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air76
Joined: 13 Nov 2007
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Posted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 11:09 pm Post subject: Babies are for cribs, not for classes..in Korea or elsewhere |
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Fortunately this was not in my class....but one of the students at the university has been bringing her baby to class this last week because of child care issues or something. A proper baby, maybe 6 months old or something like that...I was in my office yesterday and heard the baby crying and screaming and I couldn't help but laugh and be happy that I wasn't trying to teach a university course over the top of a screaming food disposal unit.
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Kaypea
Joined: 09 Oct 2008
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Posted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 11:16 pm Post subject: |
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aww, babies are cute! I wanna teach with a baby in the class, but since I teach Middle School, probably isn't going to happen... although I did get to meet a student's baby brother (awwwwww!) |
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Senior
Joined: 31 Jan 2010
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Posted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 11:17 pm Post subject: |
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Seriously. This is weird for Korea.
It happens all the time in NZ. |
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BoholDiver
Joined: 03 Oct 2009 Location: Canada
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Posted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 11:20 pm Post subject: |
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I had one in my class in a hagwon, a Korean class.
She got special permission and she was polite enough to ask if it was okay when I joined the class. She was there before me, so regardless of my feelings, I felt she had the right.
In a public institution, sorry. No. |
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Dragoon
Joined: 18 Apr 2010
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Posted: Tue Jun 08, 2010 11:35 pm Post subject: Re: ONLY in Korea....baby in the classroom... |
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air76 wrote: |
Fortunately this was not in my class....but one of the students at the university has been bringing her baby to class this last week because of child care issues or something. A proper baby, maybe 6 months old or something like that...I was in my office yesterday and heard the baby crying and screaming and I couldn't help but laugh and be happy that I wasn't trying to teach a university course over the top of a screaming food disposal unit. |
I can understand how you feel bro. Before I had all my damn kids...I thought kids...especially babies were a pain in the azz. 3 kids later I'm able to sympathize with those with babies...I'd like to bring my kids with me to work places too.....but I know how many people who never had kids feel about kids..so I usually don't.
(wow I just read this and it sounds like crap...still gonna post it regardless..I'm too far in to back out now.) |
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Steelrails

Joined: 12 Mar 2009 Location: Earth, Solar System
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Posted: Wed Jun 09, 2010 12:36 am Post subject: |
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To the OP- You've never been to a classroom in America have you? |
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thegadfly

Joined: 01 Feb 2003
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Posted: Wed Jun 09, 2010 1:22 am Post subject: |
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Teaching in a US high school, I had a 9th grade student breastfeeding her child during class -- and she was offended when I suggested she leave the front row of class to do so...I wasn't even kicking her out, just asking her to sit in the back of the row until she was done -- she was hard to see around, and was a distraction.
In US university classes, my evening class usually had one or two babies -- babysitters are not always reliable. If they cried or fussed too much, I asked the mother to take the child out....
No, not "only in Korea," not by a long shot.... |
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kinerry
Joined: 01 Jun 2009
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Posted: Wed Jun 09, 2010 2:02 am Post subject: |
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thegadfly wrote: |
Teaching in a US high school, I had a 9th grade student breastfeeding her child during class -- and she was offended when I suggested she leave the front row of class to do so...I wasn't even kicking her out, just asking her to sit in the back of the row until she was done -- she was hard to see around, and was a distraction.
In US university classes, my evening class usually had one or two babies -- babysitters are not always reliable. If they cried or fussed too much, I asked the mother to take the child out....
No, not "only in Korea," not by a long shot.... |
There's specific policy in most public schools and universities that children are not allowed in classrooms. They can make exceptions with approval of the dean in certain situations, but that's about it.
No way in hell they are going to risk bothering a bunch of paying customers, they'd rather make the person with the baby quit. |
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AsiaESLbound
Joined: 07 Jan 2010 Location: Truck Stop Missouri
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Posted: Wed Jun 09, 2010 2:49 am Post subject: |
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My co-teacher has her 1st grader hang out from 2:30 to 5 each day. Even on the day she doesn't teach, her son still shows up. The problem with this is he's a distraction as cute as he is. He gets bored, makes noise, runs in circles, and if I'm sitting, he's too interested in what I'm doing with my computer where he climbs on my back.
I think it's unprofessional due to the distractions to baby sit at work or during a college class, especially if you aren't present or are too occupied to actually baby sit the child. It's unfair to your classmates and co-workers just as your ringing cell phone is. Baby sitting doesn't just involve supervision, it also requires entertaining or engaging the kid in activities to keep them on good terms. I'd say it's inappropriate in most any country to lug a baby or young child into a college class or to your job. Sure in 3rd world countries mothers do work and everything with the babies in tow, but that's different. |
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Young FRANKenstein

