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oldfatfarang



Joined: 19 May 2005
Location: On the road to somewhere.

PostPosted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:37 pm    Post subject: USA Gestures Reply with quote

Need help please.
Please describe the gestures Americans use for saying,
(1) "Hello" and (2) "Goodbye".

My visuals show: "Hello" as an raised hand - palm facing out - and fingers wide apart. Is the hand moving when saying Hello?

Many thanks.
PS: I've already heard all the gesture jokes from my students.
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Masta_Don



Joined: 17 Aug 2006
Location: Hyehwa-dong, Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gonna be different for different people but I don't think many would say 'fingers wide apart'. More like loose.
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oldfatfarang



Joined: 19 May 2005
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PostPosted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks. What's the gesture for goodbye then?

Hand up, palm facing out, fingers loose ???? (or closed?????), and waving side to side ????
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unknown9398



Joined: 03 Nov 2006
Location: Yeongcheon, S. Korea

PostPosted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Usually, we prefer to hold our hand up with the palm facing inward, the middle finger pointing toward straight up and the remaining fingers held tightly beneath the thumb. Wink
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waynehead



Joined: 18 Apr 2006
Location: Jongno

PostPosted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 10:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't know about you guys but I always pull my pants down and moon people when I say goodbye.
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Jizzo T. Clown



Joined: 27 Mar 2006
Location: at my wit's end

PostPosted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 11:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

unknown9398 wrote:
Usually, we prefer to hold our hand up with the palm facing inward, the middle finger pointing toward straight up and the remaining fingers held tightly beneath the thumb. Wink


Laughing Laughing Laughing

Hand up, palm out, fingers loose, stationary. For hello and goodbye. If I feel really comfortable with someone I'll point at them and do a "bang-bang" gesture. What do they do in England, raise one eyebrow and nod?
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 12:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hello = hand up, palm out and a slight left-right waggle (waggle is optional)

Goodbye = pretty much the same, but more of a definite waggle. If the person leaving is a small child, they get the fingers bending and waggling up and down.
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oldfatfarang



Joined: 19 May 2005
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 7:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jizzo T. Clown wrote:
unknown9398 wrote:
Usually, we prefer to hold our hand up with the palm facing inward, the middle finger pointing toward straight up and the remaining fingers held tightly beneath the thumb. Wink


Laughing Laughing Laughing

Hand up, palm out, fingers loose, stationary. For hello and goodbye. If I feel really comfortable with someone I'll point at them and do a "bang-bang" gesture. What do they do in England, raise one eyebrow and nod?


Sorry, don't know about the Brits (I haven't been there since I was a kid). But in my slice of paradise, greetings can be varied and subtle.

Hello: Hand raised, (can be outstretched) palm facing out.

Hello: hand raised, fist clenched with thumbs up and index finger pointed skyward (sortofa "Hey Dude," thing). You can make a mouth click thing too (for friends). Index finger can be pointed at the person if you know them well.

Hello: A big smile and a head nod.

Many variations - and - again - very subtle in native populations. Some of our cultures just imperceptively raise their head - and lift their eyes a fraction (that's usually for very cool guys or gang members). They're acknowledging you as a person (very important in our country) but also saying : "Don't mess with me," "You're not that important to me."

And, of course, a simple "Hi" or "Hello" or a smile is OK, too.
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dogshed



Joined: 28 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 7:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Remember Herb from WKRP?
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oldfatfarang



Joined: 19 May 2005
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

dogshed wrote:
Remember Herb from WKRP?


Sorry, I can't understand this reply??? Can you please elaborate?
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nobbyken



Joined: 07 Jun 2006
Location: Yongin ^^

PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 8:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I find all the children lifting their hands to say hello, just a little bit strange.

A hand wave to get somebodies attention, but if you already have eye contact; then a smile and nod of the head should be OK.

If I walk into school and have 40 students in different groups saying hello, then it is very strange to wave back 40 times.

I normally just acknowledge people using my hand, but keeping my small wave at waste height.

Sure, wave if it's someone you haven't seen in a while.
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cubanlord



Joined: 08 Jul 2005
Location: In Japan!

PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 9:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am sure that if you contact Republican Senator Larry Craig from The United States, he'll be able to help you out with a few hand gestures.
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contrarian



Joined: 20 Jan 2007
Location: Nearly in NK

PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2007 10:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The bird is the word. Also known as the one finger salute.

Darned near got me killed on my only trip to Britain. I was listening to some Ayrab at Hyde Park speakers corner. He said something really stupid and I gave him the bird with "Italian" emphasis. [The entire forearm upraised middle finger extended and smack the crook of your elbow with your other hand.]

Wink
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cbclark4



Joined: 20 Aug 2006
Location: Masan

PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 2:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If close enough a handshake is used for greeting (without the finger wiggle).

If your yelling down the hall or out the bus window the wave is appropriate.

In a mens room the nod and mumble is preffered, the toe tap is not recommended.
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MarionG



Joined: 14 Sep 2006

PostPosted: Thu Sep 06, 2007 3:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Larry Craig? Hand gestures? I thought it was foot tapping. Oh well.

Strangest thing about that was that somebody's tax dollars are paying a cop to tap back...go figure.
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