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Tattoos, prejudice, letting the truth be told.
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OnTheOtherSide



Joined: 29 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 9:57 am    Post subject: Tattoos, prejudice, letting the truth be told. Reply with quote

Nevermind

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Passions



Joined: 31 May 2006

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 10:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tattoos in Asia generally are the mark of gangsters, thugs, and lowlifes.

I'm sorry if it doesn't fit the same standard as in America.

You are in Korea, deal with it. Does it suck they look down on tattoos? Yeah. But if you wanted peace and tranquility, why don't you just stay in your hometown and be around your friends?

Sounds like you are the whiny idiot.

What do you expect, everyone to have the same ideals and morals as Americans?

The only thing I find utterly disgusting is your attitude and expectations living in a foreign country. Americans. Rolling Eyes
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OnTheOtherSide



Joined: 29 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 10:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Passions wrote:
Tattoos in Asia generally are the mark of gangsters, thugs, and lowlifes.

I'm sorry if it doesn't fit the same standard as in America.

You are in Korea, deal with it. Does it suck they look down on tattoos? Yeah. But if you wanted peace and tranquility, why don't you just stay in your hometown and be around your friends?

Sounds like you are the whiny idiot.

What do you expect, everyone to have the same ideals and morals as Americans?

The only thing I find utterly disgusting is your attitude and expectations living in a foreign country. Americans. Rolling Eyes

Yeah, excuse me for fighting against totally illogical prejudice.
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ChinaBoy



Joined: 17 Feb 2007

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 12:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Passions wrote:
Tattoos in Asia generally are the mark of gangsters, thugs, and lowlifes.

I'm sorry if it doesn't fit the same standard as in America.



No, no, it's the same standard in America. People with multiple tattoos who get in your face about them are thugs and lowlifes.
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 12:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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"normal" white guy who doesn't push any buttons and acts as a "model minority" here in Korea


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Basically I was just insulting her and calling her an dumba$$..., so I insulted her with my words


Hmmmmm.
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DrOctagon



Joined: 11 Jun 2008
Location: Chicago

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 12:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ChinaBoy wrote:
Passions wrote:
Tattoos in Asia generally are the mark of gangsters, thugs, and lowlifes.

I'm sorry if it doesn't fit the same standard as in America.



No, no, it's the same standard in America. People with multiple tattoos who get in your face about them are thugs and lowlifes.


People who get in your face about them are abrasive and belligerent, not necessarily thugs and lowlifes. And they don't have to have multiple tattoos to fit the description we're talking about. Although, most thugs or wannabe thugs I've met do have tattoos...
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Passions



Joined: 31 May 2006

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 12:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OnTheOtherSide wrote:
Passions wrote:
Tattoos in Asia generally are the mark of gangsters, thugs, and lowlifes.

I'm sorry if it doesn't fit the same standard as in America.

You are in Korea, deal with it. Does it suck they look down on tattoos? Yeah. But if you wanted peace and tranquility, why don't you just stay in your hometown and be around your friends?

Sounds like you are the whiny idiot.

What do you expect, everyone to have the same ideals and morals as Americans?

The only thing I find utterly disgusting is your attitude and expectations living in a foreign country. Americans. Rolling Eyes

Yeah, excuse me for fighting against totally illogical prejudice.



You can't fight illogical prejudice in Korea. You'll just end up a bitter, miserable, chain-smoking, soju drinking old man.
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CousinNZ



Joined: 26 Mar 2008

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 1:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ive been in Korea for over 3 years and have a huge tattoo on my arm and shoulder. When I first came here I was told to never show anyone as I might lose my job. Not even!!

I havent had so mush as a single negative comment about my tattoo and in the summer i spend most of my time in t-shirts or singlets.
Koreans are getting more and more tattoos everday. Ive seen a lot of girls with them these days. Pretty hot actually.

I think as long as you dont have a tattoo of a skull and crossbones or some naked women youll be sweet as.
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Draz



Joined: 27 Jun 2007
Location: Land of Morning Clam

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 1:35 pm    Post subject: Re: Tattoos, prejudice, letting the truth be told. Reply with quote

OnTheOtherSide wrote:
"Where I come from people don't care too much about tattoos, why are you being so stupid?" "It's just ink on the skin. Why are you letting it bother you?"


On the skin? No. IN the skin. Gives me the creeps. Shocked

Of course, if I met you in person I wouldn't gape at them in horror. Even if they were really big and grotesque which it sounds like they might be.

The guy that has had no problems with his tattoo and the guy that has both need to post some pics.
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jkelly80



Joined: 13 Jun 2007
Location: you boys like mexico?

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 1:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a rather large squid on my right arm. I showed it to an ajosshi once and his reaction was "mashitda!".
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Czarjorge



Joined: 01 May 2007
Location: I now have the same moustache, and it is glorious.

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 2:09 pm    Post subject: Re: Tattoos, prejudice, letting the truth be told. Reply with quote

OnTheOtherSide wrote:

I am a light skinned white guy. So I don't push their buttons as far as racism against dark skinned people. If I were dark skinned, I know I would immediately be hated by them.

I am young, in shape and good looking. So I am not a "fat foreigner", whom are hated as well.


Damn, I'm gonna be hated just for being a fattie. Bummer. At least I have the complexion of my Celtic ancestors, pastie as wet flour.
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milspecs



Joined: 19 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 2:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I am a light skinned white guy. So I don't push their buttons as far as racism against dark skinned people. If I were dark skinned, I know I would immediately be hated by them.


how u gonna call them ignorant when you think this way
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runlikegump



Joined: 05 Nov 2007
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 2:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sounds like the OP just needs some more refined coping mechanisms. I'm covered in tattoos also, have lived in Asia for over six years and in Korea for two, and have never been provoked to confrontation just because someone looked at me funny. If your first reaction is to get defensive or think that "This place needs a swift kick in the a$$ and it's gonna take someone like me to give them the boot instead of putting on a suit and being yet another tool in the shed", then you're in for a frustrating time.
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Hank the Iconoclast



Joined: 08 Oct 2007
Location: Busan

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 2:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You have to learn to shurg stuff off and not get confrontational about things or you'll never survuve here.
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CheeseSandwich



Joined: 02 Nov 2006

PostPosted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 2:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Man you are like a modern day Martin Luther King for standing up to all that bigotry and ignorance.


Do you have a dream?
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