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		oldfatfarang
 
 
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				 Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:37 pm    Post subject: USA Gestures | 
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				Need help please. 
 
Please describe the gestures Americans use for saying, 
 
(1) "Hello" and (2) "Goodbye". 
 
 
My visuals show: "Hello" as an raised hand - palm facing out - and fingers wide apart. Is the hand moving when saying Hello?
 
 
Many thanks.
 
PS: I've already heard all the gesture jokes from my students. | 
			 
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		Masta_Don
 
  
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				 Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:42 pm    Post subject:  | 
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				| Gonna be different for different people but I don't think many would say 'fingers wide apart'.  More like loose. | 
			 
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		oldfatfarang
 
 
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				 Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:52 pm    Post subject:  | 
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				Thanks. What's the gesture for goodbye then?
 
 
Hand up, palm facing out, fingers loose ???? (or closed?????), and waving side to side ???? | 
			 
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		unknown9398
 
  
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				 Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:52 pm    Post subject:  | 
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				Usually, we prefer to hold our hand up with the palm facing inward, the middle finger pointing toward straight up and the remaining fingers held tightly beneath the thumb.    | 
			 
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		waynehead
 
 
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				 Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:59 pm    Post subject:  | 
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				| I don't know about you guys but I always pull my pants down and moon people when I say goodbye. | 
			 
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		Jizzo T. Clown
 
  
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				 Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 11:03 pm    Post subject:  | 
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	  Usually, we prefer to hold our hand up with the palm facing inward, the middle finger pointing toward straight up and the remaining fingers held tightly beneath the thumb.    | 
	 
 
 
 
         
 
 
Hand up, palm out, fingers loose, stationary. For hello and goodbye. If I feel really comfortable with someone I'll point at them and do a "bang-bang" gesture. What do they do in England, raise one eyebrow and nod? | 
			 
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		Ya-ta Boy
 
 
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				 Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 12:51 pm    Post subject:  | 
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				Hello = hand up, palm out and a slight left-right waggle (waggle is optional)
 
 
Goodbye = pretty much the same, but more of a definite waggle. If the person leaving is a small child, they get the fingers bending and waggling up and down. | 
			 
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		oldfatfarang
 
 
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				 Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 7:29 pm    Post subject:  | 
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	  | Jizzo T. Clown wrote: | 
	 
	
	  
 
	  | unknown9398 wrote: | 
	 
	
	  Usually, we prefer to hold our hand up with the palm facing inward, the middle finger pointing toward straight up and the remaining fingers held tightly beneath the thumb.    | 
	 
 
 
 
         
 
 
Hand up, palm out, fingers loose, stationary. For hello and goodbye. If I feel really comfortable with someone I'll point at them and do a "bang-bang" gesture. What do they do in England, raise one eyebrow and nod? | 
	 
 
 
 
Sorry, don't know about the Brits (I haven't been there since I was a kid). But in my slice of paradise, greetings can be varied and subtle. 
 
 
Hello: Hand raised,  (can be outstretched) palm facing out. 
 
 
Hello: hand raised, fist clenched with thumbs up and index finger pointed skyward (sortofa "Hey Dude," thing). You can make a mouth click thing too (for friends).  Index finger can be pointed at the person if you know them well. 
 
 
Hello: A big smile and a head nod. 
 
 
Many variations - and - again - very subtle in native populations. Some of our cultures just imperceptively raise their head - and lift their eyes a fraction (that's usually for very cool guys or gang members).  They're acknowledging you as a person (very important in our country) but also saying : "Don't mess with me," "You're not that important to me."
 
 
And, of course, a simple "Hi" or "Hello" or a smile is OK, too. | 
			 
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		dogshed
 
  
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				 Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 7:54 pm    Post subject:  | 
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				| Remember Herb from WKRP? | 
			 
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		oldfatfarang
 
 
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				 Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:48 pm    Post subject:  | 
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	  | Remember Herb from WKRP? | 
	 
 
 
 
Sorry, I can't understand this reply??? Can you please elaborate? | 
			 
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		nobbyken
 
  
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				 Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:57 pm    Post subject:  | 
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				I find all the children lifting their hands to say hello, just a little bit strange.
 
 
A hand wave to get somebodies attention, but if you already have eye contact; then a smile and nod of the head should be OK.
 
 
If I walk into school and have 40 students in different groups saying hello, then it is very strange to wave back 40 times.
 
 
I normally just acknowledge people using my hand, but keeping my small wave at waste height.
 
 
Sure, wave if it's someone you haven't seen in a while. | 
			 
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		cubanlord
 
  
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				 Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 9:57 pm    Post subject:  | 
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				| I am sure that if you contact Republican Senator Larry Craig from The United States, he'll be able to help you out with a few hand gestures. | 
			 
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		contrarian
 
 
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				 Posted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 10:37 pm    Post subject:  | 
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				The bird is the word.  Also known as the one finger salute.
 
 
Darned near got me killed on my only trip to Britain.  I was listening to some Ayrab at Hyde Park speakers corner.  He said something really stupid and I gave him the bird with "Italian" emphasis.  [The entire forearm upraised middle finger extended and smack the crook of your elbow with your other hand.]
 
 
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		cbclark4
 
  
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				 Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 2:29 am    Post subject:  | 
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				If close enough a handshake is used for greeting (without the finger wiggle).
 
 
If your yelling down the hall or out the bus window the wave is appropriate.
 
 
In a mens room the nod and mumble is preffered, the toe tap is not recommended. | 
			 
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		MarionG
 
 
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				 Posted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 3:35 am    Post subject:  | 
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				Larry Craig?  Hand gestures? I thought it was foot tapping. Oh well.
 
 
Strangest thing about that was that somebody's tax dollars are paying a cop to tap back...go figure. | 
			 
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