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ed4444

Joined: 12 Oct 2004
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 5:53 am Post subject: Escape from Freaky Waygookville |
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One of my Korean female friends (honestly more of a friend of my wife) has just escaped a relationship with a foreign guy here.
Now the stories if what happened are coming out. Her face was bruised once and when my wife asked her about it and she said she just "fell". Always a suspicious sign.
Turned out she was being abused regularly by him. Some of the things he did.
1. Wrapped a phoneline around her throat
2. Hit her in the head with a handphone.
3. Covered her face with a pillow so she couldn't breathe.
She is a highly strung girl but there is no excuse for this kind of behaviour.
He is a regular and well liked poster on a few teacher's websites including this one.
I don't want to get slanderous by giving any hints to his online persona but it just goes to show that some people can have vastly different personalities than their online personality suggests.
It also shows that domestic abuse here is not confined to drunk adjossis sadly enough. |
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vlcupper

Joined: 12 Aug 2004 Location: Gangnam
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 6:51 am Post subject: |
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I hope the *beep* gets deported. What an asshole. Is she willing to press charges or anything? Bring him over to me; I'll show him how to treat a woman.
Of course it'll involve a tire iron and a fishhook. |
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ed4444

Joined: 12 Oct 2004
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 7:10 am Post subject: |
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She will not press charges. I think she is just happy it is over. |
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vlcupper

Joined: 12 Aug 2004 Location: Gangnam
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 7:12 am Post subject: |
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That poor thing. I feel for her. I hope the next chick he dates beats the crap out of him. |
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SuperFly

Joined: 09 Jul 2003 Location: In the doghouse
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 7:31 am Post subject: |
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If he really did those things you mention, then he needs to see someone about his anger, not later, right the hell now.
Seriously, are you going to let him move on to the next victim?
His actions affect all of us men, in many many ways, especially in Korea.
He needs to be talked to.
That behavior is unacceptable in any society. |
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Satori

Joined: 09 Dec 2005 Location: Above it all
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 7:39 am Post subject: |
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SuperFly wrote: |
His actions affect all of us men. |
And all this time I thought you were a dog! |
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SuperFly

Joined: 09 Jul 2003 Location: In the doghouse
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 7:51 am Post subject: |
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I am a dog when it suits me mr. Satori!! |
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Sleepy in Seoul

Joined: 15 May 2004 Location: Going in ever decreasing circles until I eventually disappear up my own fundament - in NZ
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 7:51 am Post subject: |
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Hearing about things like that make me wish I was still in the Police... and glad I'm not. No-one should get away with that behaviour, in Korea or not. Makes my blood boil. |
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Guri Guy

Joined: 07 Sep 2003 Location: Bamboo Island
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 7:58 am Post subject: |
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There are some brutal foreigners here that give everyone a bad name. You say he is a well liked poster on Dave's. That sucks. That dude has serious anger management isses.  |
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ed4444

Joined: 12 Oct 2004
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 8:00 am Post subject: |
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I am sure he will recognise himself when he reads this. |
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Imbroglio

Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Location: Behind the wheel of a large automobile
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 8:12 am Post subject: |
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Awh! The whole telephone thing was a prank! We were drunk and playing around!!
The pillow fight!? Is that what she's complaining about?? JEEZUS we were only playin'
The cell phone thing was just an accident, I was drinking and I didn't see her there when I turned around....GOD you guys are OVER REACTING!!
Of course im only kidding, im not that guy  |
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ed4444

Joined: 12 Oct 2004
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 8:59 am Post subject: |
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There were many other incidents too. It was an ongoing situation as opposed to isolated incidents. |
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djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 10:46 am Post subject: |
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Sleepy in Seoul wrote: |
Hearing about things like that make me wish I was still in the Police... |
Are you Sting? |
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Sleepy in Seoul

Joined: 15 May 2004 Location: Going in ever decreasing circles until I eventually disappear up my own fundament - in NZ
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 11:30 am Post subject: |
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djsmnc wrote: |
Sleepy in Seoul wrote: |
Hearing about things like that make me wish I was still in the Police...
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Are you Sting? |
No. I can actually sing.
(Actually, I can't. Damnit.) |
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laogaiguk

Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Location: somewhere in Korea
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Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2006 4:00 pm Post subject: |
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vlcupper wrote: |
That poor thing. I feel for her. I hope the next chick he dates beats the crap out of him. |
I hope his next date is Bubba in a prison cell. |
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