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fotofish
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Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2012 7:03 am Post subject: . |
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question answered. Thanks.
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tanklor1
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Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2012 8:00 am Post subject: |
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I think this is a troll. |
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fotofish
Joined: 19 Aug 2012
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Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2012 9:39 am Post subject: |
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Um...no?
I was asking for advice?
Or is it so insane that I'm just a little paranoid? if that's the case, that you think I'm a troll because it is so ridiculous then that makes me feel better. |
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YTMND
Joined: 16 Jan 2012 Location: You're the man now dog!!
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Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2012 12:10 pm Post subject: |
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fotofish wrote: |
Um...no?
I was asking for advice?
Or is it so insane that I'm just a little paranoid? if that's the case, that you think I'm a troll because it is so ridiculous then that makes me feel better. |
It is only something the school can use against you if they don't want you anymore. One parent is not going to rock the boat. If they have influence over other parents, then maybe there will be a coup attempt. That's usually how this works.
The only negative thing is that you are giving them a reason they can hold on to. Worry more if you get complaints about your classes. |
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northway
Joined: 05 Jul 2010
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Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2012 2:32 pm Post subject: |
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I wouldn't worry about it unless you're already having problems. |
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newb
Joined: 27 Aug 2012 Location: Korea
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Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2012 3:54 pm Post subject: |
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I've never heard anyone getting canned for smoking outside of work. |
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fotofish
Joined: 19 Aug 2012
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Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2012 4:47 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks I feel better. No complains against my classes, I think the students like me  |
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young_clinton
Joined: 09 Sep 2009
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Posted: Fri Sep 14, 2012 5:22 pm Post subject: |
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Be liberal in your use of breathmints. |
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Keeper
Joined: 11 Jun 2012
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Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 2:02 am Post subject: |
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Yes you are being very ridiculous. Like someone else said is this the only problem you are having or what? Why are you afraid your manager will see you post this? You need either psychological help or something else is going on you aren't telling us OR you are trolling. |
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fotofish
Joined: 19 Aug 2012
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Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 3:22 am Post subject: |
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Gee tough crowd. I just heard horror stories before. Last time I ever come here for questions. |
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Keeper
Joined: 11 Jun 2012
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Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 4:54 am Post subject: |
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http://forums.eslcafe.com/korea/viewtopic.php?t=90953
You are an adult, you are doing something perfectly legal. Why the paranoia? I'm not making fun of you but if you are this troubled by something so insignificant then possibly you do need some professional help. Read your own post again when you feel rested.
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One the students at the hagwon I work at saw my coworker and I standing waiting for a taxi. My coworker is a guy and I'm a girl. I had a cigarette in my hand. I don't know how long they were there or if they saw me smoke, but as soon as I saw them I tried to hide it and put it away. |
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valkerie
Joined: 02 Mar 2007 Location: Busan
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Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 8:24 pm Post subject: |
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I wouldn't assume that being seen smoking is a non issue for women here. I have seen this double standard in action. Friend of mine lives two stops away from her hagwon but was seen smoking (in her free time) and it was duly noted. |
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YTMND
Joined: 16 Jan 2012 Location: You're the man now dog!!
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Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 9:05 pm Post subject: |
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I think it is more the smell that is an issue. If you smell of smoke, or worse alcohol, then you will lose points. If you go out with the hagwon teachers you are expected to drink right? And I have always seen at least one Korean take out a cigarette before the night is over. It's the day after that you need to come to work with a clean look.
So, if you are crossing the street coming to school with a cigarette in your hand, that's not going to win you points. |
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JustinC
Joined: 10 Mar 2012 Location: We Are The World!
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Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 9:43 pm Post subject: |
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fotofish wrote: |
Gee tough crowd. I just heard horror stories before. Last time I ever come here for questions. |
You are a horrible person and you should have been jailed at birth! |
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s.tickbeat
Joined: 21 Feb 2010 Location: Gimhae
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Posted: Sun Sep 16, 2012 12:36 am Post subject: |
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Hey OP. Your boss won't fire you for smoking. They will fire you for offering your students cigarettes, but only if they're under 14.
On a more serious note, the horror stories you've heard about Korea being super old-fashioned about shit like that are only half-true. Conservatives will give you the stank-eye, and men might be hesitant to give you a light. Otherwise, you're clear. Your boss just spent a ton of money to get you hear, and they're not going to fire you without having a damn good reason (mind you, their good reason might not match your idea of what a good reason is).
Cigarettes aren't a deal-breaker. But you might want to quit smoking, you know, for health reasons. |
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