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fromtheuk



Joined: 31 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 4:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Point taken sinisterbar. Laughing

That doesn't detract from the fact many posters have experienced ridicule for just being foreign. Do you think they are all paranoid nutjobs?

I'm all for giving people benefit of the doubt, but I have seen many instances of rudeness on behalf of some Koreans.
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Fishead soup



Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 4:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm a big fan of Kaygogi Masala Tikka
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Chambertin



Joined: 07 Jun 2009
Location: Gunsan

PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 4:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Exactly, EDIT: for some reason I read the first post on this page as a response to me. Should�ve known it wasn�t the case.

I think we all face a certain amount of ridicule. I know I went through more than my fair share of it in Japan, even with language ability.
Even in the US I got lots of poor reactions from Koreans on innocent (to me) questions.

What I'm saying is that it seems to me ( I was not there ) that this situation was made much worse by pressing the subject and playing into them.

-I don�t know about living in Korea which is why I'm on my way over-
That being said in all of my experiences with hostile local groups when you continue to react to them, all be it their silence, or vocal taunts, you play directly into their hands.

Bullies don�t like friends in any place. Why not act all friendly and take it to the next level to embarrass them. Smile, laugh with them, sit next to them. Go ahead buy them a beer, you clearly have the language ability to belittle them 12 times over in a pleasant conversation. The spectators become the referees, let the rest of the people see you as a hero rather than an overactive foreigner dumping the usual insults. Hit them where they don�t expect and destroy their confidence to do it again.

I fully believe the antagonist won in your situation.

My point is show your intelligence through adaptability. You only hurt yourself in blatant retaliation, take the fight to their trenches so if you die you take them with you.

Its not that you were wrong, its how you win in the eyes of those around you.
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fromtheuk



Joined: 31 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 4:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Interesting ideas. To be frank, that Korean guy walked off looking quite embarrassed. I was there and it is safe to say I won. Laughing
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Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 5:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

fromtheuk wrote:
I'm all for giving people benefit of the doubt,.


Did you give that to the people in question in the OP?
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fromtheuk



Joined: 31 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 6:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm pretty sure I did.
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asylum seeker



Joined: 22 Jul 2007
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 7:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kurtz wrote:



I used to think the same way until I saw the youtube video, and then I realized he is for real.



Do you have a link for that?
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fromtheuk



Joined: 31 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 7:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The video was a test message. I will post a new video when I'm ready. Laughing
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Adventurer



Joined: 28 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 7:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is a very dumb thread, the equivalent of a bad movie you wish you never saw....
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Steelrails



Joined: 12 Mar 2009
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 8:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Deleted Orig.

Last edited by Steelrails on Tue Jun 16, 2009 8:19 pm; edited 1 time in total
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Steelrails



Joined: 12 Mar 2009
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 8:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well at least the blokes here are nicer than in Yemen.

9 Foreigners abducted- including South Korean was the headline.

I don't know about you, but I haven't heard any stories lately about abductions at gunpoint/possible beheadings.

So on the scale of things two guys snickering at you aint so bad.

Lighten up!

Some of the countries have experienced recent multiple major foreigner abductions/murders include:

Yemen, Somalia, Colombia, Mexico, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Iraq, Lebanon.
I'm sure there are some others too.

That's right- on the scale of real crap thrown people's way Korea does better than Yemen, Somalia, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Iraq, and Lebanon...ooo let's throw Sudan in there too.

Not to mention the rudeness one encounters in jolly old England sometimes...
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fromtheuk



Joined: 31 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 8:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think they may have felt upset about their fellow brethren in faith being murdered in the millions by the US.
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Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 9:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

fromtheuk wrote:
I think they may have felt upset about their fellow brethren in faith being murdered in the millions by the US.


there we go - this thread has officially run its course.
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Steelrails



Joined: 12 Mar 2009
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 11:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I think they may have felt upset about their fellow brethren in faith being murdered in the millions by the US.


Sort of like one country could be upset about millions of its ethnic kindred being killed in a war by the U.S. say, from 1950-1953? (Which btw, I don't have a problem with because I was born into a world of opportunity rather than a world for 'Dear Leader'.)

Or maybe some of their ethnic kindred being abducted and beheaded? BTW were the Koreans involved in this incident responsible for the 'murder of millions' that you describe?

www.usatoday.com/news/world/2007-07-20-afghan-abductions_N.htm

www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A62068-2004Jun22.html

I await your enlightened response about how the Koreans suck at treating foreigners.
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Bloopity Bloop



Joined: 26 Apr 2009
Location: Seoul yo

PostPosted: Wed Jun 17, 2009 12:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Adventurer wrote:
This is a very dumb thread, the equivalent of a bad movie you wish you never saw....


Word.
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