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jajdude
Joined: 18 Jan 2003
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 4:51 am Post subject: Korea: Wrong choice for some |
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I have met a few people who left in less than 2 months. If the job is total crap I can understand it. Some barely give it a chance though. A girl showed up about 10 days ago. She's leaving, back to Canada in a few days. She said, "I never appreciated Canada so much until I got here." I think she knew as soon as she got through Incheon airport that she wanted out. ( "Whoops. Guess I made an error in judgement.")
Have you met any people so easily turned off or overwhelmed so quickly by Korea? |
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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: soul of Asia
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 4:56 am Post subject: |
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Someone has ran away from every school I've worked for in Korea. But, never have I met anyone ready to go in 10 days. |
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numazawa

Joined: 20 Mar 2005 Location: The Concrete Barnyard
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 4:56 am Post subject: |
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I have to say, I'm drunk. But even so, I don't have much sympathy for that particular species of dumb. "Oops, wrong country. Wish I'd asked to look at the menu." Right. Excuse me, I need another drink. |
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stevenisi
Joined: 17 Jul 2006
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 5:07 am Post subject: |
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I knew a guy who left the same weekend. Said Korea was more humid than he thought and flew to Taiwan (screwing his school in the process). |
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numazawa

Joined: 20 Mar 2005 Location: The Concrete Barnyard
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 5:12 am Post subject: |
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stevenisi wrote: |
Said Korea was more humid than he thought and flew to Taiwan... |
Famous last words.
"Oh my God, today the Americans obliterated Hiroshima! Boy, I'm sure glad I'd already moved to Nagasaki!" |
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DaeguKid
Joined: 09 Dec 2006 Location: Daegu
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 5:26 am Post subject: |
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We had an English girl who got here on a Thursday, cried her face off, quit on Friday, left on Tuesday. She came for money. My take is give Korea a month, if you still hate it as much as you did the first few days here, its not for you.
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JongnoGuru

Joined: 25 May 2004 Location: peeing on your doorstep
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 5:30 am Post subject: |
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Korea's the wrong choice for most of you. You just can't bear to admit this to yourselves.
I'm enjoying the ride, though. |
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westonw
Joined: 25 Oct 2006 Location: Omungwelume, Namibia
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 5:42 am Post subject: |
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yeah, you have to give a new place at least a month to be giving it even somewhat of a chance. this is the 2nd time i've lived abroad and for me the first few weeks are such a sensory overload home doesn't even cross my mind much. but i guess some peole just aren't cut out for living outside of their element. |
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uberscheisse
Joined: 02 Dec 2003 Location: japan is better than korea.
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 5:45 am Post subject: |
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i like it here but it's less than optimum. it's a nice choice over canada because canada is dull as paint. i'll be moving on soon enough. |
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gmat

Joined: 29 Jan 2003
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 5:49 am Post subject: |
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uber: where are you going? You always seemed to be walking around with some fine K-girls in Apgu  |
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bosintang

Joined: 01 Dec 2003 Location: In the pot with the rest of the mutts
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 6:27 am Post subject: Re: Korea: Wrong choice for some |
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jajdude wrote: |
Have you met any people so easily turned off or overwhelmed so quickly by Korea? |
I think one thing about Korea is there are no brakes to someone coming over here. Things happen fast, and when someone is looking for a job, employers do not double and triple-check whether these people are seriously committed and suitable for this life. When you apply for jobs you only ever hear "YES! YES! YES! COME OVER HERE ASAP!". |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 6:44 am Post subject: |
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I've known three examples of people who left early.
1) A really aggressive vegan dude who lost 20 pounds in 2 months. He was always picking fights. Once he was outside the 7-11 in Hongdae talking with some other foreigner about how all white girls in this country are prostitutes. One white girl walked by and he stabbed a finger in her chest and said "*beep*!" She turned out to be a soldier and had a lot of friends backing her up. I wish my friends didn't defuse the situation.
2) The lead singer of the band Drowningman. He came here, started talking about how he was going to be a long-termer in his first week, got addicted to painkillers, borrowed money from my friends, and left after a couple months.
3) An 18-year-old girl who worked with me at my first job. Our boss hated her because she was young, had a tattoo, and smoked. She left on her one-month anniversary at my advice. |
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crazylemongirl

Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Location: almost there...
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 6:46 am Post subject: |
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I think one thing about Korea is there are no brakes to someone coming over here. Things happen fast, and when someone is looking for a job, employers do not double and triple-check whether these people are seriously committed and suitable for this life. When you apply for jobs you only ever hear "YES! YES! YES! COME OVER HERE ASAP!". |
Actually the employees should be doing the same thing. Am I really suited for doing this? Am I prepared for the culture shock? But I think a lot just end up jumping into a position and then once they actually get here freak out. I know I did. However, I gritted my teeth for a few months and eventually have come to love Korea. But a lot of people can't see past the initial 'WTF'
RACETRAITOR wrote: |
I've known three examples of people who left early.
1) A really aggressive vegan dude who lost 20 pounds in 2 months. He was always picking fights. Once he was outside the 7-11 in Hongdae talking with some other foreigner about how all white girls in this country are prostitutes. One white girl walked by and he stabbed a finger in her chest and said "*beep*!" She turned out to be a soldier and had a lot of friends backing her up. I wish my friends didn't defuse the situation.
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I would have loved to see that guy get beaten up by a girl |
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005 Location: the crib
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 7:06 am Post subject: |
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JongnoGuru wrote: |
Korea's the wrong choice for most of you. You just can't bear to admit this to yourselves.
I'm enjoying the ride, though. |
Anyway how long do you have to be outside of your home country before the government will grant you amnesty for a felony? Something like 30 years? |
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jay-shi

Joined: 09 May 2004 Location: On tour
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Posted: Wed Jan 10, 2007 7:07 am Post subject: |
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Korea is wrong for some.
Some are wrong for Korea.
I've seen the good and the bad , employee and employer wise.
It's dealt with on a case to case basis, I think. |
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