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regicide



Joined: 01 Sep 2006
Location: United States

PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2007 3:05 am    Post subject: You didn't play that right! Reply with quote

Situation: Playing poker with" friends"

You win: but somehow it wasn't the way they would have played the hand.

Result: Anger from the losing player. And it wasn't the first time from this group.

I don't get it. They were either bluffed out, were trying to bluff. Whatever. It's poker, cards , gambling.

I thought that when you lose you supposed to be knocked down a notch or two; and feeling bad about being stupid enough to lose? Where is this latching out and blaming thing coming from?

The next Cho?


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Bibbitybop



Joined: 22 Feb 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2007 6:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Were they angry b/c they were drunk?

Don't they understand poker?
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EFLtrainer



Joined: 04 May 2005

PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2007 7:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

regi, it was because they've read all the books and expect you to play "classic" poker. This is my theory as to why so many inexperienced people have done so well in recent years.
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mikowee



Joined: 03 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2007 10:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's a common reaction for newbies learning the game and the so-called 'right' plays. Controlling your emotions is always the hardest part of playing poker, at least for me. My friends and I have experienced plenty of suckouts and have been on tilt countless times. You can't get completely immune to it, but it does mellow out over time.
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Young FRANKenstein



Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)

PostPosted: Sun May 06, 2007 11:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

EFLtrainer wrote:
regi, it was because they've read all the books and expect you to play "classic" poker. This is my theory as to why so many inexperienced people have done so well in recent years.

I agree. That's the only thing that explains how Jennifer Tilly is a world poker champion.
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regicide



Joined: 01 Sep 2006
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PostPosted: Mon May 07, 2007 2:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

EFLtrainer wrote:
regi, it was because they've read all the books and expect you to play "classic" poker. This is my theory as to why so many inexperienced people have done so well in recent years.


Another aspect of the game I would like to address is the pace. I can not remember such impatience when I used to play poker back home with friends. How can you make an immediate decision in some situations? In blackjack it is automatic for me and I know what to do without hesitation, but I am just not there yet in poker, and also, I have seen more experienced players hesitate in some situations. Is there any time limit in the rules? What is the deal on this impatience?

The level of rudeness amazes me for a simple game. For people making a lot of money where this can not be a big deal moneywise, where is the intensity coming from?

I don't get uptight over a $50 pot. After playing the forex market for big bucks, as well as stock option and stock day trading, I just don't get a big rush over a low limit game like these. But I don't want to make a rash decision either, and I am not talking about minutes, just a few extra seconds without a rude comment from some grown adult about how long I am taking.
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The_Conservative



Joined: 15 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Mon May 07, 2007 10:09 pm    Post subject: Re: You didn't play that right! Reply with quote

regicide wrote:
Situation: Playing poker with" friends"

You win: but somehow it wasn't the way they would have played the hand.

Result: Anger from the losing player. And it wasn't the first time from this group.

?



You need some new "friends".
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Young FRANKenstein



Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)

PostPosted: Mon May 07, 2007 11:34 pm    Post subject: Re: You didn't play that right! Reply with quote

regicide wrote:
You win: but somehow it wasn't the way they would have played the hand.

Result: Anger from the losing player. And it wasn't the first time from this group.

If you won, then exactly how did you not play it right. Sounds like you played it perfectly.

As for the getting angry if you "take too long"... I'd do it deliberately every time just to get them riled. A riled opponent makes a lot more stupid mistakes than some calm and focused. Emotional decisions are bad decisions when it comes to poker. Well, bad for them, anyway; good for me.
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Drunken Monkey



Joined: 17 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Tue May 08, 2007 12:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds to me as though the people you are playing with need to learn a bit more themselves.

New / bad players in poker are known as fish, and there is a term "dont tap the tank" this means if a fish makes a bad play and takes money off you then keep quiet, or even congratulate them, this will encourage them to keep playing and the next time he makes the same "mistake" you can take the money back...and hopefully more.

If you "tap the tank" like these guys are doing, the chance are the new player wont want to play anymore and their money is lost for good.

I suggest you get a new group of players to play with. If not next time they get mad at you just tell them "dont tap the tank!" and smile, that should really wind them up and put them on tilt!
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regicide



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PostPosted: Tue May 08, 2007 1:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Drunken Monkey wrote:
If you "tap the tank" like these guys are doing, the chance are the new player wont want to play anymore and their money is lost for good.




Your comments are interesting because I actually walked off the game with nearly 40% of the original buy in( of the whole table) it left them with just 60% of the money to fight over, after the third , and very angry comments about my play. ( wins) I will never play with these guys again so their money is indeed lost forever. The reason that I left is because I could have lost everything if I continued to play because I was riled. Plus I was not having a good time anymore.

The guy actually screamed as I was cashing out" now he is using this as an excuse to leave the table" The guy has issues and the look on his face when I went All-In was scary. " you slow played me" he said. Actually, I did not. My hand didn't work out and I was bluffing. Didn't tell him that because I thought I was still going to stay in the game.

There was so much table talk about the details of every hand. I thought you were not supposed to do that.
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Young FRANKenstein



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PostPosted: Tue May 08, 2007 1:38 am    Post subject: