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fromtheuk



Joined: 31 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 9:09 pm    Post subject: Bathroom etiquette Reply with quote

At my public school, there's one teacher who is quite old and 'stupid'.

Sometimes when I'm in the toilet, he enters, does what is required, leaves the toilet, and turns off the lights, even though I'm still in there, flushing the toilet to make it obvious he is not the only person there.

The switches for the light and fan are outside the entrance to the toilet.

Today, I came out of a toilet stall and we greeted each other. He then began to explain, I must keep the window open and not use the light or fan when in the toilet. Even though it is quite dark in there without using the lights.

He was trying to demonstrate he has the right to tell me how to use the bathroom.

Anyway, I nodded and mumured my agreement. He began to use the urinal.

I washed my hands, exited the bathroom and turned on all of the light switches and the fan.

I hope he now knows what empathy is. Laughing
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nomad-ish



Joined: 08 Oct 2007
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 9:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

did you ask him why?
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Bibbitybop



Joined: 22 Feb 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 9:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

nomad-ish wrote:
did you ask him why?


Lack of logic in Korea.
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fromtheuk



Joined: 31 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 9:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

His English isn't that good. I don't think he would be able to answer it.

Every teacher that uses the bathroom, use different things according to what they like.

It seemed he was saying 'this is how I want things done, so keep it that way'.

I suppose putting the fan and lights on was a cultural misunderstanding on my part. Cool
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Fishead soup



Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 11:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Next time he does that wait for him to use the toilet and close all the windows and turn on the fan.
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LostinKSpace



Joined: 17 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 11:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Perhaps there was a case of bathroom fan death?
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fromtheuk



Joined: 31 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 3:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This same teacher recently began to tap on my toilet door while inside. He deliberately speaks some English in a very childish way and giggles, I ignore him usually, but on Friday I kind of laughed at him and asked him if he likes talking to people in toilets, I'm sure he didn't understand.

So, on Friday just before leaving work as I walk past him on the stairs I wave to him ultra-patronizingly and say 'Anyonnnggg' loudly, like you'd say to a kid.

He grinned but looked a bit surprised. Aren't Koreans wonderful colleagues? Laughing
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Fishead soup



Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 5:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

He obviously thinks you're going to suffocate from fan death. You might want to warn him that children have been flushing their pet crocodiles down the toilet and some of them are now full grown and hungry. You can also tell him you woke up after a one night stand in a bathtub with one kidney removed and " Welcome to the world of aids", was written in lipstick on the mirror.
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Big4Jerm3



Joined: 17 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 6:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Fishead soup wrote:
He obviously thinks you're going to suffocate from fan death. You might want to warn him that children have been flushing their pet crocodiles down the toilet and some of them are now full grown and hungry. You can also tell him you woke up after a one night stand in a bathtub with one kidney removed and " Welcome to the world of aids", was written in lipstick on the mirror.


....he doesn't speaky English..........
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bogey666



Joined: 17 Mar 2008
Location: Korea, the ass free zone

PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 7:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a question about batroom "etiquette".

why am I supposed to put my shit stained toilet paper in a bag, along with all the other shit stained toilet paper? (although kept clean and sanitary at my school, the bag still gives me the heevie jeevies.

I've been to countries where the septic systems cannot handle the paper , so the lines get clogged up... but I would think this is NOT an issue in Korea? (or is it?)

btw.. I am fortunate that out of the 6 or so stalls in the teacher's bathroom, there is one seat. (the others are squat into a hole)
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Juregen



Joined: 30 May 2006

PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 8:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bogey666 wrote:
I have a question about batroom "etiquette".

why am I supposed to put my shit stained toilet paper in a bag, along with all the other shit stained toilet paper? (although kept clean and sanitary at my school, the bag still gives me the heevie jeevies.

I've been to countries where the septic systems cannot handle the paper , so the lines get clogged up... but I would think this is NOT an issue in Korea? (or is it?)

btw.. I am fortunate that out of the 6 or so stalls in the teacher's bathroom, there is one seat. (the others are squat into a hole)


In older buildings it is actually the case. It's mainly the old folk doing it.

Irks me though.
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driftingfocus



Joined: 08 Feb 2007
Location: Boston, MA

PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 8:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bogey666 wrote:
btw.. I am fortunate that out of the 6 or so stalls in the teacher's bathroom, there is one seat. (the others are squat into a hole)


Feel lucky. One of the schools I teach at has glorified latrines. They're not even attached to the building.
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Fishead soup



Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 10:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bogey666 wrote:
I have a question about batroom "etiquette".

why am I supposed to put my shit stained toilet paper in a bag, along with all the other shit stained toilet paper? (although kept clean and sanitary at my school, the bag still gives me the heevie jeevies.

I've been to countries where the septic systems cannot handle the paper , so the lines get clogged up... but I would think this is NOT an issue in Korea? (or is it?)

btw.. I am fortunate that out of the 6 or so stalls in the teacher's bathroom, there is one seat. (the others are squat into a hole)


It's just a matter of time before that toilet goes out of order. When it does I can guarentee 100% it won't get fixed. The stall will be converted into a storage area. and you'll have to resort to using squats.
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it's full of stars



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 11:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Why don't you hang about in the bog and have a chat with him the next time he comes in. Or bring a book and a cup of coffee, ask him to leave the light on-you're reading.
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hellofaniceguy



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 12:06 am    Post subject: Re: Bathroom etiquette Reply with quote

fromtheuk wrote:
At my public school, there's one teacher who is quite old and 'stupid'.

Sometimes when I'm in the toilet, he enters, does what is required, leaves the toilet, and turns off the lights, even though I'm still in there, flushing the toilet to make it obvious he is not the only person there.

The switches for the light and fan are outside the entrance to the toilet.

Today, I came out of a toilet stall and we greeted each other. He then began to explain, I must keep the window open and not use the light or fan when in the toilet. Even though it is quite dark in there without using the lights.

He was trying to demonstrate he has the right to tell me how to use the bathroom.

Anyway, I nodded and mumured my agreement. He began to use the urinal.

I washed my hands, exited the bathroom and turned on all of the light switches and the fan.

I hope he now knows what empathy is. Laughing


Perhaps he is advocating.......Conserving energy?!
If you were a blind person.....it would not matter......perhaps you should learn to see in the dark?
Still...this person has no right to instruct you in the ways of......dumping.....koreans do it to each other everyday!
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