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Keepongoing
Joined: 13 Feb 2003
Location: Korea
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 Posted: Tue May 19, 2009 10:04 am Post subject: trying to get rid of korean girlfriend |
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| My current girlfriend (Korean) is living with me, and I want her to leave my apartment. She wants to stay; even though I told her many times I don't love her and want her to find her own place. The lease is in my name, and I pay all the rent. I am a foreigner and have very little info on this situation. Is there somewhere I can go for help to get rid of her? PLEASE HELP ME! |
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gangwonbound
Joined: 27 Apr 2009
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| Posted: Tue May 19, 2009 10:34 am Post subject: |
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| Take her stuff and leave it outside the door. Change the locks too would be a good thing. |
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Mr. Pink
Joined: 21 Oct 2003
Location: China
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| Posted: Tue May 19, 2009 11:30 am Post subject: |
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| gangwonbound wrote: |
| Take her stuff and leave it outside the door. Change the locks too would be a good thing. |
I was going to suggest the same thing.
You could also do the extreme thing: move and don't tell her where you are moving to. |
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Bloopity Bloop
Joined: 26 Apr 2009
Location: Seoul yo
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| Posted: Tue May 19, 2009 3:28 pm Post subject: Re: trying to get rid of korean girlfriend |
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| Keepongoing wrote: |
| My current girlfriend (Korean) is living with me, and I want her to leave my apartment. She wants to stay; even though I told her many times I don't love her and want her to find her own place. The lease is in my name, and I pay all the rent. I am a foreigner and have very little info on this situation. Is there somewhere I can go for help to get rid of her? PLEASE HELP ME! |
Can you provide more context? From what you've written, it just seems like you've been suggesting that she move out-- and she doesn't really believe you.
What exactly have you done to make her leave? If you've only said things like, "You know... you've been here for a while now, don't you need to go home?" then we might be able to give you more help. |
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Kikomom
Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: them thar hills--Penna, USA--Zippy is my kid, the teacher in ROK. You can call me Kiko
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| Posted: Tue May 19, 2009 3:31 pm Post subject: |
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| How do men normally deal with this without feeling like a schmuck for being the cause of a broken heart? |
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Dazed and Confused
Joined: 10 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Wed May 20, 2009 2:55 am Post subject: |
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| Give her a dead line such as 15, 20, or 30 days. Tell her she has to move or you'll move her stuff out. If she isn't out by the deadline, you pack up her things, set them outside and change the locks. Have a copy of your lease handy and a neutral Korea friend nearby in case she calls the cops. |
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Joe666
Joined: 19 Nov 2008
Location: Jesus it's hot down here!
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| Posted: Wed May 20, 2009 3:50 am Post subject: |
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Kikomom:How do men normally deal with this without feeling like a schmuck for being the cause of a broken heart?
Just think of how a women would deal with being the cause of a broken heart, but add common sense and rationality and PRESTO!, you have your answer.
gregtheman may be on to something, this could be a lot of fun! |
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Panda
Joined: 25 Oct 2008
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I guess there is a period in most (if not every) girls' life that they cant control their stubborness, even knowing its totally ill.
I feel for her, but I think no one could help her before she becomes aware what she has done, just do everything mean you can to get her out of your place.
But again, dont take any advice here seriously.  |
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Draz
Joined: 27 Jun 2007
Location: Land of Morning Clam
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| Posted: Wed May 20, 2009 9:18 am Post subject: Re: trying to get rid of korean girlfriend |
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| Keepongoing wrote: |
| My current girlfriend (Korean) is living with me, and I want her to leave my apartment. She wants to stay; even though I told her many times I don't love her and want her to find her own place. The lease is in my name, and I pay all the rent. I am a foreigner and have very little info on this situation. Is there somewhere I can go for help to get rid of her? PLEASE HELP ME! |
She doesn't want to leave? Really? Wow, that's unexpected. She must really love you.  |
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JongnoGuru
Joined: 25 May 2004
Location: peeing on your doorstep
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| Posted: Wed May 20, 2009 9:29 am Post subject: Re: trying to get rid of korean girlfriend |
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| Keepongoing wrote: |
| My current girlfriend .... I don't love her ... |
Problem here is the form. You're speaking singular, instead of plural or numberless.
Last edited by JongnoGuru on Wed May 20, 2009 9:30 am; edited 1 time in total |
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superacidjax
Joined: 17 Oct 2006
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Wed May 20, 2009 11:37 am Post subject: |
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| Policia: "Officer I don't know this girl!" |
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