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| Why are soldiers better than teachers??? |
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nshadow
Joined: 24 Oct 2003
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Posted: Sun Aug 01, 2004 9:56 pm Post subject: Gi's and Dating. |
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After going to Iteawon a few times and observing the dating practices of the GI's and their girls. Well they deserve each other.
Most of the GI's that I have seen are disrespectful, have a low IQ, think with there *beep*, and treat there Korean g/f like trash. |
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sparkx
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: thekimchipot.com
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Posted: Sun Aug 01, 2004 10:10 pm Post subject: |
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| After going to Iteawon a few times and observing the dating practices of the GI's and their girls. Well they deserve each other. |
Observing the dating practices of the G.I's and their girls huh? Make sure when you finish your dissertation to post the pie graph here on Dave's. I'm sure it'll be a facinating bit of data.
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| Most of the GI's that I have seen are disrespectful, have a low IQ, think with there *beep*, and treat there Korean g/f like trash. |
Yah and english teachers here in korea are all top shelf right? |
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Corporal

Joined: 25 Jan 2003
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Posted: Mon Aug 02, 2004 12:44 am Post subject: Re: Gi's and Dating. |
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| nshadow wrote: |
| Most of the GI's that I have seen are disrespectful, have a low IQ, think with there *beep*, and treat there Korean g/f like trash. |
Unlike most ESL teachers in Korea, OF COURSE.
(Edited to reflect that Sparkx got there first. ) |
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The Man known as The Man

Joined: 29 Mar 2003 Location: 3 cheers for Ted Haggard oh yeah!
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Posted: Mon Aug 02, 2004 4:40 am Post subject: Re: Gi's and Dating. |
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| Corporal wrote: |
| nshadow wrote: |
| Most of the GI's that I have seen are disrespectful, have a low IQ, think with there *beep*, and treat there Korean g/f like trash. |
Unlike most ESL teachers in Korea, OF COURSE.
(Edited to reflect that Sparkx got there first. ) |
Joe Thanks would also have contributed in a similar manner, but he's insane.
it's true, Harin, it's true.
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jaderedux

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Location: Lurking outside Seoul
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Posted: Mon Aug 02, 2004 7:11 pm Post subject: Re: Gi's and Dating and a rant |
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| nshadow wrote: |
After going to Iteawon a few times and observing the dating practices of the GI's and their girls. Well they deserve each other.
Most of the GI's that I have seen are disrespectful, have a low IQ, think with there *beep*, and treat there Korean g/f like trash. |
Unlike the pierced, tattooed emenim wannabes I see all the time that pass for English teachers.ooh babbbbby..... where can I sign up for one of them. Nothing like a man with a outkast tee-shirt three sizes too big and pants hanging off their *beep* or shorts so baggy I don't know why they bother. And that sexy freaking skate board they haul around to chase the local "talent" as they are so nicely referred to.
Oh and lets not forget the pasty bearded aging man with either a freaking pony tail or a good start on the comb over and his super relaxed elastic waist jeans. Scamming on women 1/2 his age or writing about how his High School students give him a chubby. Yeah them western teachers are a catch.
Oh and those nice boys I met in Anyang a couple of years ago that were teaching this nice korean girl how to use racial epitaths...man did they think that was funny. And this same group of angels that had a good old laugh about the *beep* they tapped by saying they loved the girls then dumped them. They thought it was pretty funny to joke and brag about it. OOOOh baby where do I sign up for one of them????
I have seen Korean men abuse their girlfriends/wives and I have seen Western expat TEACHERS do the same.
Specific instances.....
1. Brought a girl to a bar then left her there to fend for herself. (left the building)
2. Men on this board referring to women as the LOCAL TALENT.
3. Saw one of our wonderful expat angel boys grope his girlfriend in a bar so much that she got up crying and left. He had his hand up her skirt so far I was sure he left his wallet there.
4. Witnessed a man (western teacher) back hand his korean wife.
5. Had some idiot sticks (teachers) trying to rap about k-girls behind me once and man was it foul.
Thanks but no thanks prefer G.I. or Korean man. And I have had my troubles with my Korean BF so Dogbert and your ilk can stop now before they start ranting about my personal issues I have had with my BF. He has never hit me and has never been ugly to me in public. We work thngs out. It isn't easy but we do it.
A rant follows: Of late the tone of this board is one of some frat party that has gotten out of hand. Open comment to mods: find some new way to get some fresh blood.
This place has turned into one big sausage party.
If you like koreans you suck...if you don't think america is the greatest evil since nazi germany ...you suck. If you are a western woman who speaks her mind you are fat, loser feminazi who can't get a man....If you like guns you are some cousin marrying, toothless freak from Arkansas...
There is no room for debate of any kind any more just endless attacks.
Newbies are attacked constantly. So what they asked a question that has already been asked 50 times! If it bothers you so damn much don't reply to the post.
Y'all can jump all over me...and call me what you will but I am thinking there are more than one or two people who feel the same way.
Jade the weary |
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Ilsanman

Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Location: Bucheon, Korea
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Posted: Mon Aug 02, 2004 11:18 pm Post subject: yes |
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The true reason was not even mentioned
8. This statement is untrue.
open mindedness?
don't make me laugh
way of thinking?
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rapier
Joined: 16 Feb 2003
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Posted: Tue Aug 03, 2004 3:19 am Post subject: Re: Gi's and Dating. |
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| nshadow wrote: |
After going to Iteawon a few times and observing the dating practices of the GI's and their girls. Well they deserve each other.
Most of the GI's that I have seen are disrespectful, have a low IQ, think with there *beep*, and treat there Korean g/f like trash. |
Women love this. Thats why the G.I.s are successful. Women are more attracted to low IQ men, its a proven fact. More proven facts are that women are attracted to guys that mistreat them or otherwise don't pay them much respect. Otherwise why do your basic asholes get the girls while nice guys are left for dust...
I'm not saying its right or wrong,I don't care either way: just, thats the way it is.
If women want to complain about being badly treated, they should try going out with a nice guy for a change, theres plenty of them out there.But they don't. Because there's no attraction. |
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The Man known as The Man

Joined: 29 Mar 2003 Location: 3 cheers for Ted Haggard oh yeah!
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Posted: Tue Aug 03, 2004 3:57 am Post subject: Re: yes |
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The true reason was not even mentioned
8. This statement is untrue.
open mindedness?
don't make me laugh
way of thinking?
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Thank you. I was wanting someone to point that out-and I don't begrudge the USA there military presence in thee ROK
Fonzie Phd smart |
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jaderedux

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Location: Lurking outside Seoul
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Posted: Tue Aug 03, 2004 4:04 am Post subject: |
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| You must be on your period or something. |
Again! A perfect example of why coming on this board is such a great joy! Am I on my period? Genius retort. What's your problem...viagra ain't working.
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Women love this. Thats why the G.I.s are successful. Women are more attracted to low IQ men, its a proven fact. More proven facts are that women are attracted to guys that mistreat them or otherwise don't pay them much respect. Otherwise why do your basic asholes get the girls while nice guys are left for dust...
I'm not saying its right or wrong,I don't care either way: just, thats the way it is.
If women want to complain about being badly treated, they should try going out with a nice guy for a change, theres plenty of them out there.But they don't. Because there's no attraction. |
Really what women? None that I know. Perhaps it is the caliber of women you know. I don't date assholes. Most the women I know don't either. So which women are these exactly? The drunk ones at 2 a.m. that go home with you?
This is one of the stupidest AND oldest crock of crap that has come down the pike. Funny some men still use it to act like a chump.
Jade |
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rapier
Joined: 16 Feb 2003
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Posted: Tue Aug 03, 2004 4:20 am Post subject: |
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Really what women? None that I know. Perhaps it is the caliber of women you know. I don't date a$$holes. Most the women I know don't either. So which women are these exactly? The drunk ones at 2 a.m. that go home with you?
This is one of the stupidest AND oldest crock of crap that has come down the pike. Funny some men still use it to act like a chump.
Jade |
What women say and what they actually do are two vastly different things. You're talking the usual female chat, fine....blah blah.
But next time you're in a bar or wherever just watch how bored the women look when theyre attended by a nicely behaved guy who opens the door and gets their drinks for them etc. then see how they quickly sit up, do their make up and get all flirty the moment some loudmouthed idiot strides in.
Or ask your womenfriends about the only guy they ever truly loved, the story will go something like this "But he treated me so badly, he used to cheat on me and chat up other girls in front of me. He only hit me a few times, but that was my fault. he really broke my heart, but I love him still so much!!" etc.
But of course, you can't blame women for their evolutionary biological drives. They're attracted to asholes, pure and simple, but of course will never admit that. Meanwhile the genuine nice guys go home alone every time.
Just something I've noticed..not passing any judgements...but thats reality. |
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jaderedux

