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What gives you courage?
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IncognitoHFX



Joined: 06 May 2007
Location: Yeongtong, Suwon

PostPosted: Wed Oct 31, 2007 11:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

...and what is with everyone saying beer? What kind of courage is that?

I think a semi-automatic Beretta would give me more courage than a beer would. Why do you think people buy guns in the first place?
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DRAMA OVERKILL



Joined: 12 Apr 2005

PostPosted: Wed Oct 31, 2007 11:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

IncognitoHFX wrote:
Why do you think people buy guns in the first place?




Ummm.... So that the free world can ensure her "fair share" of the world's oil?????
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esetters21



Joined: 30 Apr 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 12:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

IncognitoHFX wrote:
...and what is with everyone saying beer? What kind of courage is that?

I think a semi-automatic Beretta would give me more courage than a beer would. Why do you think people buy guns in the first place?


No offense, but Laughing I still remember your avatar before you got here, and can't take anything too seriously when you post. I see that you have hardened up since then, but that little picture still makes me chuckle. The bright eyed little guy has grown up and gotten serious.
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IncognitoHFX



Joined: 06 May 2007
Location: Yeongtong, Suwon

PostPosted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 2:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

esetters21 wrote:
IncognitoHFX wrote:
...and what is with everyone saying beer? What kind of courage is that?

I think a semi-automatic Beretta would give me more courage than a beer would. Why do you think people buy guns in the first place?


No offense, but Laughing I still remember your avatar before you got here, and can't take anything too seriously when you post. I see that you have hardened up since then, but that little picture still makes me chuckle. The bright eyed little guy has grown up and gotten serious.


Bright eyed? Little?

Damnit. You going to pinch my cheeks too before you send me off to the school bus? Laughing
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safeblad



Joined: 17 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 2:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Anger. anger is such a strong emotion that if it gains momentum it can dwarf other rational things such as fear
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MarionG



Joined: 14 Sep 2006

PostPosted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 3:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I spent the first 30 adult years of my life being "shrill" if I needed courage. It worked, but not as well as being calm, firm, and just broken-recording the hell out of whatever it is you're trying to say:

I'm sorry, I'm not comfortable with the parameters you've given me and I won't be able to recruit someone for you.
But I'm relying on you!
I understand, but I won't be able to recruit someone for you.
But you said you would!
I understand it might have seemed that way, but I won't be able to recruit anyone for you.
But I need you to do this!
I'm sure a recruiter can do it for you, and I won't be able to recruit a teacher for you.

Sometimes conversations like this go on for 20 minutes, but what you MUST do is stick to the same general message...over and over and over and quietly and calmly! It works. It's amazing...
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kermo



Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.

PostPosted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 5:26 am    Post subject: Re: What gives you courage? Reply with quote

jessie-b wrote:
I told him I'd try but I told him recently he should find a recruiter. He responded that he was depending on me. He only wants to hire a good looking white male, under 30, from North America.


Find out what a recruiter would cost. Say you'd be happy to do it, but it will take time and money, and you expect an appropriate fee in return.

Explain that for the same money, he could get someone else (i.e., a pro) with more contacts and experience.

Maybe that will help.
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pastis



Joined: 20 Jun 2006

PostPosted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 9:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

blow.
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IncognitoHFX



Joined: 06 May 2007
Location: Yeongtong, Suwon

PostPosted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 9:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

DRAMA OVERKILL wrote:

Ummm.... So that the free world can ensure her "fair share" of the world's oil?????


I wonder what Freud would say about gun culture...
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jessie-b



Joined: 17 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 10:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

MarionG wrote:
I spent the first 30 adult years of my life being "shrill" if I needed courage. It worked, but not as well as being calm, firm, and just broken-recording the hell out of whatever it is you're trying to say:

I'm sorry, I'm not comfortable with the parameters you've given me and I won't be able to recruit someone for you.
But I'm relying on you!
I understand, but I won't be able to recruit someone for you.
But you said you would!
I understand it might have seemed that way, but I won't be able to recruit anyone for you.
But I need you to do this!
I'm sure a recruiter can do it for you, and I won't be able to recruit a teacher for you.

Sometimes conversations like this go on for 20 minutes, but what you MUST do is stick to the same general message...over and over and over and quietly and calmly! It works. It's amazing...


quietly and calmly. Well, it goes against my jewish heritage, but I'll try it.
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