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Mashimaro



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Sun May 30, 2004 9:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mithridates wrote:
Also, I was thinking of starting a thread on this very subject yesterday morning. Mashimaro, haven't we linked minds before as well?


Don't know about linking minds, but I do read with interest anything you write about the Korean language.

An interesting little experiment (moreso for newbies).

I alluded to it in an earlier post, but next time your'e out
and there is some big old doors at the shop entrance or whatever
count how many times a korean will look behind them to see if anyone
else is coming. Not a criticism just a fact..

I was also told by a professor of Korean culture that if a stranger is too overtly friendly too you people are dubious because they think he/she may be a 'swindler'. Not a strong motivation to be friendly to others I think you will agree. Go out of your way to be nice, and people think it's a con!
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Blind Willie



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PostPosted: Sun May 30, 2004 9:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mashimaro wrote:

I was also told by a professor of Korean culture that if a stranger is too overtly friendly too you people are dubious because they think he/she may be a 'swindler'. Not a strong motivation to be friendly to others I think you will agree. Go out of your way to be nice, and people think it's a con!

How is that different from back home?
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Mashimaro



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PostPosted: Sun May 30, 2004 9:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="kiwiboy_nz_99"]
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Just one question:
Apparently confucianism really took hold strongly around the time of the Chosun Dynesty. Before that era women had a better standing in the community, but it was all knocked back during the Chosun.


Yeah, apparently Chosun era Korea was the most confucian society in history. Modern day korea is the second. Interesting considering the origin of Confucianism.

They also say that in Chosun times a woman was not considered to be anything unless she had a son. She was a non-entity of sorts. Shocked
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tomato



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Mon May 31, 2004 4:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mashimaro wrote:
I was also told by a professor of Korean culture that if a stranger is too overtly friendly to you, people are dubious because they think he/she may be a 'swindler'. Not a strong motivation to be friendly to others I think you will agree. Go out of your way to be nice, and people think it's a con!


But what do we think when a stranger is too overtly friendly with us?
That the stranger is out to get free English instruction!
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ulsanchris



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PostPosted: Mon May 31, 2004 5:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

confucianism is also highly conservative. There is the idea that what worked in the past will work in the future. Confucians also had strict views on proper behaviour and conduct.
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On the other hand



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PostPosted: Mon May 31, 2004 7:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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remember there was a poster on here awhile ago saying that friends or colleages (or whatever) of his were visiting from Saudi Arabia and they all commented that Koreans seem like robots! That they'd never seen people act so much like robots!


I'm not sure how much stock I'd place in this. Members of any culture often seem to lack individuality when viewed by outsiders. Sociologists have a phrase for this phenomenon: out-group homogeneity or something like that. When you are not part of a group, it seems like the people inside the group are all the same.
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Mashimaro



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PostPosted: Mon May 31, 2004 5:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Blind Willie wrote:
Mashimaro wrote:

I was also told by a professor of Korean culture that if a stranger is too overtly friendly too you people are dubious because they think he/she may be a 'swindler'. Not a strong motivation to be friendly to others I think you will agree. Go out of your way to be nice, and people think it's a con!

How is that different from back home?


I wouldn't know about Canada. I've never been there and I have no great desire too. I'm Australian, and whilst I'm not a good example, most people are relatively friendly and polite.
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On the other hand



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PostPosted: Mon May 31, 2004 11:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Blind Willie wrote:
Mashimaro wrote:

I was also told by a professor of Korean culture that if a stranger is too overtly friendly too you people are dubious because they think he/she may be a 'swindler'. Not a strong motivation to be friendly to others I think you will agree. Go out of your way to be nice, and people think it's a con!

How is that different from back home?


I wouldn't know about Canada. I've never been there and I have no great desire too. I'm Australian, and whilst I'm not a good example, most people are relatively friendly and polite.


There are two possible situations here:

A. I approach a total stranager for assistance with something(say directions to a bus stop), and he replies in a friendly manner.

B. A total stranger approaches me and starts talking in a friendly manner, for no apparent reason.

A is cool. If I'm asking for help, its nice for the person to be friendly, and I try to do the same thing when I'm the one being asked for assistance. But B is a different story. In my experience, most people who just start talking to you out of the blue have some sort of self-serving agenda.


