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Most Difficult Time when you Quit Smoking
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When was it most difficult when you Quit Smoking?
First Day?
3%
 3%  [ 1 ]
After Meals?
10%
 10%  [ 3 ]
First Thing in the Morning?
6%
 6%  [ 2 ]
When people around you lit up?
6%
 6%  [ 2 ]
During Stressful Times?
23%
 23%  [ 7 ]
While Drinking?
40%
 40%  [ 12 ]
When Drinking Coffee
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
After Sex?
3%
 3%  [ 1 ]
Other
6%
 6%  [ 2 ]
Total Votes : 30

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mrsquirrel



Joined: 13 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 1:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

See for me it was easy. I just woke up one morning and new it was the day to quit.

Stopping drinking was harder for me than stopping smoking. That took some serious will power.
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jhaelin



Joined: 30 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 4:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i remember watching a doc many years back about smoking and how the chemical acetyl aldehyde is supposed to be linked with habbit forming response in our brain chemistry. so smoking after meals, beers, or after stress, links the chemical with a rise in seratonin levels during those events.
so....
when you quit you should try to avoid activites associated with rise in seratonin levels during your weakest moments. e.g. don't eat chocolate after meals or during stress in lieu of smoking because you are only replacing one chemical stimulant for another while the craving for something will continue to remain...
which is why fasting is so condusive to losing subtance habbits.

i quite smoking and didn't have the rough first week because i was doing a "master cleanse", lemon juice fast.
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Keepongoing



Joined: 13 Feb 2003
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2007 10:54 pm    Post subject: oooooooooooh Reply with quote

2 days without a smoke. Last night a very disturbed sleep. The voice is like a nagging woman. Tomorrow night, if I go drinking in Itaewan, will I make it though 3 days? Do I really want to do this?

Well-I do not want to smell like smoke!

I hate the inconvenience of being home and comfortable and finding out that I have 2 cigarettes left and no others in my flat, so I have to dress and run to the store.

I reallly, realllllly miss that first one in the morning!!!!!!!! Coffee without a cigarette Sad Beer without a cigarette Sad The other thing without a cigarette Sad.



Oh well Keep plugging on
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Son Deureo!



Joined: 30 Apr 2003

PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 5:26 am    Post subject: Re: oooooooooooh Reply with quote

Keepongoing wrote:
2 days without a smoke. Last night a very disturbed sleep. The voice is like a nagging woman. Tomorrow night, if I go drinking in Itaewan, will I make it though 3 days? Do I really want to do this?



Day 3 was always the hardest for me. Don't go out drinking on day 3, stay home and save going out to the bars for when your head no longer feels like it's going to cave in for lack of nicotine.

Stay home, watch movies, and go to bed early.

Trust me, I'm at four and a half years smoke free and counting after a 12 year pack-a-day habit.
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SPINOZA



Joined: 10 Jun 2005
Location: $eoul

PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 5:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Nicotine withdrawal peaks at about 4 days and subsides after about 7, but really, to be 100% okay, give it 14 days.

And remember - quiting nicotine is very easy compared to quitting alcohol or narcotics. Quitting booze or heroin incapacitates the user, making straightforward tasks and relationships almost impossible. Alcohol withdrawal is so severe, it's strongly advised that a would-be alcohol quitter seek professional help and NOT go cold turkey, whereas with nicotine withdrawal, cold turkey is your best bet. Alcohol and heroin quitters frequently commit suicide.
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Xerxes



Joined: 10 Jan 2006
Location: Down a certain (rabbit) hole, apparently

PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 7:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had been quit 3 years once before, then I started this really stressful job that got me back on the smokin horse. Most recently, I had been quit for 5 years then I found these Cuban cigars on Jeju-do.

They smelled great and those things being illegal in the US, I couldn't resist and bought a few. Although it was mouth smoking, I guess I was still getting the nicotine into my system through my blood vessels in my mouth (and it is a rush because they are so strong). After an odd bout of a cigar here or there in a span of about two months and then having this one guy at work I hung out with constantly smoking in front of me got me started again.

AFTER 5 YEARS! I don't smoke more than 10 a day when into the work week, but I hardly smoke at all when I am at home.

I asked my doctor about this and he said the serotonin/dopamine levels are what I am addicted to, and not necessarily the nicotine. jhaelin's point above, too, I guess.

I have never had a big weight gain in my other long times being quit, but the on-again, off-again smoking is really giving me a big weight gain, especially after my latest trip to the States and treating myself to some "real" cookin food.

I would even consider the fast, but I'm afraid that the binge that might follow and the lack of energy while I am working might together do me in, if the nic won't.

This is me smokin after I got real smug and claimed it was so easy to quit in some other quitting smoking thread.

