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cdninkorea
Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul
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| gregtheman100 wrote: |
| Bring another girl home from the bars some night...if she goes with it, she's a keeper. If she doesn't, I'm sure she'll be moving out in no time. |
Awesome. |
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meangradin
Joined: 10 Mar 2006
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| Posted: Wed May 20, 2009 10:06 pm Post subject: |
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perhaps your avatar is a warning to yourself?
(No) symapthy for lady (may =) vengence
BTW, I hope you don't have any illegal habbits she may know about! |
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Young FRANKenstein
Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)
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| Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 12:22 am Post subject: |
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| Kikomom wrote: |
| How do men normally deal with this without feeling like a schmuck for being the cause of a broken heart? |
Turn the question around: How do women? |
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Young FRANKenstein
Joined: 02 Oct 2006
Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)
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| Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 12:24 am Post subject: |
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| Zulethe wrote: |
| Unless you're looking for marriage, it's unwise to move in with a Korean girl. |
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travel zen
Joined: 22 Feb 2005
Location: Good old Toronto, Canada
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| Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 5:48 pm Post subject: |
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| Bring another girl home from the bars some night...if she goes with it, she's a keeper. If she doesn't, I'm sure she'll be moving out in no time. |
Absolute classic. Very logical. |
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RufusW
Joined: 14 Jun 2008
Location: Busan
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| Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 6:20 pm Post subject: |
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| Zulethe wrote: |
| ...introduce her to some other desperate western sucker. Tell her that he is in love with her and that he has secretly loved her for a long time. |
Shakespeare style! |
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pkang0202
Joined: 09 Mar 2007
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| Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 6:27 pm Post subject: |
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Some people say change the locks and leave all her stuff outside. That is the last thing you want to do.
She can go to your work and absolutely embarrass you. Either by talking to your boss, or even show up in the middle of your lesson and cause a huge scene in front of your students.
She could come home, see all her stuff on the street with the doors locked and go to the police and accuse you of rape.
Also, in Korea she could SUE you, yes take your money, as compensation for the time she spent in the relationship with you.
however, if you can find proof that you did in fact pay for rent and everyting, and she freeloaded off of you, then I'm sure the courts won't rule in her favor.
Anyways, there are a ton of ways she can mess up your life.
OP, the best thing you can do is find her family and tell them that they need to take her off your hands. |
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the boy next door
Joined: 08 Jun 2008
Location: next door
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| Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 6:31 pm Post subject: |
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threaten to marry her. she'll run like hell...
Last edited by the boy next door on Thu May 21, 2009 9:12 pm; edited 1 time in total |
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I'm no Picasso
Joined: 28 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 7:20 pm Post subject: |
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| Joe666 wrote: |
Just think of how a women would deal with being the cause of a broken heart, but add common sense and rationality and PRESTO!, you have your answer.
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| Is there somewhere I can go for help to get rid of her? PLEASE HELP ME! |
Yes. Clearly. |
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Lostone7
Joined: 08 Jun 2006
Location: SE Asia
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| Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 7:52 pm Post subject: |
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| Zulethe wrote: |
Unless you're looking for marriage, it's unwise to date a Korean girl. As the OP has unfortunately learned the hard way, Korean women don't know the meaning of casual live in dating.
Truuust me, I learned the hard way. I've broken many hearts and I won't anymore.
As much as I would love to hook up regularly with the hotties I'm sourrounded by, which is so tempting and very easy, I refrain.
My advice to you would be to introduce her to some other desperate western sucker. Tell her that he is in love with her and that he has secretly loved her for a long time.
Tell her that she'll be much happier with him. Act like you are very happy for him and her and cry like a baby as she moves out and wish them both the best.
It worked for me. |
LOL worked for me in the states too  |
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wuzza
Joined: 02 May 2003
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| Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 10:08 pm Post subject: |
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| If you change the locks, she'll just call a locksmith and be back in in 10 minutes. If I can do it when I forget my keys... |
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TheUrbanMyth
Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired
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| Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 10:29 pm Post subject: |
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| Start charging her rent and half the utilities. |
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MattAwesome
Joined: 30 Jun 2008
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| Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 11:32 pm Post subject: |
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| I can take her off your hands for the weekends. |
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Joe666
Joined: 19 Nov 2008
Location: Jesus it's hot down here!
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| Posted: Fri May 22, 2009 2:00 am Post subject: |
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pkang0202: She can go to your work and absolutely embarrass you. Either by talking to your boss, or even show up in the middle of your lesson and cause a huge scene in front of your students.
She could come home, see all her stuff on the street with the doors locked and go to the police and accuse you of rape.
Also, in Korea she could SUE you, yes take your money, as compensation for the time she spent in the relationship with you.
however, if you can find proof that you did in fact pay for rent and everyting, and she freeloaded off of you, then I'm sure the courts won't rule in her favor.
Anyways, there are a ton of ways she can mess up your life.
Holy Crap - Are these truths and or has anybody heard or can confirm that these are a reality in Korea. This reads like a Steven King novel. |
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peppermint
Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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| Posted: Fri May 22, 2009 2:24 pm Post subject: |
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| Joe666 wrote: |
pkang0202: She can go to your work and absolutely embarrass you. Either by talking to your boss, or even show up in the middle of your lesson and cause a huge scene in front of your students.
She could come home, see all her stuff on the street with the doors locked and go to the police and accuse you of rape.
Anyways, there are a ton of ways she can mess up your life.
Holy Crap - Are these truths and or has anybody heard or can confirm that these are a reality in Korea. This reads like a Steven King novel. |
I'd hardly say it's the norm, but I know of a guy who got fired because of a (non existent?) pregnancy reported to his boss. In that particular case though, he was just as messed up as she was. |
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