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Shaman



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PostPosted: Sat Feb 28, 2004 1:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I agree with Denise that context is key issue. I haven't taught kids in years, so for me the impressionable minds argument is moot (or bollocks). Wink That being pointed out, I think that exempts me from being one of those teachers who sends little foulmouth urchins your way, Arioch36. Wink

I've never made filth-flarn-filth (see Eddie Murphy's Delirious) the focal point of any lesson. Well, I did once, but I'll get to that. If a word or expression comes up, I won't shy away from it. Glossing over a particular word or expression is a disservice to the student. If a student curses and it's a private lesson (which most of mine are), then I take it as a sign of said student's comfort. In a classroom is another situation altogether. Once again, it's a matter of context. Frustration? Fine, just don't make it a habit. Sprucing up a sentence or volleying an ad hominem attack? Unacceptable. Leave it outside.

I had a private student (quiet little Korean girl) who wanted to learn how to swear. Needless to say, I was shocked. It was the last thing I might have expected. But, she was a paying customer, so...

It was the first time I had been asked to teach the taboo tongue, so I had to be careful about it. First, swearing doesn't arise solely out of anger, so the tone of what is said varies. It ranges from shouts of anger to mutters of disgust to peals of laughter etc. When swearing is used sarcastically or dryly, the context is not quite as clear to many L2 students. Second, there's the whole linguistic aspect. Nouns, adjectives, passives etc. Finally, there are certain expressions that seem to be pretty gender specific. That's right, kiddies. Boys and girls swear differently. Who figured?

I must admit, I'd be pretty surprised if I received an essay with swear words in it. I've always stressed to my students that writing is a formal exercise. That also means no using gonna, wanna etc.

Yes, I teach those. Surprised

Shaman
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Deborah



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PostPosted: Sat Feb 28, 2004 4:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wonder if the context issue is partially addressed by this distinction:
are you teaching immigrants (who may have a more pressing need to decipher the language they're encountering on a daily basis) or language students in their home countries - where the perceived need may be less real?
My personal opinion is that swear words, slang, and idioms are all of questionable value unless the student is living (or plans to) in an English-speaking country - in which case it's easier to determine the specific set of stuff (British/American/regional) that is applicable for that student.
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jud



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 29, 2004 2:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Here people are a bit more calm about hearing swear words. There are plenty of words heard on television here that would never be used on American public tv (not to mention *beep*...poor Janet). It's been very useful to me to have them explained. It also helps me to know which NOT to use.

There's a great unit on swearing in a book called, I think "Taboos and Issues." I'll check the publisher and then post it.

Arioch, quite interesting that one cannot say "Jesus Christ" without going to the principal's office and then writing a paper. Here we host the Vatican and yet good church-going people often complain "Madonna", "Christ," etc.

May I say Holy Moses?
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jud



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 29, 2004 2:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Oh heavens to Betsy (hope I'm not offending). I can't believe that the word br..e..a..s...t was bleeped. And if I wanted to speak about my favourite chicken dish?
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 29, 2004 2:57 pm    Post subject: Fowl play Reply with quote

Dear jud,
Yup - and c*cktail or any other use of the "rooster" word. You might want to employ the phrase "chicken bosoms".
Regards,
John
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Ben Round de Bloc



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 29, 2004 2:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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My personal opinion is that swear words, slang, and idioms are all of questionable value unless the student is living (or plans to) in an English-speaking country - in which case it's easier to determine the specific set of stuff (British/American/regional) that is applicable for that student.

- Deborah


I also tend to follow that philosophy when teaching EFL. If students ask about specific examples, I try to explain meanings and uses, but I don't include those things in any of my regular lesson plans. Students do ask what some of these things mean, but not frequently.

When students ask about a particular swear word, slang term, or idiomatic expression, I usually ask them where they heard it. Responses include popular rap songs Evil or Very Mad , conversations with American exchange students, trips to the USA, American TV programs via cable TV, and chatting on the Internet.

