If one is in TEFL industry long enough regardless of location, and if one has experienced seeing more than one and only contract in lifetime, they should know better.
There are always rooms for negotiation, just want to make sure both parties are on the same page.
Are you implying that Saudi employers are dishonest and just saying things they dont mean??Then what are Contracts for??
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Bob Gorn
Joined: 27 Jun 2007 Posts: 58 Location: gimme three steps....
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 9:56 pm Post subject: |
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I do not mean to imply that Saudis are any more dishonest than others. However, there is a cultural aspect to this that many people interpret as dishonest. Saudis seek to avoid embarrassment and find it uncomfortable to negotiate with a foreign female. Therefore, they will hedge or even misrepresent the truth to avoid conflict. This is true in many countries, even among the Japanese as I understand. However, the Japanese are scrupulously honest in the end, and even go overboard to make sure you are pleased, whereas in KSA it is entirely possible to be misled and even cheated. It would be naive to think that you will be treated the same in Saudi Arabia as you are in Japan.
Shipping things home from Japan is prohibitively expensive, whereas shipping from KSA is quite reasonable. But what does this have to do with your original post? I thought you were asking about possible negotiation items for your contract, not how to get rid of things when you leave. Much as I would like to help you, I find it hard to discern the purpose of your posts.
Than what are contracts for? - you ask. In my experience, in the Gulf, contracts are not truly contracts as most people understand them. They are guidelines that your employer may disregard at his will/convenience. They do not protect you from anything or guarantee you anything.
You can forget about negotiating for food/entertainment. Outside of BAE, I don't think anyone will offer you food, although there may be a small amount provided in your flat for your arrival. The vast majority of people have to pay their own utilities. You may be given a transportation allowance, but most employers will leave you on your own for that. (Yes, even for a single woman who cannot drive legally.)
You can expect a reasonably well-furnished apartment with basic necessities. I would worry more about the condition of the accommodation than anything else. Is it in a compound? How old is it? Is it of safe construction? Is there good security? Do the appliances work? Is it clean enough to be habitable? These are more the issues that teachers in KSA worry about.
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Susan WW
Joined: 24 Jul 2007 Posts: 60 Location: Japan
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 10:07 pm Post subject: |
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Bob Gorn wrote: |
I thought you were asking about possible negotiation items for your contract, not how to get rid of things when you leave. Much as I would like to help you, I find it hard to discern the purpose of your posts. |
I consider myself as one of the new comers to be part of the team, not as a female to start with.
"Negotiate" does not mean "demand" things employers do not usually provide, and shopping for household things is not my cup of tea.
I appreciate your kind help. I doubt Saudi employers will provide unsafe shabby accomodation with well equipped kitchen.
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Bob Gorn
Joined: 27 Jun 2007 Posts: 58 Location: gimme three steps....
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 10:10 pm Post subject: |
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Unfortunately, Susan, you are going into the one part of the world where you will always be considered a female first, and part of the team second. There is no getting around that in KSA. |
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Susan WW
Joined: 24 Jul 2007 Posts: 60 Location: Japan
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 10:21 pm Post subject: |
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Bob Gorn wrote: |
Unfortunately, Susan, you are going into the one part of the world where you will always be considered a female first, and part of the team second. There is no getting around that in KSA. |
Part of the team "Female"  |
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Bob Gorn
Joined: 27 Jun 2007 Posts: 58 Location: gimme three steps....
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 10:25 pm Post subject: |
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I've seen employers in many countries provide unsafe, shabby apartments to teachers. It happens all the time in Korea, for example. It doesn't always happen in KSA, but I know people who have been put in accommodations that were so old and dilapidated that the roof was actually falling in on them. Maintenance is not a strong point in KSA, so make sure you'll be put up in a fairly new place.