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Location: Lurking outside Seoul
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Posted: Tue Aug 03, 2004 4:45 am Post subject: |
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| Or ask your womenfriends about the only guy they ever truly loved, the story will go something like this "But he treated me so badly, he used to cheat on me and chat up other girls in front of me. He only hit me a few times, but that was my fault. he really broke my heart, but I love him still so much!!" etc. |
I have and we do talk about it. I don't know too many who let men treat them badly. However, this is a myth we talk about alot. Most of my women friends...some married..some not..some entangled some not...We all wonder why men believe this myth and seem to use it as an excuse to act like an idiot.
Again, I have to wonder what kind of women you date that they seem to want that sort of neanderthal or accept that kind of neanderthal treatment.
I don't think most women like nor accept it unless they have no self esteem or are just desperate. I am neither.
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lunachick

Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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Posted: Tue Aug 03, 2004 4:56 am Post subject: Re: Gi's and Dating. |
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Women are more attracted to low IQ men, its a proven fact. More proven facts are that women are attracted to guys that mistreat them or otherwise don't pay them much respect. Otherwise why do your basic asholes get the girls while nice guys are left for dust...
I'm not saying its right or wrong,I don't care either way: just, thats the way it is. |
It's not true that women like men that disrespect them. If if was, wouldn't every woman on the board be panting for you?  |
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Ilsanman

Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Location: Bucheon, Korea
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Posted: Tue Aug 03, 2004 8:29 am Post subject: Re: Gi's and Dating. |
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| rapier wrote: |
| nshadow wrote: |
After going to Iteawon a few times and observing the dating practices of the GI's and their girls. Well they deserve each other.
Most of the GI's that I have seen are disrespectful, have a low IQ, think with there "d**ks", and treat there Korean g/f like trash. |
Women love this. Thats why the G.I.s are successful. Women are more attracted to low IQ men, its a proven fact. More proven facts are that women are attracted to guys that mistreat them or otherwise don't pay them much respect. Otherwise why do your basic asholes get the girls while nice guys are left for dust...
I'm not saying its right or wrong,I don't care either way: just, thats the way it is.
If women want to complain about being badly treated, they should try going out with a nice guy for a change, theres plenty of them out there.But they don't. Because there's no attraction. |
Actually, the most important correlation between successful couples is education level. Koreans being so heavily educated and the average GI (except officers) has not done university, it seems a match made in heaven.
I don't want to pat myself on the back, but I think I gave myself a good showing when I was in Korea. 95% of my friends are Koreans. I studied Korean everyday, and occasionally Japanese. I ate Korean food. I avoided Itaewon. I have a K g/f and I treat her very well. If it makes me better or worse than someone else, so be it.
Girls, date whomever you feel like. I honestly don't care. |
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Apple Scruff
Joined: 29 Oct 2003
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Posted: Tue Aug 03, 2004 10:00 am Post subject: Re: Gi's and Dating and a rant |
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| jaderedux wrote: |
| nshadow wrote: |
After going to Iteawon a few times and observing the dating practices of the GI's and their girls. Well they deserve each other.
Most of the GI's that I have seen are disrespectful, have a low IQ, think with there *beep*, and treat there Korean g/f like trash. |
Unlike the pierced, tattooed emenim wannabes I see all the time that pass for English teachers.ooh babbbbby..... where can I sign up for one of them. Nothing like a man with a outkast tee-shirt three sizes too big and pants hanging off their *beep* or shorts so baggy I don't know why they bother. |
Huh? Those guys, you poor unobservant thing, are G.I.'s.
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| And that sexy freaking skate board they haul around to chase the local "talent" as they are so nicely referred to. |
I don't even know where you caught this from. Haven't seen a single skateboard since coming to Korea.
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| Oh and lets not forget the pasty bearded aging man with either a freaking pony tail or a good start on the comb over and his super relaxed elastic waist jeans. Scamming on women 1/2 his age or writing about how his High School students give him a chubby. Yeah them western teachers are a catch. |
They aren't teachers - they're either lonely/destitute divorcees or convicted pedophiles running from their record back home.
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| Oh and those nice boys I met in Anyang a couple of years ago that were teaching this nice korean girl how to use racial epitaths...man did they think that was funny. And this same group of angels that had a good old laugh about the *beep* they tapped by saying they loved the girls then dumped them. They thought it was pretty funny to joke and brag about it. OOOOh baby where do I sign up for one of them???? |
Sign up at www.ineedtogetlaidandlightenup.com.
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I have seen Korean men abuse their girlfriends/wives and I have seen Western expat TEACHERS do the same.
Specific instances.....
1. Brought a girl to a bar then left her there to fend for herself. (left the building) |
It's a bar - not a c0ckfight. No need to "fend for herself". She can find a new guy or call a cab.
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| 2. Men on this board referring to women as the LOCAL TALENT. |
What are you - Mormon?
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| 3. Saw one of our wonderful expat angel boys grope his girlfriend in a bar so much that she got up crying and left. He had his hand up her skirt so far I was sure he left his wallet there. |
Right, so that makes us ALL gropers and rapists. I've seen a G.I. take his dick out and start jabbing a girl in the thigh. Nobody's perfect.
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| 4. Witnessed a man (western teacher) back hand his korean wife. |
When in Rome...
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| 5. Had some idiot sticks (teachers) trying to rap about k-girls behind me once and man was it foul. |
Well if they used that horrific "local talent" slur you must have been traumatized beyond belief. Poor thing.
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| Thanks but no thanks prefer G.I. or Korean man. And I have had my troubles with my Korean BF so Dogbert and your ilk can stop now before they start ranting about my personal issues I have had with my BF. He has never hit me and has never been ugly to me in public. We work thngs out. It isn't easy but we do it. |
Good. So why are you here whining about teachers, 99% of whom you've never met?
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A rant follows: Of late the tone of this board is one of some frat party that has gotten out of hand. Open comment to mods: find some new way to get some fresh blood.
This place has turned into one big sausage party. |
Exactly, so take it elsewhere. I believe the clam bake is two blocks down.
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| If you like koreans you suck...if you don't think america is the greatest evil since nazi germany ...you suck. If you are a western woman who speaks her mind you are fat, loser feminazi who can't get a man....If you like guns you are some cousin marrying, toothless freak from Arkansas... |
You shouldn't make blanket statements like that. I'm offended, as are many other posters, I'm sure.
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There is no room for debate of any kind any more just endless attacks.
Newbies are attacked constantly. So what they asked a question that has already been asked 50 times! If it bothers you so damn much don't reply to the post.
Y'all can jump all over me...and call me what you will but I am thinking there are more than one or two people who feel the same way. |
By "feel the same way", you mean other people who are cranky and probably constipated?
Eat some All-Bran. |
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ZUL

