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My student refused to use a pink pencil

 
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Masta_Don



Joined: 17 Aug 2006
Location: Hyehwa-dong, Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 12:30 am    Post subject: My student refused to use a pink pencil Reply with quote

This blew my mind. A kindergardener, five or so, didn't bring his pencil to class (a class consisting of only him). So I handed him the one off the floor. He refused to use it. I asked him why. While he started spouting Korean at me I figured it was something along the lines of 'it's dirty'. Then I heard it - pink-u. What?

I raced to my Korean coworker and asked her just what the hell was going on. She seemed unphased and coolly replied that young Korean kids and older, ajossi-aged men don't like pink becuz it's feminine. Trying to contain myself I inquired about all the men wearing pink shirts, that sea of pink I wallow thru everyday of my life in Korea. She said it's an age thing; young and old don't like pink but those in the middle do and even flaunt it. I was baffled and had to sit down. She went on to say that when they get older they won't like pink again, reverting back viewing it as something simply for women. According to her, it's not generational, but age related. Korean males, in general, won't wear pink, then wear it and then not wear it. That's when everything went black.
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tomato



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: I get so little foreign language experience, I must be in Koreatown, Los Angeles.

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 1:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

We've heard of a Black militant group called the Black Panthers,
we've heard of a White racist group called the White Panthers,
and we've heard of a pressure group, composed of elderly people, called the Grey Panthers.
A perfect name for a gay rights group would be the Pink Panthers.
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Yesterday



Joined: 15 Aug 2003
Location: Land of the Morning DongChim (Kancho)

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 3:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm sorry - it must have been one of my ex-students...

I always tease the boys who have pink pencils and pink pencil cases....

AFTER that - my boy-students refuse to touch anything pink....

sorry - I really should stop doing it...
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pest2



Joined: 01 Jun 2005
Location: Vancouver, Canada

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 3:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

wont use a pink pencil???? sheesh, thats gay.
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oneofthesarahs



Joined: 05 Nov 2006
Location: Sacheon City

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 4:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My students are like that too. I have a box of pink and blue scissors. The boys will fall over each other to avoid getting the pink handled scissors. I like to use it as a punishment tactic. The noisest boy gets the pink scissors.
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princess



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 5:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, some of my kindy boys wear pink shirts. When i tell them their shirts are nice, they don't seem to mind.
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Chris2007



Joined: 20 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 5:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

oneofthesarahs wrote:
My students are like that too. I have a box of pink and blue scissors. The boys will fall over each other to avoid getting the pink handled scissors. I like to use it as a punishment tactic. The noisest boy gets the pink scissors.


As a personal preference I don't wear pink but I hate people making judgments about who should wear what, or what color pencil/scissors a person should use. Its a freaking pencil!! If a person wants to use or wear something pink, or not, then so what? Judgemental people suck.
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spliff



Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 6:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow, great thread.... Rolling Eyes
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 7:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You have a Korean coworker that knows the word 'flaunt'? Shocked
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Jellypah



Joined: 27 Oct 2004
Location: ROK

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 9:26 am    Post subject: Re: My student refused to use a pink pencil Reply with quote

Masta_Don wrote:
I was baffled and had to sit down,.....That's when everything went black.


Orrrrrr,....did it go PINK? Drama Queen!
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yingwenlaoshi



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
Location: ... location, location!

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 9:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The in-between aged males wear pink to emulate the princesses to receive acceptance. They see the hollier than though female's actions and speech and copy them in order to feel that they are closer to marriage.

Then they jerk off.
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The Perfect Cup of Coffee



Joined: 17 Jun 2007

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 12:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good for those kindergartners. The last thing some boys here needs is more encouragement to dress like some androgynous flamer. I wonder what Nork refugees think when they see state of masculinity in this country? Probably just shake their head and wished they launched a second war and won.
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sojourner1



Joined: 17 Apr 2007
Location: Where meggi swim and 2 wheeled tractors go sput put chug alugg pug pug

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 9:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

All my students are picky as hell about what pencil they use. If you force a pencil on them they don't like, then they hate you. The pencil you give them is never good enough, even if it is the best pencil. It drives me nuts.
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pkang0202



Joined: 09 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Fri Aug 31, 2007 10:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

These are kids. I stayed away from anything pink when I was in elementary school.

Is this really an issue?

Go to any kids/baby store anywhere. What color is the stuff for girls and what color is the stuff for boys???

Also, people who wear pink shirts are made fun of. It amazes that an entire University Campus wears pink shirts. This campus is the University of Virginia. Here is what a UVa guy wears:

2 collared shirts, because just 1 isn't enough. Both collars popped up and the outer shirt is pink. In order to be "cool and hip" they will wear sandals (most likely Birkenstock) no matter what the weather is.

If you think only Koreans wear pink shirts, I dare any of you to go to Charlottesville, Virginia and step onto the campus of UVa.
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