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When 12+ hours of school, Hangwon and homework isn't enough

 
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going_places



Joined: 10 Mar 2006
Location: NY, NY

PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 3:18 am    Post subject: When 12+ hours of school, Hangwon and homework isn't enough Reply with quote

There's always this for a competitive edge:


http://www.nytimes.com/2007/01/22/world/asia/22camp.html?ex=1327122000&en=cbd956ebb61dc631&ei=5088&partner=rssnyt&emc=rss
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Col.Brandon



Joined: 09 Aug 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 3:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm in two minds about this. I've always advocated military training as a good way to build discipline and self-respect, but ya gotta feel for the poor litlle buggers.

Ah well, if they resent their parents too much they can always just leave them to rot when they get old.


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VirginIslander



Joined: 24 May 2006
Location: Busan

PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 4:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is why Americans have football and the rest of the English speaking world have rugby.
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Woland



Joined: 10 May 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 5:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

NYTimes wrote:
"We have parents who lure their children here by telling them that they were going on vacation to the beach,� said Lt. Byun Jin-seok. �Their parents drop the kids here and practically run away.�


Yeah, that's the kind of relationship I want to have with my children.
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cubanlord



Joined: 08 Jul 2005
Location: In Japan!

PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 5:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Many children today do not appreciate what they have nor do they have an understanding of what it means to work hard (much of this can also be said about adults, but that's another topic in itself). These types of camps help the children understand what it means to "work hard". To just throw your child into it for the sake of "cuniang" is wrong. Though, for the sake of saving your child from a terrible future? I support it entirely. I guess you can chaulk up my opinion to my upbringing. I did not have a silver spoon in MY mouth; had to work for everything. Do I regret it? Not one cotton-picking second! Working hard builds character, respect, and overall self-esteem.
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Hater Depot



Joined: 29 Mar 2005

PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 5:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

On the other hand the kind of parent so hastily and by tricking the kid is probably not a good parent... they probably think shipping the kid off for a week will be some magic trick to undo their bad parenting which will continue when he gets home. Plus I wonder why the article mentioned kids who play computer games too much instead of kids joining gangs.

And for such a short-term program I doubt it has much effect anyway. Here's one example of another approach.

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/localnews/2003462221_monk05m.html

Now that was a kid who really needed an intervention.
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cubanlord



Joined: 08 Jul 2005
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PostPosted: Mon Jan 22, 2007 6:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hater Depot wrote:
On the other hand the kind of parent so hastily and by tricking the kid is probably not a good parent... they probably think shipping the kid off for a week will be some magic trick to undo their bad parenting which will continue when he gets home. Plus I wonder why the article mentioned kids who play computer games too much instead of kids joining gangs.

And for such a short-term program I doubt it has much effect anyway. Here's one example of another approach.

http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/localnews/2003462221_monk05m.html

Now that was a kid who really needed an intervention.


Agreed. My response was made under the assumption that the parents have tried their best with their child (i.e. good parenting at home, sustained periods of intervention when the child is bad, etc.), yet, there were no positive results.
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