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The Life Cycle of a Dave's poster

 
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Zulethe



Joined: 04 Jul 2008

PostPosted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 6:51 pm    Post subject: The Life Cycle of a Dave's poster Reply with quote

First you find the wonder. All those great posts. You can't get enough. The crazy weigukin; all the different wondeful stories.

And then you see the pattern develop. The same questions and answers again and again. Any genuine original post eventually devolves into a spatter between two or three posters and the original inertia of the post is lost and then the post is either locked or deleted.

The people that shouldn't post do and those who should don't.

You begin to realize that the posters on here are the same people you would have nothing to do with if you saw them on the street.

You start to wonder why you are posting here in the first place.

You begin to realize that it's a waste of time and your resources should be spent elsewhere. Yet you continue to post.

Eventually though, you get a life or move on and stop posting altogether.

I love Dave's Very Happy
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tzechuk



Joined: 20 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 7:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

So by your logic, we should all feel the same, which means that we WOULD, if we feel so inclined, get on famously IRL.

I do agree with the first bit of your post though... it really was like that.

But my pressing question is - why are YOU still posting. Are you saying that you have yet to find a life? Razz Wink
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Zulethe



Joined: 04 Jul 2008

PostPosted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 7:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

tzechuk wrote:
So by your logic, we should all feel the same, which means that we WOULD, if we feel so inclined, get on famously IRL.

I do agree with the first bit of your post though... it really was like that.

But my pressing question is - why are YOU still posting. Are you saying that you have yet to find a life? Razz Wink


You hit the nail on the head. Also, as pathetic as this may sound, a main reason I post is to keep my writing skills sharp.
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SuperHero



Joined: 10 Dec 2003
Location: Superhero Hideout

PostPosted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 5:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zulethe wrote:
You hit the nail on the head. Also, as pathetic as this may sound, a main reason I post is to keep my writing skills sharp.

You should really work on writing in paragraphs.
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fromtheuk



Joined: 31 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 12:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I can't stand those posters who seem to post anything, no matter how irrelevant. I'm glad I'm not one of them.
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andrewchon



Joined: 16 Nov 2008
Location: Back in Oz. Living in ISIS Aust.

PostPosted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 2:21 pm    Post subject: Re: The Life Cycle of a Dave's poster Reply with quote

Zulethe wrote:

The people that shouldn't post do and those who should don't.


I am at this stage.

I shouldn't be here posting but I'm in a 'dog wash' mode,
and I'll do anything to not do the thing that has to be done.
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Rteacher



Joined: 23 May 2005
Location: Western MA, USA

PostPosted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 4:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If nothing else, it's a good place to post my karaoke videos ...
http://www.singsnap.com/snap/r/bdc1ffb3

And if I don't find a job (at age 60) within the next two weeks (or marry a Korean) I'll have to leave the country I've called home for the last eight years - so this video can be something for forum members (especially veterans) to remember me by ...
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Panda



Joined: 25 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 7:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

When I was 24, I felt obligated to argue about literally everything everything I heard or read from others.

I don't any more, what a relief.......
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GreenlightmeansGO



Joined: 11 Dec 2006
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 8:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Panda wrote:
When I was 24, I felt obligated to argue about literally everything everything I heard or read from others.

I don't any more, what a relief.......


Panda, I've never seen someone throw-up so beautifully.
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mc_jc



Joined: 13 Aug 2009
Location: C4B- Cp Red Cloud, Area-I

PostPosted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 9:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I began posting here when I first learned about Dave's back in 1999. At that time, I was working at a hagwon and I used Dave's as a way to network with others who teach ESL (back then, there were fewer of us than there are now).
I guess I post to keep in touch with my roots as an ESL teacher since I don't have contact with people who teach English on a normal basis like I used to.
As for not having anything to do with people on here if I met them in real life~ I am generally sociable and friendly and I have met many posters in real life, especially during the Dave's meet-ups; None of them had anything bad to say about me (granted, they were the ones who confess their forum names- not me Wink)
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Pa Jan Jo A Hamnida



Joined: 27 Oct 2006
Location: Not Korea

PostPosted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 11:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That is truly lousy behaviour. I work with a 20 something and it is always an argument. Not based on logic or fact but emotion. Y doesn't like X because it feels wrong. But Y doesn't know or want to fix it. So , yep Y will then cast dispersion but refuse to be held accountable. Laziness at it's finest.


Panda wrote:
When I was 24, I felt obligated to argue about literally everything everything I heard or read from others.

I don't any more, what a relief.......
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The Cosmic Hum



Joined: 09 May 2003
Location: Sonic Space

PostPosted: Sat Feb 06, 2010 1:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rteacher wrote:
If nothing else, it's a good place to post my karaoke videos ...
http://www.singsnap.com/snap/r/bdc1ffb3

And if I don't find a job (at age 60) within the next two weeks (or marry a Korean) I'll have to leave the country I've called home for the last eight years - so this video can be something for forum members (especially veterans) to remember me by ...


Hey Rteacher...best of luck in the coming weeks.
Really sucks to be in that kind of position...though I am sure you will handle it well...regardless of the the outcome.
Keep the faith. Wink
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mc_jc



Joined: 13 Aug 2009
Location: C4B- Cp Red Cloud, Area-I

PostPosted: Sat Feb 06, 2010 8:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rteacher wrote:
If nothing else, it's a good place to post my karaoke videos ...
http://www.singsnap.com/snap/r/bdc1ffb3

And if I don't find a job (at age 60) within the next two weeks (or marry a Korean) I'll have to leave the country I've called home for the last eight years - so this video can be something for forum members (especially veterans) to remember me by ...


If you've been here continuously for 3 straight years, this might come in handy for you;

http://english.chosun.com/site/data/html_dir/2010/02/01/2010020100316.html

Quote:
...(or marry a Korean)...


Don't do this. Why get stuck in a loveless marriage for the sake of staying here?
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