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*Title Edit* Issue with Student -- Advice Needed
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ED209



Joined: 17 Oct 2006

PostPosted: Fri Dec 17, 2010 9:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

superNET wrote:

Oh and I do not care what any expert, other teacher or class says to do they do not teach my classes and do not know my students what they think means nothing.


Confused Then why should people take seriously your criticism of the OP? The above makes you sound closed to criticism, constructive or otherwise. How can a teacher improve if they don't take in what others have to say?
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bobbybigfoot



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 17, 2010 10:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stevesteve, what are your teaching qualifications, if you don't mind me asking?
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southernman



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 17, 2010 10:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My bad, I was supposed to just edit my last post Very Happy
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ThingsComeAround



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 12:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

SteveSteve wrote:

I don't think it's lame because I didn't tell her to simply try harder. I told her specific page numbers and class notes (I type and hand out notes for every class) where she could find the answers. Like I saide earlier, in this program, students have the chance to transfer up to 12 credits to one of four American universities, including an Ivy League, towards an MA in TESOL.

So, of course, I want my students to try harder but I always point them in the right direction, and I don't think having slightly higher standards for our Korean students is a bad thing. When we have higher expectations, that are achievable and within grasp, then we usually perform better.


I couldn't understand why superNET had such a problem with this part. Suddenly you (the OP) were the bad guy, and you should have just "given her the correct answers".

I know of a teacher that is taking a class in MA TESOL. She is a nice lady, but incredibly lazy. She had her former subordinate do homework for her (I knew this because the subordinate told me all about it). What kind of a student are you making when you just "give them the answers"? What is the point of you being called a teacher, if the student isn't really learning anything?
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superNET



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 1:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I couldn't understand why superNET had such a problem with this part


I didn't have a problem with it, the student did. If the student couldn't find the right answer then tell her. For the rest of that opening paragraph, he is the bad uy because he left a student needing help and that is wrong.

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What kind of a student are you making when you just "give them the answers"


You are distorting the issue, she wasn't being lazy, SHE GOT 23 OUT OF 25 CORRECT. Giving her 2 answers is not going to make her lazy but help her see where she went wrong so she doesn't do it the next time.

I really do not see how you people are teachers when you miss vital teaching moments.
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OculisOrbis



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 1:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

superNET wrote:
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I couldn't understand why superNET had such a problem with this part


I didn't have a problem with it, the student did. If the student couldn't find the right answer then tell her. For the rest of that opening paragraph, he is the bad uy because he left a student needing help and that is wrong.

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What kind of a student are you making when you just "give them the answers"


You are distorting the issue, she wasn't being lazy, SHE GOT 23 OUT OF 25 CORRECT. Giving her 2 answers is not going to make her lazy but help her see where she went wrong so she doesn't do it the next time.

I really do not see how you people are teachers when you miss vital teaching moments.


She was being lazy. She got the answers that were easy for her, but didnt want to put any effort into finding the two that were difficult for her - especially after being given a study guide, the page numbers with the answers and then crying after only 15 minutes. The teaching moment here was "stop being a baby, we dont spoon feed every bite when youre an adult."

SteveSteve wrote:
I told her to check again and e-mail me back when she's ready. About 15 minutes later, she sends a desperate reply, something to the effect of "I can't find the answers! Can you give me the answers? I'm really worried!!" I told her that most students do really well on the exam and not to worry, and I also gave her specific page numbers and notes so that she can find the answers.
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superNET



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 3:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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The teaching moment here was "stop being a baby, we dont spoon feed every bite when youre an adult."


And you are wrong. All I see from your comment and severalothers,including the Op, is that there are a bunch of lazy, unhelpful, uncaring, western teachers in this land taking home money they did not earn.
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OculisOrbis



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 4:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

superNET wrote:
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The teaching moment here was "stop being a baby, we dont spoon feed every bite when youre an adult."


And you are wrong. All I see from your comment and severalothers,including the Op, is that there are a bunch of lazy, unhelpful, uncaring, western teachers in this land taking home money they did not earn.


Dont forget 'drug-addled', 'sex-crazed', 'disease-ridden' and most of all - 'unqualified'. A few more posts, Seoulio, and I'm sure the Korea Times will be calling you to offer Kang Shin-Who's position of Foreign Teacher Slanderer at their paper.
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kimchi_pizza



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 6:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

OculisOrbis wrote:

Dont forget 'drug-addled', 'sex-crazed', 'disease-ridden' and most of all - 'unqualified'.