Joined: 02 Oct 2006 Location: Castle Frankenstein (that's FRONKensteen)
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Posted: Wed Jun 09, 2010 7:53 am Post subject: |
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thegadfly wrote: |
No, not "only in Korea," not by a long shot.... |
No kidding. I've had fellow classmates (uni AND high school) bring their babies to class. Teachers, profs and (when I became part of the staff) co-workers have done it too. And this is going back 15-25 years. |
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Aelric
Joined: 02 Mar 2009
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Posted: Wed Jun 09, 2010 9:14 pm Post subject: |
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Yep, I can name at least three classes in college where folks brought their ids in due to babysitters canceling last minute and not being able to afford daycare. Heck, in a photography class I had, an older lady brought her 8 and 10 year olds to class and they just chilled out in the back while we did our critiques. Don't begrudge Korea or the people who do that, they wouldn't if they could help it. If it were me, I'd bring my kids in if I had too, no questions asked. I'm not leaving them alone and I'm not gonna fail a class because I missed a lecture or assignment deadline. Better to temporarily annoy a few other people than potentially cripple your future. |
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air76
Joined: 13 Nov 2007
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Posted: Wed Jun 09, 2010 10:02 pm Post subject: |
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Steelrails wrote: |
To the OP- You've never been to a classroom in America have you? |
Not for the last decade, no. Before that every single one of my classroom experiences would have been in America, and I never once saw a baby there.
I stand corrected if this is common practice elsewhere, but I was flabbergasted that someone would be allowed to disrupt the entire class just because they chose to procreate. I have no sympathy for those with babies. It is a choice to have a baby, not a right nor an obligation. Personally I fixed this anatomical flaw surgically so I don't have to worry about ever spawning a money eating, screaming and pooping rug rat. |
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OneWayTraffic
Joined: 14 Mar 2005
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Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 3:09 am Post subject: |
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air76 wrote: |
Steelrails wrote: |
To the OP- You've never been to a classroom in America have you? |
Not for the last decade, no. Before that every single one of my classroom experiences would have been in America, and I never once saw a baby there.
I stand corrected if this is common practice elsewhere, but I was flabbergasted that someone would be allowed to disrupt the entire class just because they chose to procreate. I have no sympathy for those with babies. It is a choice to have a baby, not a right nor an obligation. Personally I fixed this anatomical flaw surgically so I don't have to worry about ever spawning a money eating, screaming and pooping rug rat. |
Hope you remember this post when there's no one to push your wheelchair, or pay the taxes that make up your retirement. |
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Steelrails

Joined: 12 Mar 2009 Location: Earth, Solar System
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Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 6:11 am Post subject: |
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air76 wrote: |
Steelrails wrote: |
To the OP- You've never been to a classroom in America have you? |
Not for the last decade, no. Before that every single one of my classroom experiences would have been in America, and I never once saw a baby there.
I stand corrected if this is common practice elsewhere, but I was flabbergasted that someone would be allowed to disrupt the entire class just because they chose to procreate. I have no sympathy for those with babies. It is a choice to have a baby, not a right nor an obligation. Personally I fixed this anatomical flaw surgically so I don't have to worry about ever spawning a money eating, screaming and pooping rug rat. |
And you're a teacher?
Seriously, this babies/kids are worse than the plague mentality of our current generation suggests a deep moral fail. |
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PatrickGHBusan
Joined: 24 Jun 2008 Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -
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Posted: Thu Jun 10, 2010 7:13 am Post subject: |
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I was flabbergasted that someone would be allowed to disrupt the entire class just because they chose to procreate. I have no sympathy for those with babies. It is a choice to have a baby, not a right nor an obligation. Personally I fixed this anatomical flaw surgically so I don't have to worry about ever spawning a money eating, screaming and pooping rug rat |
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