Probably the most common source for my students = American movies. Most movies shown locally are American movies in English with Spanish subtitles. Almost all of the harsh words and expressions spoken in the movies are translated into very mild forms in the subtitles. Example: Someone in a movie says, "Get the f*** out of my motherf***in' face, you piece of sh*t!" and it's translated into something the equivalent of, "Get away from me, you irritating person." I'd hate to have one of my students, while on vacation to Disney World in Florida, spout off the movie version to Mickey or Pluto!
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jud



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 29, 2004 6:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

John,

I'll keep you a-bosom of the situation.

Ha ha.

Jud
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saudade



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PostPosted: Sun Feb 29, 2004 11:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I do think it's sometimes important to teach swear words (like immigrants, as noted above). I mean, I think you would occasionally have difficulty as an immigrant in New York City without some of that knowledge. But it is also true that those words carry weight and power (which is why they're swear words in the first place), and that varies based on the culture. So teaching them carries a responsibility. It's not like teaching "have a cow" or "love handles", or even "keep a-bosom of the situation".

Very Happy
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ls650



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 01, 2004 1:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

arioch36 wrote:
The student who swears saying "Jesus Christ" doesn't have to return to my class until he talks to the Dean, the President, writes me a letter, and a paper.


What happens if the student says, say, Buddha or Mohammed in vain?

Do they have to talk to the Dean, the President, write you a letter, and a paper for those two? Shocked
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Deconstructor



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 01, 2004 2:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Swearing is poetry, for those who know how to do it well. And the greatest poetic movie ever: South Park!!!!!!!!!!!

Well, arioch36, I think you ought to remove that giant brick out of your rear and stop sending students to the authorities.

Have a f*cking nice day!!!!!!!!
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denise



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 01, 2004 3:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sigh.

Please don't turn this into an American-bashing thread--it's far too easy to do. Where's the challenge?!?

Besides, you might offend some people who just might happen to agree with you.

d
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 01, 2004 4:16 am    Post subject: Fundamentalists without Borders Reply with quote

Dear Deconstructor,

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Fundamentalism, Christian or otherwise, is not confined to any one country.
Regards,
John
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arioch36



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 02, 2004 4:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

FUBAR ... well the nicer version is "fouled up beyond all recognition.

Well, I would not actually make my students go to the principal's office for swearing with Christ's name. I was being a little trollish. But it was interesting to see how those who like to swear react... with no appreciation for what another person considers important. IS650 asked


Quote:
What happens if the student says, say, Buddha or Mohammed in vain?


Well now, have you ever heard this? Even once? But to answer you ...all swearing is totally unnacceptable to me. I teach that we should show respect for others beliefs. I do agree there may be times when teaching about swearing is neccessary.

Actually, I have never had a students swear in class, accept an occasional "Oh my God", which I explain is quite common spech in America, but that they are using it out of context, and that I also don't want to hear it in my classroom. But I explain to them that this is MY bias, other foreign teachers probably couldn't care less.

Usually when a student has used swear words, such as on the writing papers, it is because her current or previous teacher made a point of being cool and teaching swearing. And still, that the student of that class doesn't understand.

JUD ... you're from Japan? Because I have seen a couple of really bigoted TV shows from that country. Including a comedy with a mother, father, son, daughter, grandfather, where they were trying to be cool and calling each other "nigguh", etc. If anyone in America ever did a TV show about Japanese like that, they would be outraged.


SLAT, Sorry I didn't browse through all the links. What were you trying to say?
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 02, 2004 1:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear arioch36,
My last line, in my reply to Deconstrutor, sums it up, I'd say

"Fundamentalism, Christian or otherwise, is not confined to any one country. "

But now I notice that part of one of his posts has been deleted - either by him or by a Moderator, I assume (although that same part is quoted in denise's reply to him). Personally, I have no quarrel with anyone's religious beliefs, as long as:

1. those beliefs do not mandate persecution of others who believe differently - or who don't believe at all.

2. the believer will accord my beliefs the same respect that I accord his/hers.

Having worked for many years in a country that is a theocracy, one in which saying the wrong thing about one religion or daring to practice another could both send a person to jail, I feel strongly about anyone trying to impose his/her set of beliefs upon others.
Regards,
John
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ls650



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 02, 2004 4:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

arioch36 wrote:
Well, I would not actually make my students go to the principal's office for swearing with Christ's name. I was being a little trollish.


A little...? Neutral
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