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[fustiancorduroy]

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[Ya-ta Boy]

Whew! It was a relief that you are just asking how to meet women and not about asking where you can become a eunuch, which is what I thought you meant by 'alleviate'.

[crazylemongirl]

Ummm would you like fries with your girlfriend?

[Demonicat]

DO you want a girl or a f-buddy?

For a girl try going to some nice clubs in Itaewon on a saturday where you can actually talk, example: Scrooges, Dolce Vita, Wolfhounds.

For a f-buddy, dig on polly's, the loft, or helios on a thursday night.

[Hyeon Een]

Tell the Koreans that you know that you'd like to go on a blind date. Hopefully they'll set you up. The best way to meet good girls is through third parties rather than in a bar or nightclub. Either that or join some kind of club like martial arts or something.

Or try a language exchange. I also met a couple of cool girls through koreanfriendfinder.com and I live in a small city.. should be much easier in Seoul.. though from what I've heard they might not always be the best girls.

Oh and I was looking at www.couchsurfing.com and there were some hot girls located in Seoul who wanted to meet for coffee and practice talking to foreigners.

I haven't spent much time in Seoul yet but I'm moving there in a month and I anticipate it being ridiculously easy to find women. It's not too hard down here in the sticks so Seoul must be much easier..

Maybe you need to be more handsome =) Oh and making 'funny' jokes about how great Japan is will likely turn most Korean women off.

[Demonicat]

I've heard alot of people suggest language exchanges, clubs, bookstores, and the like- but I have NEVER met anyone who actually met someone that way. Clubs are the way to go, most people want to meet someone there, and those who don't won't get offended.

[Adventurer]

[DaeguKid]

www.ublove.com
take your pick and say hello.
Good luck
DK

[kingplaya4]

Does UB Love have a way to find out what city they live in? I live in Daegu and it would be a waste of my time contacting people in Seoul.

[djsmnc]

It has been seven months already?

Wow....time to start looking at Thailand

[badfish]

a magician never reveals his secrets

[bobbyhanlon]

[VanIslander]

[DanielP]

Hey Fustiancudoroy,

In my experience, sometimes, struggling with dating is like struggling in quicksand: The harder you fight it and are desperate, the worse off you are. I recommend not needing a date that much, or women for that matter (in that area of your life).

You need to work on yourself. Work out. Take a martial art. Learn Hangul. Learn how to dance salsa, etc.. Enjoy yourself. Women are attracted to the laid back person with lots of things going for him.

This also helps during every stage of the date: IF you are enjoying yourself and like yourself, won't be as needy for any outcome, thus you won't be stressed out and can genuinely enjoy your company and things will flow smoothly.

"pretty, intelligent, witty,... English-speaking girl who actually wants to... visit art museums" <<< Make yourself what you want to have. You want those kinds of women? Then build yourself to attract them in your life: Dress more classily (pretty), learn more (intelligent), take an improv class (witty) and go to art museums. Generally, bookstores have women of that caliber. You will love every step of improving yourself, and women will notice.

Of course, I walk my talk (I'm 23 as well). I've always had more success with dating and women when I was actually not trying as hard to get them.

Try it out! It'll work!

Daniel

[thebum]