Have we met Orbis? But 'disease-ridden'? C'mon...



I thought that was between you and I...

(Sorry, I can't stop laughing and editing at the same time...damn Guiness!)
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some waygug-in



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 9:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

superNET wrote:
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The teaching moment here was "stop being a baby, we dont spoon feed every bite when youre an adult."


And you are wrong. All I see from your comment and severalothers,including the Op, is that there are a bunch of lazy, unhelpful, uncaring, western teachers in this land taking home money they did not earn.



You may be right, but who hired them?

How did the OP's refusal to give a couple of answers suddenly morph into
what you described above?

Western teachers tend to uphold the standards they had to adhere to as students. Whether or not you agree with the OP's teaching methods I can't see how you would think that your ideas are better.
You've given your opion of what you would do, fine. It seems most posters disagree with you, so you start name-calling. (brilliant)
Rolling Eyes
I don't know of any profs back in my university that would have given me the answers, regardless how many I got right, except "after" the exam stage.
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superNET



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 1:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Western teachers tend to uphold the standards they had to adhere to as students.


Why do that when you can improve on it? The western way is not infallible nor correct so why perpetuate a bad method?

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Whether or not you agree with the OP's teaching methods I can't see how you would think that your ideas are better


When good teaching moments arise, you do not ignore them but use them to make the student a beter studier and person. ignoing their plight only leads to negative attitudes and ruins a good educational relationship.

My ideas are better based upon my students' performances over the years and how much easier it gets to teach them when you work with them not against them by leaving them helpless when they are having a problem.

If you think that that western standard is so good, why is it that the western students lag behind everyone else in test results and student achievement. That wetern standard you love so much fails its students.

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It seems most posters disagree with you, so you start name-calling. (brilliant)


No name calling done but describing the attitude being displayed by their remarks. Giving 2 answers is not going to hurt the Op or any teacher in authority or influence, but it will help them because the student will see that the teacher does care about them and their success.

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I don't know of any profs back in my university that would have given me the answers


Who cares? We are not 'back home' and western professors are not the boss of the educational world. What they do doesn't mean crap here,

Are you saying you would blindly follow the western teacher even tough they do not hold to any high standard themselves?

http://search.yahoo.com/search;_ylt=AgRfaOR9DKDk3hpd6mP8Z5WbvZx4?p=american+teachers+cheating&toggle=1&cop=mss&ei=UTF-8&fr=yfp-t-319

http://search.yahoo.com/search;_ylt=A0oGdXZYKA1NTesAtwBXNyoA;_ylc=X1MDMjc2NjY3OQRfcgMyBGFvAzAEZnIDeWZwLXQtMzE5BGhvc3RwdmlkA0VDZXlVa29HZFRDcVhvWVFUUXNZaVFzZ1A5bm9WRTBOS0ZnQUN4SFYEbl9ncHMDMARuX3ZwcwMwBG9yaWdpbgNzcnAEcXVlcnkDYW1lcmljYW4gdGVhY2hlcnMgY2hlYXRpbmcgb24gdGVzdARzYW8DMQR2dGVzdGlkA1ZJUDA0MQ--?p=american+teachers+cheating+on+test&fr2=sb-top&fr=yfp-t-319

Clearly, holding to a western way is not the best way.
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interestedinhanguk



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 4:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

People still use Yahoo!?
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3DR



Joined: 24 May 2009

PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 5:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pay no mind to superNET. His trolling tactic is to constantly instigate arguments (even if his position makes no sense) while always interjecting "the western way" or "stupid westerners".

What a goof.
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NYC_Gal 2.0



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 5:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

@ SuperNET:

If she was helpless, as you claim, she wouldn't have been able to get 23 right. She's being lazy. He gave her directions as to where to find the answers.
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Konglishman



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 8:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, I have read this thread with some amusement. Now, let me point out a fallacy made by SuperNET. He says that the West is lagging behind in education? While it is certainly true that in America there are a number of problems with educational attainment, that is mostly due to the pre-university education (possibly partly due to permissiveness such as what is advocated by SuperNET). Also, the USA is widely acknowledged to have world class universities. Further, I think that when one examines the wider meaning of term "the West", that includes many other countries besides the USA many (if not most) of which are doing quite well in the rankings related to education.
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