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hockeyguy109



Joined: 22 Dec 2008
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 6:57 am    Post subject: How to meet Korean friends? Reply with quote

Hi everybody,
I've only been in Korea for a week, but was wondering how to meet Korean girls (they are so beautiful!) and guys (for friends). I keep getting funny looks on the street, and keep thinking "wow, i wish I could just talk to them."

So are Koreans friendly to Americans in bars, etc? How do you go about meeting new people outside of the school network?
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nourozi



Joined: 15 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 7:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

how old are you?
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Thedudeabides



Joined: 15 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 7:23 am    Post subject: Re: How to meet Korean friends? Reply with quote

hockeyguy109 wrote:
Hi everybody,
I've only been in Korea for a week, but was wondering how to meet Korean girls (they are so beautiful!) and guys (for friends). I keep getting funny looks on the street, and keep thinking "wow, i wish I could just talk to them."

So are Koreans friendly to Americans in bars, etc? How do you go about meeting new people outside of the school network?


when they give you the foreigner stare, just make eye contact, hold a hand up in the air and yell "HIGH FIVE-UH!" They will be very impressed with your knowledge of Korean culture, and you will be irresistible to Korean women. You will make friends everywhere you go with this one, trust me.


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hockeyguy109



Joined: 22 Dec 2008
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 7:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm 23. I'm just still in the culture shock phase and would love to meet locals.
I know nothing about how to meet new people in Korea. I guess Soju will help?

I'll try the high five thing, thanks Smile
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bobranger



Joined: 10 Jun 2008
Location: masan

PostPosted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 7:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
how old are you?

Agreed

Hey stallion take it easy. Relax... Get acquainted with your environment (observe, learn, evaluate your strengths and weaknesses in comparison to the norm) and politely introduce your game plan. As far as a time scale, it�s up to the individual. (1 week to 3 years). Keep us posted.


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esetters21



Joined: 30 Apr 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 7:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You've been here a week. How about taking a deep breath, counting to ten and stop being so anxious. Those things will come in due time. A wise man once said about Korean girls "It's not a matter of if, but a matter of when." Seriously, you need to just let things come naturally.
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SHANE02



Joined: 04 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 8:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

100% agree with that. It's not dificult to meet girls here. Meeting nice ones is more difficult. Just have fun and stay lighthearted.
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LonelyAssasin



Joined: 07 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 11:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

lmao
look at all these esl teachers acting like they figured out Korea already. After what 2-5 years?
when they probably can't even speak korean.
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yingwenlaoshi



Joined: 12 Feb 2007
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 11:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Lonely Ass cannot make a sentence properly when she is mocking esl teachers; if it wasn't funny, it would be sad.
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i_teach_esl



Joined: 07 Sep 2006
Location: baebang, asan/cheonan

PostPosted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 6:35 pm    Post subject: Re: How to meet Korean friends? Reply with quote

Very Happy it's only funny b/c it's true^^

Thedudeabides wrote:
when they give you the foreigner stare, just make eye contact, hold a hand up in the air and yell "HIGH FIVE-UH!" They will be very impressed with your knowledge of Korean culture, and you will be irresistible to Korean women. You will make friends everywhere you go with this one, trust me.
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Tjames426



Joined: 06 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 10:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

er...

Go to a Korean English Church. You can meet lots of Koreans who want free English lessons.

I attended a church for a while, The foreigners were encouraged and told...we were to speak with the Koreans, not hang out by ourselves.
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tatertot



Joined: 21 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Fri Apr 03, 2009 11:16 pm    Post subject: Re: How to meet Korean friends? Reply with quote

Thedudeabides wrote:
when they give you the foreigner stare, just make eye contact, hold a hand up in the air and yell "HIGH FIVE-UH!" They will be very impressed with your knowledge of Korean culture, and you will be irresistible to Korean women. You will make friends everywhere you go with this one, trust me.


Wouldn't it be "HIGH PIE-BUH?" But thanks for that tidbit. When I arrive in Korea as soon as I step off the plane I am going to do that! Laughing
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nourozi



Joined: 15 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 7:38 am    Post subject: Re: How to meet Korean friends? Reply with quote

tatertot wrote:
Thedudeabides wrote:
when they give you the foreigner stare, just make eye contact, hold a hand up in the air and yell "HIGH FIVE-UH!" They will be very impressed with your knowledge of Korean culture, and you will be irresistible to Korean women. You will make friends everywhere you go with this one, trust me.


Wouldn't it be "HIGH PIE-BUH?" But thanks for that tidbit. When I arrive in Korea as soon as I step off the plane I am going to do that! Laughing


no, you will be shocked and numbed by your external world becoming an internal reality.
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Hyeon Een



Joined: 24 Jun 2005

PostPosted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 7:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Join a Tawkwando/hapkido/muaythai/boxing etc. club. One with adults, not just kids. You'll probably be surround by guys, but they'll have sisters and female friends they can introduce you to.

Or get one of your Korean coworkers to hook you up with a hiking club or something. That'll probably have a few interesting people in it.
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tatertot



Joined: 21 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Sat Apr 04, 2009 9:22 am    Post subject: Re: How to meet Korean friends? Reply with quote

nourozi wrote:
tatertot wrote:
Thedudeabides wrote:
when they give you the foreigner stare, just make eye contact, hold a hand up in the air and yell "HIGH FIVE-UH!" They will be very impressed with your knowledge of Korean culture, and you will be irresistible to Korean women. You will make friends everywhere you go with this one, trust me.


Wouldn't it be "HIGH PIE-BUH?" But thanks for that tidbit. When I arrive in Korea as soon as I step off the plane I am going to do that! Laughing


no, you will be shocked and numbed by your external world becoming an internal reality.


I was trying to make a joke, but I don't understand your response. Can you clarify please? The reason I said "PIE-BUH" is because Koreans don't have "F" or "V" sounds in their alphabet (I thought). Hopefully I didn't offend you, my bad.
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