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Being pressured to drink TEA
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krats1976



Joined: 14 May 2003

PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 4:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mindmetoo wrote:
Or it's against your religion.


Worked for me. Laughing
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The Man known as The Man



Joined: 29 Mar 2003
Location: 3 cheers for Ted Haggard oh yeah!

PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 4:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Holyjoe wrote:
Green tea isn't proper "tea" anyway... give me some Scottish Blend or Tetley any day Very Happy


While it's not as good as Red Rose, after awhile I took to Gree Tea-after dinner anyways.

kiwiboy, I usually like tea after dinner, it's not a morning beverage.


kiwiboy, I like women-just attractive women a little bit more so than the other kind
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Koreabound2004



Joined: 19 Nov 2003

PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 4:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have tried the allergy thing(for seafood). I am not allergic, just don't like the stuff(unless its battered Fish and Chips style). I just figured it's safe to do that here, b/c I won't eat raw rish or any of the other gross stuff I've seen.

They still don't understand "allergy," even when I say the Korean word for it, which is similar. They think if I try different fish, it's ok ok ok ok.

Whatever....I give up.
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OiGirl



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: Hoke-y-gun

PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 5:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

krats1976 wrote:
mindmetoo wrote:
Or it's against your religion.


Worked for me. Laughing

So, you want to go around with Koreans thinking you are a Mormon? Rolling Eyes
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edgellskiuk



Joined: 21 Jun 2004
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 6:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The original post has given me visions of a korean version of Mrs Doyle from Father Ted.

Example as best I can remember it:

"Would you like a little cup of tea?"
"No thankyou, I am allergic to tea"
"Are you sure you wouldn't like a cup?"
"No thank you if I drink tea it will kill me"
"Well I'll leave the cup here just in case you change your mind."
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Ihavenolips



Joined: 22 Sep 2004
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 6:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is no big deal.
They are only offering as a curteousy ("Injung").
Accept the tea. Mime a few sips as if you are tasting it. Then let the cup sit on the table while you do other things.
Problem solved.

You can then stop whining about such insignificant matters.
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krats1976



Joined: 14 May 2003

PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 8:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OiGirl wrote:
krats1976 wrote:
mindmetoo wrote:
Or it's against your religion.


Worked for me. Laughing

So, you want to go around with Koreans thinking you are a Mormon? Rolling Eyes


Well, I don't have a problem with that... Laughing
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FUBAR



Joined: 21 Oct 2003
Location: The Y.C.

PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 9:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ihavenolips wrote:
This is no big deal.
They are only offering as a curteousy ("Injung").
Accept the tea. Mime a few sips as if you are tasting it. Then let the cup sit on the table while you do other things.
Problem solved.

You can then stop whining about such insignificant matters.


See thats the thing. Why should he have to drink some tea if he doesn't want to? Is it just to avoid offending people? Be honest and tell them you hate it. They will appreciate the honesty.

Tell them "Nok-cha shi-reo-yo" (I don't like Grean tea)
Them: "Jin ja" (really?)
You: Nei. Mash-ob-seo-yeo (Yes. I don't like the taste)

That should do it for you. I haven't been offered coffee again at the school. When I somebody mistakenly offers me coffee, the other teachers tell that person of my dislike for coffee and they will give me juice or water or whatever else is around.
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Tiberious aka Sparkles



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 5:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tell 'em you can't drink it because it contains as much caffeine as coffee -- and ask them to stop giving it to their kids like it's freaking water.

Then call them pushers and storm off. Works for me.

Sparkles*_*
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jazblanc77



Joined: 22 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 5:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tell them what you DO like. They will probably rush out and get it for you.

I think they are just trying to be kind and social with you so be careful how you treat this situation as you could become wangda if you are too negative in your reactions.
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Tiberious aka Sparkles



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 5:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jazblanc77 wrote:
Tell them what you DO like. They will probably rush out and get it for you.

I think they are just trying to be kind and social with you so be careful how you treat this situation as you could become wangda if you are too negative in your reactions.


There is NOTHING wrong with being wangda. What this place needs is a lot more wangdas.

But I agree that the workplace is hardly the, uh, place to start a revolution.

Sparkles*_*
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