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sluggo832004
Joined: 04 Sep 2010
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 8:18 pm Post subject: making Friends in Korea....... |
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Im just curious. If you are leaving America and going to Korea to teach, are Koreans friendly? Are there places where foreigners can meet and hang out?
Do recruiters have get togethers where you can hang out and meet other teachers like you?
I know these questions might sound silly, but I really dont know. lol |
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moped
Joined: 14 Nov 2009
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 8:29 pm Post subject: |
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Friends are HIGHLY overrated. Don't worry about it. Learn to enjoy your own company. |
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oldtactics

Joined: 18 Oct 2008
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 8:35 pm Post subject: |
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Public school districts usually have get-togethers, at least in Gangwon-do. Hagwons don't usually belong to any specific networks that can help you meet people, but there are lots of groups and events and activities that you can meet friends through.
I recommend searching for your town or province on facebook, and go from there. |
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air76
Joined: 13 Nov 2007
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Posted: Thu Sep 09, 2010 10:50 pm Post subject: |
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Koreans are very friendly, but super weird, especially outside of the big cities, plus most of them won't speak English well enough to be a proper friend....if you're going to a smaller town then most likely 95% of your friends will be other foreigners.
In general it isn't too hard to make friends as the foreigners tend to stick together. |
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Radius
Joined: 20 Dec 2009
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 12:14 am Post subject: |
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they're friends up until the point you ask them to go out . well i guess they're friends when EVERYONE goes out after work, but try to call them on the weekends and ask them to do something, nah it aint happening. They're too afraid of having to speak in English the whole time. |
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furtakk
Joined: 02 Jun 2009
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 1:53 am Post subject: |
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Radius wrote: |
they're friends up until the point you ask them to go out . well i guess they're friends when EVERYONE goes out after work, but try to call them on the weekends and ask them to do something, nah it aint happening. They're too afraid of having to speak in English the whole time. |
Are you talking about co-workers or Koreans in general? The former may be true, but plenty of my Korean friends are always down for hanging out on the weekend, going on trips, etc etc. |
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Radius
Joined: 20 Dec 2009
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 3:13 am Post subject: |
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furtakk wrote: |
Radius wrote: |
they're friends up until the point you ask them to go out . well i guess they're friends when EVERYONE goes out after work, but try to call them on the weekends and ask them to do something, nah it aint happening. They're too afraid of having to speak in English the whole time. |
Are you talking about co-workers or Koreans in general? The former may be true, but plenty of my Korean friends are always down for hanging out on the weekend, going on trips, etc etc. |
ah yes, i was talking about co-workers. |
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schwa
Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: Yap
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 3:35 am Post subject: |
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Everyone's mileage will vary. Depends largely on how socially adept you are, & luck. |
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PigeonFart
Joined: 27 Apr 2006
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 3:46 am Post subject: |
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I think what an earlier poster said is right, learn to like your own company, and you'll probably want to hang around other non koreans anyway.
Once you get to know the Korean mind, you'll be quite put off by their presence. They really are kind of weird. The hermit kingdom indeed. At least find a korean that has a passport and has travelled, they tend to be more normal. |
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happiness
Joined: 04 Sep 2010
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 4:34 am Post subject: |
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schwa wrote: |
Everyone's mileage will vary. Depends largely on how socially adept you are, & luck. |
play sports, alot of teams for stuff. and yes, confidence and socail adept.. |
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cert43
Joined: 17 Jun 2010
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 11:25 am Post subject: |
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There is absoluty NOTHING wrong with hanging out by yourself..Hell, the
more people you have in your circle=the more stupid drama you have
and etc.. Guys are well, jerks and girls are well, bitches.
So whos left? No one. except maybe your dog..
Like one poster said, your're your own best company. 
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CtotheB
Joined: 03 Sep 2010
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 11:27 am Post subject: |
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"You're"
And that's a couple of pretty big generalizations, especially for a foreigner to make. Just sayin'. |
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cert43
Joined: 17 Jun 2010
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 11:28 am Post subject: |
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Thanks..Yes, but isn't it true to a certain extent? |
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CtotheB
Joined: 03 Sep 2010
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 11:37 am Post subject: |
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Hmm, no, I prefer to judge everyone individually. You never know when someone who looks like an idiot will turn out to be really nice and cool. |
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cert43
Joined: 17 Jun 2010
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Posted: Fri Sep 10, 2010 12:04 pm Post subject: |
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That's true,but I was talking about Single Girls and Guys and what they are mainly looking for when they go out.
IDK this getting off topic.
Good Luck OP try meetup.com
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