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A Landlord's Mentality in Asia
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Col.Brandon



Joined: 09 Aug 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sat Sep 29, 2007 8:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Personally, I have trouble understanding the mentality of dog owners.

Why do people think they have the right to have a dog in an apartment and make their neighbours' lives a misery? (and the dog's life too, for that matter).

No wonder scuffles have ensued when people are forced to listen to barking for hours on end and have to pick their way through heaps of smelly dog crap.

Damn - these soppy, weak-minded individuals need to understand that euthanasia is a much better alternative to the stray dog problem than taking on a pet they obviously can't handle. It would probably be kinder to have the OP put down, too.
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Are they the lemmings



Joined: 15 Feb 2007
Location: Not here anymore. JongnoGuru was the only thing that kept me here.

PostPosted: Sat Sep 29, 2007 9:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey, steady on! I'm a landlord in Asia and I reckon I'm pretty fair. Mind you, no-one's asked if they can keep a dog in my apartments yet. Twisted Evil

In my renting days, I had a total of six "landlords in Asia". Only one of them was a conniving little turd, and he was the only one that wasn't Asian - he was an Englishman. All the others were perfect: the only time I heard from them was when I wanted something, and at those times they went out of their way to be helpful.

I should point out that in this thread, "Asia" is Japan.
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Paji eh Wong



Joined: 03 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Sun Sep 30, 2007 3:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

sistersarah wrote:

i must admit, i'm really nervous to move again after this contract is up for fear of getting an even worse landlord!


It is a bit of a crap shoot, but it sounds like you can do better next time. Regression towards the mean and all that.
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Rock



Joined: 25 Feb 2005

PostPosted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 5:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Col.Brandon wrote:
Personally, I have trouble understanding the mentality of dog owners.

Why do people think they have the right to have a dog in an apartment and make their neighbours' lives a misery? (and the dog's life too, for that matter).

No wonder scuffles have ensued when people are forced to listen to barking for hours on end and have to pick their way through heaps of smelly dog crap.

Damn - these soppy, weak-minded individuals need to understand that euthanasia is a much better alternative to the stray dog problem than taking on a pet they obviously can't handle. It would probably be kinder to have the OP put down, too.


No one said they had "the right to have a dog in an apartment." It appears you haven't read the post, haven't taken into account all the facts, but must put down those who've attempted to rescue animals like the movement here in Taiwan called www.animalstaiwan.org.


"Weak-minded" is people like you who won't do a thing to help a creature that's often suffering and which, like many stray dogs have proven including my own, make the most memorable of experiences for a human being. Or are you one of those guys who turns their head at Asia, thinking it's just your stomping grounds, no matter about making a difference?

Get off it, man. These dogs never hurt, annoyed, or bothered anyone but those who'd held prejudices like you that they were worthless and only considered trash.

I think they've proven this to be false in more ways than you have proven yourself to be of some value here in Asia.

Sad thing is many like you will never experience the enjoyment a pet dog can give, the intelligence and beauty inherent in their nature, and their love.

That's right, love. I wrote about this in another post, and honestly believe that dogs are capable of showing love unlike any other animal, including man.

And as for the landlord, if you can get the drift of this post, it hints at this point exactly: in Asia she'd held the same prejudice about dogs, that they were insignificant and inconsequential, whereas many here are championing them as something more and bucking this Confucist mentality.
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tzechuk



Joined: 20 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 6:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

So any progress about you and your landlady?
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MissSeoul



Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Somewhere in America

PostPosted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 9:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

tzechuk wrote:
Asia, or just Korea?


No, he is talking of Taiwan/Taiwanese, I mean Chinese Wink
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Kwangjuchicken



Joined: 01 Sep 2003
Location: I was abducted by aliens on my way to Korea and forced to be an EFL teacher on this crazy planet.

PostPosted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 11:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I taught for one year in a national university. I will not mention the name.
I am no longer there. Before I finished my PhD my mother died. Then I took money I enherited from her and bought a very nice diamond ring. I considered it a graduation present from my mother. Because of my ocd I always make sure my door is locked when I leave and when I get back. One day I get back to the dorm. My door is locked. But my diamond is gone. One of the Korean professors suspected the security guard because he has a key. It was him. I got it back. But officially it is a misunderstanding. He took my diamond so no one would steal it. Shocked
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jinju



Joined: 22 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Thu Oct 04, 2007 3:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a good story about landlords. A little over a year agho we moved in to a villa. The bitch started lying to us from day one. I swear she must have been a hagwon owner.

Stuff she was supposed to do, like fix boilers, replace a broken mosquito net, etc never got fixed without daily reminders for weeks. Her family was also really loud, and we have a baby. They would be up till well past midnoght, screaming, watching TV, etc. My wife isnt the type to take crap so she started fighting with her pretty early on. This old bitch was susrprised we didnt giver her the proper respect.

Crap escalated and it got worse. Anyway, we startd looking for a new place. The year before we put down 60 million and paid 400,000 monthly rent. We asked her for assurances that she would give us back our key money if we moved out. She said sure but wouldnt put it on paper. She also said, in front of the 부동산 agent that we were breaking the contract mutually.

Ok, well fast forward a month and she decided to call our bluff. She told us to get out. She was still under the assumption that we only had 60 million, and for that the only place you can get in Seoul is absolute crap. She thought we would beg not to be kicked out, and she could up the monthly payments. Calling our bluff was a mistake. We had already found an apartment and by agreeing to the broken contract she was now legally obligated to return all of the cash. The last month was basically her trying to find a new tenant, many people came but as to this day, and its been about a month, no body has moved in. She is out 60 million and 400,000 a month and we are living in a nice, almost brand new apartment. I hope she is in serious trouble with the business her husband is running.

You have to realize that these sorts of people are trash. Like hagwon owners. My former hagwon owner was a truck driver. Saved up some cash, bought a hahwon and was now transformed from being a dog who got kicked around by his boss to being a "wonjangnim". My former landlord was a country bumpkin from Jeolla Dumb Do. She is a housewife and her husband is the boss of a factory that is basically smaller than a room. These are nobodies raised in the country who come to Seoul and think they are big shots. She wanted respect from us because she was our landlord, 주인. I wouldnt give it to her. I got disgusted with her and never even acknowledged her on the street. My wife fought with her. What a shock! 40 years younger and fighting with a 주인. Terrible young people.
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Rock



Joined: 25 Feb 2005

PostPosted: Fri Oct 05, 2007 3:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

tzechuk wrote:
So any progress about you and your landlady?


That landlady's history. She said she'd give me back my deposit-twice-but once again, lied and didn't come through. My new manager got into an argument with her. Or rather, told her off.

I now live in a three story house with seven rooms, a yard, and a porch, all for cheaper than that crappy studio she rented out to me for more. My dogs-thank God-now sleep inside.

Jinju's comment pretty much sums up what I'd gone through and am feeling about this landlady. She wanted me to pay obeisance to her, which I wouldn't do either. It's really a power trip mentality they present here, and my general opinion is that they're trash too.
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