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sadguy
Joined: 13 Feb 2011
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 8:47 pm Post subject: the worst you ever felt |
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what's the worst you've ever felt in your life? i'm 28, and i'd have to say that breaking up with someone you were in love with seems to be consistently the most difficult thing.
the whole experience just drags on and on. |
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dongjak
Joined: 30 Oct 2010
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 8:51 pm Post subject: |
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death of a parent. nothing else even comes close. |
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NYC_Gal 2.0

Joined: 10 Dec 2010
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 8:55 pm Post subject: |
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Having to put my pet rat down at home because the vet was closed for the evening (a mere few hours after taking him to the vet for more meds, and having begged them for some sort of inhalant to put him down gently if he took a turn for the worse after hours [they refused, as they don't do that in Korea]).
I sobbed for hours. |
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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 8:57 pm Post subject: |
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My dad died, a friend of his tried to steal a land development project of my dad's meant for me, and I lost the only person approximating a good friend in Korea (he moved back home and we had an argument at the end).
2008. That was the worst summer/fall season ever for me. I finally understand murderous rage and what motivates someone to put a fist through a wall. It was a learning experience. Otherwise it was hell. |
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sadguy
Joined: 13 Feb 2011
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 9:01 pm Post subject: |
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dongjak wrote: |
death of a parent. nothing else even comes close. |
i haven't experienced that yet, knock on wood. but i've had two grandparents die. i wasn't as sad as i thought i would be, i guess i felt like they lived their lives and was their time to go. |
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nero
Joined: 11 Mar 2009
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 10:58 pm Post subject: |
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dongjak wrote: |
death of a parent. nothing else even comes close. |
Yup. It affects you for the rest of your life.
Relationship break ups are awful too. |
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Skyblue
Joined: 02 Mar 2007
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 11:03 pm Post subject: |
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The best way of forgetting a girl is finding a new one. Anyone will do for the simple purpose of mood elevation.
The most depressed I've ever been. I stared at the walls for hours and hours. I really wanted to kill myself but I couldn't bother getting out of bed. |
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sadguy
Joined: 13 Feb 2011
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 11:13 pm Post subject: |
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Skyblue wrote: |
The best way of forgetting a girl is finding a new one. Anyone will do for the simple purpose of mood elevation.
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i disagree. if you were in love with someone, and after that breakup, you are with another girl. it's not the same. the comfortability isn't there. the inside jokes, the intimacy....
i think having a rebound is the worse way to go about dealing with a breakup to be honest. the only positive to a breakup is being able to look back and realize the mistakes you made, etc.
it's like if you're a boxer and you lose a fight, you have months to watch the old tape and review what you did wrong, but if you lose a fight and then fight the next day, you'll be making the same mistake. |
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nukeday
Joined: 13 May 2010
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 11:31 pm Post subject: |
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I think the 2 month period where I quit a job, moved to the States, broke up with a girl of two years, and faced unemployment for half a year was probably a pretty major dip in my happy-o-meter. When it rains, it pours. |
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schwa
Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: Yap
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Posted: Mon Feb 14, 2011 11:49 pm Post subject: |
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nukeday wrote: |
When it rains, it pours. |
In a one-week stretch a few years ago, I lost my job, my wife left me for another man, & my dad died. |
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sallymonster

Joined: 06 Feb 2010 Location: Seattle area
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 12:53 am Post subject: |
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I've had a lot of low points, but I think the lowest was the summer before my senior year of high school, when one of my friends died in a freak accident. He was only 17 and had such a bright future ahead of him. RIP Liam.
Other low points include getting dumped, losing a job, and having to move back in with my parents (not all at the same time). |
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sallymonster

Joined: 06 Feb 2010 Location: Seattle area
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 12:58 am Post subject: |
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schwa wrote: |
nukeday wrote: |
When it rains, it pours. |
In a one-week stretch a few years ago, I lost my job, my wife left me for another man, & my dad died. |
I'm sorry you had to go through all that at the same time. I don't think things could get much worse than what happened to you.  |
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mgafunnell
Joined: 11 Apr 2007
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 2:40 am Post subject: |
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the death of my inner-child. |
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debinoxford
Joined: 10 Jan 2008
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 3:03 am Post subject: |
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losing a younger brother this last summer in a car accident. Getting that international phone call was the worst moment of my life so far. I wanted to puke and scream and cry.
The aftermath has pretty well decimated my family, it's the most horrible thing I've gone through and took me to a new low the last few months. I am coming out the other end though, slowly but surely. But man, the death of a sibling is the last thing I'd wish on my worst enemy. |
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schwa
Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: Yap
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Posted: Tue Feb 15, 2011 3:47 am Post subject: |
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