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Middle Schooler kills family out of spite...
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charliebrown84



Joined: 29 Jul 2009
Location: Daegu, South Korea

PostPosted: Sat Oct 23, 2010 9:01 pm    Post subject: Middle Schooler kills family out of spite... Reply with quote

http://joongangdaily.joins.com/article/view.asp?aid=2927454

This story is very sad, and it creates a big confusing gray area. Do you feel bad for the kid because his father wouldn't let him be himself? Or do you hate the kid because he took it out on the rest of the family, especially his sister who was probably innocent in the whole thing...

Any thoughts?
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recessiontime



Joined: 21 Jun 2010
Location: Got avatar privileges nyahahaha

PostPosted: Sat Oct 23, 2010 9:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

all i can say is, that's cold blooded.

I heard a similar story except it involved a kid telling another kid to burn his families house down so he could reap the insurance money and split it with him so they can have fun in Itaewon or something.

Korean kids, they are dangerous lol.
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young_clinton



Joined: 09 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 1:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

He was either on drugs or he's a serious psychopath.
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CentralCali



Joined: 17 May 2007

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 7:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Those aren't mutually exclusive. But from the story, I seriously doubt it was drugs, given the planning and timing.
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Steelrails



Joined: 12 Mar 2009
Location: Earth, Solar System

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 7:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pending autopsy results and such, I'm surprised he didn't physically attack them. Most people with pent-up rage want to lash out with a knife or a blunt object or something.

Arson-Muder, that's cold. Clearly he was trying to get away with it and not just snapping.
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madoka



Joined: 27 Mar 2008

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 10:15 am    Post subject: Re: Middle Schooler kills family out of spite... Reply with quote

charliebrown84 wrote:
Do you feel bad for the kid because his father wouldn't let him be himself?


Are you kidding? It's not as if his father was raping him. The father cared enough about his son to want him to make something of himself. Being told to study doesn't exactly justify murdering four people. Kid is psycho.
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jvalmer



Joined: 06 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 3:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

A lot of people have thoughts of killing overbearing parents when they were young, me included. It's probably normal but the vast majority do not actually do it.
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caniff



Joined: 03 Feb 2004
Location: All over the map

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 7:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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A lot of people have thoughts of killing [their own, as opposed to other children's] overbearing parents when they were young, me included.


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It's probably normal


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but the vast majority do not actually do it.


Links?
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young_clinton



Joined: 09 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 7:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

In spite of the fact that he sounds like a psycho, he might not have meant to kill his family. People that young can't always make the connection between lighting the apt of fire and somebody inside it being burned to death.
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jvalmer



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 8:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

caniff wrote:
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A lot of people have thoughts of killing [their own, as opposed to other children's] overbearing parents when they were young, me included.

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It's probably normal

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but the vast majority do not actually do it.

Links?

Just my own experience, no links or proof, but when I was young if I got into a fight or argument, I often had passing thought about doing harm to that person. But I've never actually seriously considered taking action. That's what separates normal people from the wackos.
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caniff



Joined: 03 Feb 2004
Location: All over the map

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 8:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I hear you, I'm just f'in around (but not trying to make light of this tragedy).

I can recall occasionally fantasizing about killing certain teachers when I was a hoplite, but I don't hold any particular animosity towards them today.
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NYC_Gal



Joined: 08 Dec 2009

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 10:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I used to threaten to send them to a nursing home that had rats.

My dad loves bringing this up, but we get on really well so it's just to tease me.

The kid has issues, and deserves to be locked up and treated.
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ThingsComeAround



Joined: 07 Nov 2008

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 10:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

NYC_Gal wrote:
I used to threaten to send them to a nursing home that had rats.

My dad loves bringing this up, but we get on really well so it's just to tease me.

The kid has issues, and deserves to be locked up and treated.


I'd prefer to put him under the jail.

No parole for parent killers in my kingdom Mad
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Panda



Joined: 25 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 11:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was saddened no one actually spoke for the kid.

It was not my first time hearing my English teacher friends told me their students list "sleeping" as one of the top things they want to do after they grow up. Korea has the least happiest kids in the world.

But they are not vegetations or pets.

I would say some parents are jerks as they push their kids to study so hard while remaining zero accomplishment themselves.
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recessiontime



Joined: 21 Jun 2010
Location: Got avatar privileges nyahahaha

PostPosted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

NYC_Gal wrote:
I used to threaten to send them to a nursing home that had rats.

My dad loves bringing this up, but we get on really well so it's just to tease me.

The kid has issues, and deserves to be locked up and treated.


You are one of the good ones. My sister made the same threat, except she is actually planning to follow through with it. I'll most likely be providing for my parents as soon I get a pharmacy job.
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