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Calmly



Joined: 09 Oct 2006

PostPosted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 8:55 pm    Post subject: missing wife - brand new visa problem? Reply with quote

I married a Korean and am working on an F-2-1 visa. However, my wife has disappeared and my visa is due to expire. The immigration people told me that I can not renew my visa OR exchange it for another (like an E2) until I produce either my wife or a divorce certificate (which requires my wife's co-operation).

http://awolwife.blogspot.com/

I am not looking for advice, like "Talk to a lawyer, embassy, parents, friends, etc". I have tried all these things already.

Has anyone been in a similar situation?
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Young FRANKenstein



Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)

PostPosted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 10:57 pm    Post subject: Re: missing wife - brand new visa problem? Reply with quote

What did the police say when they tried looking for her?
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jaganath69



Joined: 17 Jul 2003

PostPosted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 11:34 pm    Post subject: Re: missing wife - brand new visa problem? Reply with quote

Calmly wrote:
I married a Korean and am working on an F-2-1 visa. However, my wife has disappeared and my visa is due to expire. The immigration people told me that I can not renew my visa OR exchange it for another (like an E2) until I produce either my wife or a divorce certificate (which requires my wife's co-operation).

http://awolwife.blogspot.com/

I am not looking for advice, like "Talk to a lawyer, embassy, parents, friends, etc". I have tried all these things already.

Has anyone been in a similar situation?


How much money did the cow fleece you for?
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babtangee



Joined: 18 Dec 2004
Location: OMG! Charlie has me surrounded!

PostPosted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 11:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Heavy. Have you contacted her parents or family? I imagine I'd be visiting them pretty much daily. "Lucy, you got some e'splainin' to do!"
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halfmanhalfbiscuit



Joined: 13 Oct 2007
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 12:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Heavy stuff.Where'd the slag go?Hope you didn't let her change her passport.
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KarenWest1984



Joined: 11 Sep 2007
Location: USA

PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 1:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Isn't it really easy for you to put her down?

I'm sure she didn't leave without reason.
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 2:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Whoa. She has you over a barrel. She probably doesn't want to get divorced as divorce has a pretty nasty stigma here still. A divorced woman, especially if she works and it's known she divorced, can have the effect of having all the married men in the company coming out of the woodwork, assuming she's now the company ho'.

You can't just leave the country and return with an E2?
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DHC



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 2:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I assume that you have a copy of your wife's family registration book and you know her birth date and Korean ID number. File a report with the police that she is missing and took your money. Obtain a copy of the police report and contact an attorney to file for divorce and/or a civil case for theft. Have the attorney contact Immigration. You cannot be deported if you have an active case before the Korean courts.
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Pak Yu Man



Joined: 02 Jun 2005
Location: The Ida galaxy

PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 2:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

KarenWest1984 wrote:
Isn't it really easy for you to put her down?

I'm sure she didn't leave without reason.


She did. The OP's money.
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KarenWest1984



Joined: 11 Sep 2007
Location: USA

PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 2:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

& how are we to know the OP is telling the truth?
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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 2:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Isn't Korea now a "community property jurisdiction," unlike in the past? His money's her money.
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inkoreaforgood



Joined: 15 Dec 2003
Location: Inchon

PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 2:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

KarenWest1984 wrote:
& how are we to know the OP is telling the truth?


Agree with you there. Something fabricated very suddenly, that blog. Plus the OP has posted twice in the last year, including this post.
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ldh2222



Joined: 12 Oct 2007

PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 2:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

KarenWest1984 wrote:
& how are we to know the OP is telling the truth?


...because all Dave's ESL posters are noble & honest.

Circle gets the square.
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bassexpander



Joined: 13 Sep 2007
Location: Someplace you'd rather be.

PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 5:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had to use www.pagewash.com to see your blog. It seems that blogspot has been blocked through some IPs again. Why the heck do they do that?

You might want to consider another blog, if you're trying to get the word out.
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Hanson



Joined: 20 Oct 2004

PostPosted: Sun Nov 04, 2007 5:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I saw it fine.
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