Joined: 15 Jul 2004 Location: Cloud 9
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Posted: Tue Aug 03, 2004 2:42 pm Post subject: |
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| rapier wrote: |
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Really what women? None that I know. Perhaps it is the caliber of women you know. I don't date *beep*. Most the women I know don't either. So which women are these exactly? The drunk ones at 2 a.m. that go home with you?
This is one of the stupidest AND oldest crock of crap that has come down the pike. Funny some men still use it to act like a chump.
Jade |
What women say and what they actually do are two vastly different things. You're talking the usual female chat, fine....blah blah.
But next time you're in a bar or wherever just watch how bored the women look when theyre attended by a nicely behaved guy who opens the door and gets their drinks for them etc. then see how they quickly sit up, do their make up and get all flirty the moment some loudmouthed idiot strides in.
Or ask your womenfriends about the only guy they ever truly loved, the story will go something like this "But he treated me so badly, he used to cheat on me and chat up other girls in front of me. He only hit me a few times, but that was my fault. he really broke my heart, but I love him still so much!!" etc.
But of course, you can't blame women for their evolutionary biological drives. They're attracted to *beep*, pure and simple, but of course will never admit that. Meanwhile the genuine nice guys go home alone every time.
Just something I've noticed..not passing any judgements...but thats reality. |
rapier,
you seem to be taking the victimized nice guy stance, but that doesn't match up with the way that you continue to spew, obviously ignorant statements that generalize and condem others for stating their opinion.
i happen to enjoy your posts, they provide an alternate perspective riddled with humor and sarcasm however, as far as your advice on social interaction with women, it only seems like you might be an over-the-hill teacher with very little game left who resents those who might not be as old or game-less as yourself.
just because someone is outgoing and personable doen't make them an asshole. in my experience women are interested in men with personality and a sense of humor. why don't you try and exploit your own positive qualities instead of trying to hate on others who do already. |
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