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[bassexpander]

The trick is not to make it such a taboo that it actually becomes more exciting. Treating it as a dirty, awful thing turns it into a taboo. It's good to point out, for example, that people involved in porn are often driven to do so by money and/or drug addiction (US, anyway). Make it more human and real -- take away the shine of it.

Talking about it (kids hate that... did you like talking about sex with your parents?) will help a lot.

Counseling is a good idea. For that -- have no idea where in Seoul. Maybe Adaptive Solutions has a special counselor for that? Not really sure.

[Jeff's Cigarettes]

[blackjack]

keep the computer in the living room, make a profile for him (not admin) and for the cell phone cancel the internet access and put him on prepay.

All this after having a long talk to him. If the police have been talked to must be some pretty bad porn animal, underage, rape

[bobranger]

Thanks for everyone�s advice. I will try a multi approach to this problem. I�m not a Nazi but I do want to know what is going on to assess the extent of the problem. At this point his addiction is centered on the computer and his cell phone (which has been taken away). I really want him to be able to independently control his urges. I also dread the knock on the door from some earl-teens parents threatening to call the police. We already had to move because of this. Anyway thank you.

[nosmallplans]

You could just move the computer to a highly public area - like the living room.

[Juregen]

[Juregen]

[bobranger]

[Leonidas]

Net Nanny or a similar program

Alternatively use a router and configure it to block various sites or keywords including wildcards.

[KimchiExplosion]

I saw this on TV once. It worked there, but I don't know if it would work in real life. Can't remember the name of the show.

Download a hardcore XXX film, and watch the entire thing, beginning to end, with your son. Tell him if he wants to watch that kind of film, you have to be in the room with him. It'll scare him so sh1tless he won't ever want to watch it again.

[NoExplode]

This kid is going to grow up to be one twisted individual if any of these "punishments" suggested here are implemented. Christ, OP, just cut a hole in a watermelon, give it to your kid, let him surf porn you approve of and let him the F*&k be.

You people who are suggesting the spying and seeing shrinks for his "addiction" are 1)disingenuous 2)hypocrites 3)not very bright.

The best use of this thread would be to re-think your religion if you seriously suggest that a 12/13 year old jerking off is some gigantic problem.

I also call BS on any neighbors/ ISP providers knocking on your door. If a neighbor is hacking your connection, he's looking at jail time. ISP's will send you a note in the mail or with your bill.

[Demophobe]

[trish91198]

how do you neighbors know what your child is watching??

[Jeff's Cigarettes]

He invites their daughters to watch with him. Or he shows it to them w/out warning. I still maintain he needs a good old fashioned azz whooping along w/ a lesson on manners.