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[bassexpander]

Has sex stopped for you since you married? Or slowed down considerably? If so, was it an immediate thing, or did it take a long time for that to happen? Did it never happen?

I once knew a teacher who worked with a Korean female who flat-out told him she wanted to have sex with him because her husband never slept with her anymore. He was no longer interested. She was going nuts. By the way, her husband was another foreigner (and said teacher knew him). Nothing happened, but it got me thinking.

For me, marriage has meant less sex. We're down to once a week, where we used to go at it almost every day we met, in our courting days. Granted, we only got to meet for a day or two per week, but sometimes we met three days per week, and we did it that often. Now, no.

Maybe people aren't comfortable posting about such things, but I'm really curious what "normal" is. Feel free to PM or just post, if you like.

[Young FRANKenstein]

It reminds me of the old coin in the jar theory: During your first year of marriage, every time you have sex plut a quater in a jar. Then for the remainder of your marriage, every time you have sex take a quarter out of the jar. The theory is couples will very rarely empty the jar.

[Bibbitybop]

This makes me wonder if concubines were a bad idea.

[browneyedgirl]

[Pak Yu Man]

Wait til your wife get's pregnant or is in the hospital for months on end. Then complain to me about lack of sex

[bassexpander]

It's the other way around with my wife. I'm the one not into it so much. I guess I did every little thing I wanted, so once a week is good enough. Maybe that's normal.


Then I read stuff like this, and I get sad:

http://www.nomarriage.com/why_men_should_not_marry.html

[Atavistic]

OP, are you married to a Korean? Are you Korean?

http://www.nomarriage.com/why_foreign_women_are_better.html

[Cheonmunka]

If you marry, you made a choice. I think that All marriageable women that you met then, would have basically turned out the same. So, if you want to jeopardise or destroy your marriage, then by all means look around and act on your desire. Or, think clearly and ahead and be a pillar of support for your wife.

[Natalia]

Okay..............

http://www.nomarriage.com/why_foreign_women_are_better.html

[Big_Bird]

OK, I answered the question honestly, but it appears to have been interpreted by at least one poster as a dig at the OP, so I will remove it. Also, it may give some guys around here weird ideas about me, so it's probably for the best.

My question to the OP (how long have you been married) was also sincere. Perhaps in 10 years my husband and I may be less inclined. If both of us feel that way, then who will care.

[Qinella]

The problem is that Korean women are terrible in bed, so foreign men end up just getting bored.

[VanIslander]

if you tie a knot in it, ow, it'll stop

[Tarmangani]

Try the butt.

[Cheonmunka]

Yeah, it's definately the Op's fault.

[CeleryMan]

Isn't a pre-nuptial the catch-all' remedy for marriage?