The ironies of life! Who'da thunk it! *Arrghhhh*
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Keepongoing



Joined: 13 Feb 2003
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 9:38 am    Post subject: Smoking Makes You Feel Good Reply with quote

THis article makes me want to smoke LOL

http://www.livescience.com/health/041129_smoking_feel.html
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Cliffhanger



Joined: 07 Sep 2007
Location: Anyang

PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 7:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't know if I'm qualified to participate in this poll because I am still smoking, but...
I have tried to quit many times. I always try to quit when I get sick. Hate the taste of smoke when I'm sick. I would agree with those that say to be careful having a few at the bar. That's how I started again almost everytime. It starts out as " I'll just have one ", then " I'll just have a couple" , then " I'll just buy one pack. Then the next thing you know you're smoking more then you used to Mad . I would like to quit, but the problem is... I just love smoking too much Sad
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igotthisguitar



Joined: 08 Apr 2003
Location: South Korea (Permanent Vacation)

PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 7:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i've quit again recently ... whooh-hoo! Shocked

wanna quit? really? sick of being a weak slave to ignorance & death?


Fine, try this one on for size.


i command thee to:


"TURN THE WILL, & thereby empower thyself!!"



Buddha Mojo Wink
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Keepongoing



Joined: 13 Feb 2003
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 2:00 pm    Post subject: i did it Reply with quote

well I did go out drinking last night, but I never lit up! I am now working on my 4th day without a cig.
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oneofthesarahs



Joined: 05 Nov 2006
Location: Sacheon City

PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 8:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Cliffhanger wrote:
Don't know if I'm qualified to participate in this poll because I am still smoking, but...
I have tried to quit many times. I always try to quit when I get sick. Hate the taste of smoke when I'm sick. I would agree with those that say to be careful having a few at the bar. That's how I started again almost everytime. It starts out as " I'll just have one ", then " I'll just have a couple" , then " I'll just buy one pack. Then the next thing you know you're smoking more then you used to Mad . I would like to quit, but the problem is... I just love smoking too much Sad


I dunno. I'm a "just at the bar" smoker. I'll smoke one or two at a bar sometimes, and I honestly will not smoke any more than that. I've never smoked outside of a bar/party setting. And I doubt I've ever smoked more than a pack a month, at my heaviest point of smoking in college. Now I don't go to bars that often, so I hardly ever smoke. I've gone for months and months without smoking. I've read that some people are just more prone to addiction to others, and I think there might be some validity to that thought.
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Cliffhanger



Joined: 07 Sep 2007
Location: Anyang

PostPosted: Fri Sep 21, 2007 9:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

oneofthesarahs wrote:
Cliffhanger wrote:
Don't know if I'm qualified to participate in this poll because I am still smoking, but...
I have tried to quit many times. I always try to quit when I get sick. Hate the taste of smoke when I'm sick. I would agree with those that say to be careful having a few at the bar. That's how I started again almost everytime. It starts out as " I'll just have one ", then " I'll just have a couple" , then " I'll just buy one pack. Then the next thing you know you're smoking more then you used to Mad . I would like to quit, but the problem is... I just love smoking too much Sad


I dunno. I'm a "just at the bar" smoker. I'll smoke one or two at a bar sometimes, and I honestly will not smoke any more than that. I've never smoked outside of a bar/party setting. And I doubt I've ever smoked more than a pack a month, at my heaviest point of smoking in college. Now I don't go to bars that often, so I hardly ever smoke. I've gone for months and months without smoking. I've read that some people are just more prone to addiction to others, and I think there might be some validity to that thought.


I can see it not being a problem if you were smoking "just at the bar" all along, but for those that were moderate to heavy smokers and trying to quit, having just a couple at the bar can be an opening to start again.

I think one of my biggest problems and for many others is that smoking is a routine, smoke while drinking, while having a coffee, during breaks, walking to and from places. Its hard to break those habits, like walking home from school is really boring, but having a smoke makes it more enjoyable. Having just a couple at the bar will give you just enough of the "taste" for it to start again on those walks home, and then it fugs everything up.

I guess the answer for me is to quit going to bars, but then that would suck more than quitting smoking. Very Happy
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igotthisguitar



Joined: 08 Apr 2003
Location: South Korea (Permanent Vacation)

PostPosted: Sat Sep 22, 2007 7:33 pm    Post subject: Re: i did it Reply with quote

Keepongoing wrote:
well I did go out drinking last night, but I never lit up! I am now working on my 4th day without a cig.


You can do it!

It really is, most of it, simply MIND over matter Wink
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ChopChaeJoe



Joined: 05 Mar 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sat Sep 22, 2007 9:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pretty much, when I'm on fire. I just smoke and smoke. Even fter i douse myself with water, steam mmixed with smouldering smoke continues to rise.

Seriously though, Two weeks without a cigarette. I set a date, waited until that date, then quit. I was offered a cigarette at a bar by some Koreans, I accepted and took one puff, then i was dragged onto the dance floor by this 40ish woman and left the cigarette behind. Close call.
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Keepongoing



Joined: 13 Feb 2003
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Wed Oct 10, 2007 1:23 pm    Post subject: wow Reply with quote

24 days without a cigarette still get the occassional small craving-still appreciate the pleasure of smoking and amazed at myself that I am not smoking.

I am eating a lot more- almost always hungry
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