Susan, we're not telling you all this to scare you or make fun of you. Saudi Arabia is a place that you really have to go into with eyes wide open. For your own sake, please take the warnings on this board seriously. |
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Susan WW
Joined: 24 Jul 2007 Posts: 60 Location: Japan
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 10:37 pm Post subject: |
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Bob Gorn wrote: |
Susan, you're going to get whatever they have, regardless of what you "negotiate" with them. They will tell you "yes, yes, of course" to whatever silly thing you request of them, and then it will never appear.
My advice to you,[ if you must go, is to find out exactly what they usually offer and then ask yourself if you can be happy with that.
KSA is not Japan and no one will be intimidated by your presence. Regardless of what they tell you, you are just another foreign guest worker once you get here. And they will discard you quickly if you prove to be too high maintenance.
Your job in Japan sounds great. Why don't you just keep it? |
I will keep my re-entry visa (work visa) here. Not sure if returning will be an option, after sending ally my winter clothing to Clothing bin before Saudi trip.
My tribal elder just called me and we discussed other family-related matters.(female first!)
BTW, Bob Gorn, do you realize that females clothing styles are different everywhere.??Even the pattern, colour, materials,shoes, accessories, handbags, Oh you name it. And what about lingerie?? In Japan, you can find pastel colours popular, never black.
Could you also possibly give me advice on skincare range? In air-conditioned rooms, skin gets dehydrated , and outside temperature makes skin shine and oily. Hmmmm, I dont want to get the wrong ones from Duty free shopping.
I only consider this KSA job opportunity to visit Holy place, but not at any cost.
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trapezius

Joined: 13 Aug 2006 Posts: 1670 Location: Land of Culture of Death & Destruction
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 10:42 pm Post subject: |
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You still haven't said which city and which university.
Depending on city, you might need some of that light winter clothing. In some places in KSA you need heavy winter clothing! |
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Bebsi
Joined: 07 Feb 2005 Posts: 958
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 11:13 pm Post subject: |
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At this stage, one can only assume that SusanWW is a troll!!
No one could be that naive, stupid or arrogant, nor could they ignore and indeed, blatantly contradict the well-meant advice of so many others.
Why are we bothering with her, anyway, as she clearly won't listen to anyone? |
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Bob Gorn
Joined: 27 Jun 2007 Posts: 58 Location: gimme three steps....
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 11:16 pm Post subject: |
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I give up now. I've tried to be nice and to help you when others have given up. What are you rambling on about?
Yes, as a male living in the West, I see women's clothing and I realize that clothing differs. What does that have to do with our discussion?
I've heard that they sell some interesting hallucingenic mushrooms in Japan. Have you been visiting the mushroom shops?
Skincare?!? Please find another forum to discuss this issue. Accommodation is an appropriate topic here, but not skincare products. Don't you have any female friends to talk to? Any friends at all? |
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Susan WW
Joined: 24 Jul 2007 Posts: 60 Location: Japan
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 11:19 pm Post subject: |
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Bebsi wrote: |
At this stage, one can only assume that SusanWW is a troll!!
No one could be that naive, stupid or arrogant, nor could they ignore and indeed, blatantly contradict the well-meant advice of so many others.
Why are we bothering with her, anyway, as she clearly won't listen to anyone? |
well, at least I make people worry and concern, and something to write and express and share, which they may never get a chance to do so with people like you. |
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isabel

Joined: 07 Mar 2003 Posts: 510 Location: God's green earth
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Posted: Fri Aug 10, 2007 11:35 pm Post subject: |
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Susan WW wrote: |
Bebsi wrote: |
At this stage, one can only assume that SusanWW is a troll!!
No one could be that naive, stupid or arrogant, nor could they ignore and indeed, blatantly contradict the well-meant advice of so many others.
Why are we bothering with her, anyway, as she clearly won't listen to anyone? |
well, at least I make people worry and concern, and something to write and express and share, which they may never get a chance to do so with people like you. |
This is not a person who has English as a first language.
Let's all hope the person is a troll, and not have her show up at our work place.-^ |
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