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Paji eh Wong



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 01, 2004 2:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I took a survey course of Chinese history in school. I had this great prof who had these really vivid lectures that stuck in my head. He mentioned that there are large differences between Confucianism and Neo-Confucianism. Neo-Confucianism was a reaction to the Mongol invasion and the Yuan dynasty (I think, I'm no expert). The Chinese spent about a hundred years fighting each other, and then another hundred having their asses handed to them my Mongolians. So intellectuals turned back to Confucianism, looking for some harmony. After 200 years of war and being the prison bitch of outsiders, I could see how harmony and xenophobia were interesting ideas.

Now think about these ideas moving to Korea where they've had an even worse history of invasion.

Not that I'm making apologies for it. I dislike confucianism because, IMHO, it and democracy are mutually exclusive.
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weatherman



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 01, 2004 3:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Neo Confucianism can go by other names too, but it doesn��t usually get these labels. Try ��fundamentalist Confucianism�� ��ultra orthodox Confucianism�� terms we use for extremes in other schools of thought. Lets face it, Neo Confucianism really is quite repressive on a social and intellectual level, where women are repressed, there is a clear hierarchal system of who can do what, questioning of ideas is wrong. Really we are dealing with a society that is still dealing with a lot of left over issues from this past. Korea could teach other fundamentalist societies something I believe in sharing its experience in coming out of this way of thinking.
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Paji eh Wong



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 01, 2004 3:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Korea could teach other fundamentalist societies something[.] I believe in sharing its experience in coming out of this way of thinking.


This always sounds a little imperialist (to my ears), but I totally agree with this point. Korea has come a long way. I'm a lot more positive about Korea when I think about how far it's 'progressed'. I mean, you couldn't get a passport here until 1988 (!?) It gives me a lot of hope for other places in the world.

I think one thing I've learned is that Confucianism isn't compatible with the modern world, and is in the process of dying off.
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Ya-ta Boy



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 01, 2004 6:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

A point or two others haven't addressed:

#1. Pres. Kim DJ wanted the influence of Confucianism reduced. I was talking to a Korean friend recently and he said he wants Roh to (somehow) reduce the custom of promoting people based on 'relationships' and start doing it based on merit. (Wouldn't that be refreshing?)

#2. A large part of the anti-Japanese sentiment here is because Japan is a 'younger' country and should 'respect' Korea more. That is an important part of the tendency to blame Japan for everything they don't blame on the Americans. Japan didn't keep its place in the hierarchy in 1910.
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mithridates



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 01, 2004 6:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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#2. A large part of the anti-Japanese sentiment here is because Japan is a 'younger' country and should 'respect' Korea more. That is an important part of the tendency to blame Japan for everything they don't blame on the Americans. Japan didn't keep its place in the hierarchy in 1910.


This is interesting...although it's not just Confucianist thinking, it's also because the two countries are so connected, especially the south of Korea and west of Japan which were allied with each other in fighting the north way back until the early 7th ventury if my memory serves. Having Japan come in like they did in 1910 would be like having one's household taken over by a rich upstart nephew a few houses down. The person in this analogy who has his house taken over is a middle-aged man who's finances weren't in order...

A thought: could the respect for a country with an older history be one of the reasons why Korea (south only) doesn't seem to care that China was responsible for keeping the Korean war lasting as long as it did?

As for Chinese, it's going okay...I should be going to China the end of June, hopefully to Dandong, right across from the North Korean border. Must go back to Canada for three months due to my two best friends getting married in July and October, and my dad getting re-married in September.
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chotaerang



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 01, 2004 7:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've asked a number of people a number of times why China always seems to get a free ride. The aforementioned support of North Korea during the Korean War and the continued collaboration with the gangsters presently in charge in the North spring to mind as two reasons why Koreans might want to throw a bit more antipathy towards the Chinese.

In response, two themes emerged: first, that Korea was the beneficiary centuries of Chinese culture and this debt muted criticism. Second, that in the latter twentieth century China came to be seen as dirty and poor, and so beneath the radar of disdain.

As an aside, Mithridates, I like your informative posts - keep up the good work.
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Squid



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 01, 2004 3:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've read some of the analects, though only in translation. They're interesting from a cultural point of view.

At least grounding out a little knowledge of what's shaped the society in which you live...ie here in ROK, is an invaluable tool when it comes to trying to understand why people do the things they do. Why overt corruption at almost every level of society is tolerated as an extension of regular business practices, why some husbands beat their wives in public and the neighbors and the police do nothing...

The emphasis in Confucius on filial piety and the overarching importance of the family, when used as teaching material, has produced what we live amongst. Weird, yes... but if you stay here a while it should no longer baffle you.

Yours eruditely,

Squid the fairly well read.
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