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6 months down and forever to go

 
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MANDRL



Joined: 13 Oct 2006
Location: South Korea

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 4:18 am    Post subject: 6 months down and forever to go Reply with quote

My fiancee and I have been in Korea for a little more than 6 months now and we are starting to get the itch to go home and are becoming more annoyed by little things here and there. I guess our 'honeymoon' and novelty period have worn off. Our situation at work is alright, things are always changing and that gets annoying but manageable, our location is great and our apartment is awesome. However, we are growing weary of this place and were wondering if the 6 month mark is the usual time for this transformation to take place.
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Paji eh Wong



Joined: 03 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 4:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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However, we are growing weary of this place and were wondering if the 6 month mark is the usual time for this transformation to take place.


Yes. You are right on schedule.
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newintown



Joined: 01 Jan 2007

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 4:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

know how you feel. we are approaching 8 months, and the 12 month mark can't come quick enough. thats more to do with our school though. we've been treated like shite, and despite how much we love our host country, having a bad time with work really takes away from the rest.
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Natalie



Joined: 16 Apr 2007

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 5:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes. 6 months was my turning point.

Luckily I turned back again and like Korea again Wink
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blaseblasphemener



Joined: 01 Jun 2006
Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 5:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You're over-analyzing your situation. Things are never as bad, or good, as they appear. Read some books, call some friends on Skype, give yourself a shake. This ain't a rough gig, so at worst, think of it as a life experience. When you look back in a few years, ask yourself, what will you remember as being so difficult or bad about your situation? If you can't name something significant, then you're probably over reacting.
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 8:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

blaseblasphemener wrote:
You're over-analyzing your situation. Things are never as bad, or good, as they appear.


Excellent point.

If everything was dandelions back home, MANDRL, I don't think you would've packed up your bags and hauled off to a place no one's ever heard of. A lot of times people are shocked at how unexcited they are when they get back home, expecting giggles and thrills and it's just ho-hum.
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canuckistan
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Joined: 17 Jun 2003
Location: Training future GS competitors.....

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 8:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stash the cash--it's a wonderful reward for all the inconvenience.
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Snowmeow



Joined: 03 Oct 2005
Location: pc room

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 9:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

A funny thing - both times when I came home from Korea, I started to look at my time there a lot differently than I did when I actually lived there. It was pretty good overall (warning, I am in my rosy, home from Korea phase)

Just try your best to do things that you think you'd be doing at home this time of year
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Brady



Joined: 25 Jul 2006
Location: Bucheon

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 12:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The worst for me was around ten months, when you start to make plans to go home but you realize you can't move for another excruciating two months. Hang in there.
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Vancouver



Joined: 12 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 1:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Natalie wrote:
Yes. 6 months was my turning point.

Luckily I turned back again and like Korea again Wink
And I like your avatar Very Happy
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