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It's like "M-ness" ...?

 
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Mix1



Joined: 08 May 2007

PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 7:22 am    Post subject: It's like "M-ness" ...? Reply with quote

check out this article from Chosunilbo, I found it a bit strange. Like a newly manufactured concept ripe for market exploitation or something... or a genuine trend?

Half of Korean Men Say They're 'M-ness' People

Have you heard about the word "M-ness"? This newly-coined term combines the letter M for "men" and ness for "character". The word refers to a new type of man who is different from the stereotypical male who is overly concerned with power and honor.
A survey has found that half of Korean men think of themselves as M-ness people. Some 48 percent of respondents said they are M-ness in a survey of 923 male office workers in their 20s and 30s by job search website JobKorea (www.jobkorea.co.kr).

The result means that half of Korean men think they are active at work and considerate to others at the same time. Interestingly, respondents had different views about M-ness according to the type of workplace.

While 69.2 percent of employees of foreign companies said they are M-ness, only 44.8 percent of workers at small-to-medium size companies said they are M-ness. A JobKorea staffer said, "Generally, the atmosphere in foreign companies is softer than that at other companies. I think that fact played a part in the result."

M-ness people are also active consumers. In the survey, some 45.4 percent of respondents said they spend money on clothes and skin care services. The number of respondents who said they like shopping was 51.9 percent, and some 67.5 percent said they are very interested in raising children and doing housework.

Recently retailers have been trying to attract the M-ness category. Shopping malls have expanded their male products departments and baby goods companies are holding events for fathers to join in. The phenomenon is coinciding with a change in how traditional gender roles are perceived in Korea
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PimpofKorea



Joined: 09 Dec 2006
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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 7:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

As if the men in Korea didn't look gay enough..............
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cdninkorea



Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 7:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This sounds a lot like the whole metrosexual thing.
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princess



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia

PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 8:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

OK. So some 45.4% of men surveyed said they spend money on clothes/skincare services. Doesn't the cheapest guy ever still buy at least 1 piece of clothing and something to wash his face with, even if it does only happen twice a year? Laughing Whatever. Surveys are only a small percentage of the population anyways. Rolling Eyes Tell me what walking, breathing guy or gal NEVER spends money on clothes/skincare? Even the biggest cheapo tightwad has to let go of some of those greenbacks sometime.
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Nicco61



Joined: 06 May 2007
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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 1:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I personally think this is not just a Korean issue. Men have been becoming femenized all over the world.






http://www.natall.com/free-speech/fs9710a.html

http://www.worldandi.com/public/2001/October/sax.html
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Wrench



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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 1:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

they should be G-ness.

G=GHAY.
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Young FRANKenstein



Joined: 02 Oct 2006
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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 5:05 pm    Post subject: Re: It's like "M-ness" ...? Reply with quote

Mix1 wrote:
Have you heard about the word "M-ness"? This newly-coined term combines the letter M for "men" and ness for "character". The word refers to a new type of man who is different from the stereotypical male who is overly concerned with power and honor.
A survey has found that half of Korean men think of themselves as M-ness people.

Different from the stereotypical Korean male? Half of them think like this? Pfft! More like half of them SAY they think like this, but really they are still steaotypical males.

cdninkorea wrote:
This sounds a lot like the whole metrosexual thing.

Metrosexual is just a new word for the old concept of the "sharp dressed man".
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yingwenlaoshi



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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 5:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think that the bride and the groom should both wear wedding gowns. It's suuuuuuuuch an important thing to the men to get married. It annoys me.

"I want my wife to be thin. I don't care if I die young, as long as I'm married first. I weigh 50 kilos." Fkn pansies.
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Qinella



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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 6:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

princess wrote:
Whatever. Surveys are only a small percentage of the population anyways. Rolling Eyes


Classic!! Laughing


I, too, am skeptical of this survey, but not because it didn't poll every single man in Korea.
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yingwenlaoshi



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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 7:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Qinella wrote:
princess wrote:
Whatever. Surveys are only a small percentage of the population anyways. Rolling Eyes


Classic!! Laughing


I, too, am skeptical of this survey, but not because it didn't poll every single man in Korea.


Awww. It's true love.

Princess and Quiff Fella up a tree.
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twg



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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 8:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

cdninkorea wrote:
This sounds a lot like the whole metrosexual thing.

I disagree. This reads more like the whole, "Leave the wives to clean the house and raise kids while me and my coworkers go bone hookers" thing is starting to fall out of favor with young Korean guys. The skin care stuff was pretty much an aside.

Considering how the men back home actively participate in the raising of their families, (As presumably the fathers of a lot of the guys here did as well) this should be seen as a positive thing and not dismissed as "gay-boy metroseuxality"
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Young FRANKenstein



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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 10:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

twg wrote:
cdninkorea wrote:
This sounds a lot like the whole metrosexual thing.

I disagree. This reads more like the whole, "Leave the wives to clean the house and raise kids while me and my coworkers go bone hookers" thing is starting to fall out of favor with young Korean guys.

I'll believe it when I see it.
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twg



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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 11:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sadly, I have no whoremonger demographics to argue it either way. But I was just pointing out that the article didn't come across as it's been portrayed thus far.
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dogshed



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PostPosted: Sat May 26, 2007 12:20 am    Post subject: Re: It's like "M-ness" ...? Reply with quote

Young FRANKenstein wrote:
but really they are still steaotypical males.


Maybe you can find it on youtube but back in the day Saturday Night Live did a skit where a "macho" man isn't doing so well. The man says that women no longer want phony machismo but instead they want phony sensativity. He then pitches the Alan Alda Guide To Phony Sensativity.
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