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mamaille



Joined: 14 Jun 2006
Location: seoul- close to olympic park

PostPosted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 8:22 pm    Post subject: Just got here and have no friends.......help Reply with quote

I'm the only foreign teacher at my school so I have no one to show me around or hang out with. I'm trying to enjoy the city and it's hard to do it alone. Can anyone give me some pointers on how/where to meet people here. I'm one stop from Olympic park in Dunchon Dong.
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JeJuJitsu



Joined: 11 Sep 2005
Location: McDonald's

PostPosted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 8:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Please post a photo and a more extensive profile of yourself.
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canuckistan
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Joined: 17 Jun 2003
Location: Training future GS competitors.....

PostPosted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 8:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you're female there's a ladies lunch in Seoul coming up soon:

http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=64283
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djsmnc



Joined: 20 Jan 2003
Location: Dave's ESL Cafe

PostPosted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 9:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

2 months and no friends yet?

I recommend: http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0671723650/sohobiz07/103-5313632-4707036
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StAxX SOuL



Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Location: London

PostPosted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 9:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

djsmnc wrote:
2 months and no friends yet?

I recommend: http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0671723650/sohobiz07/103-5313632-4707036


Ever thought that maybe they registered before they got here... you know, like a lot of people do?

I second the profile / photo thing... if not publicly on the forum, then via a private message... I'm happy to introduce people to a lot of good people, but I don't want a social deprave at the same time...
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wylies99



Joined: 13 May 2006
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 4:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yeah- or someone for who this is not just a song- "It's REALITY, man" Surprised Laughing Laughing

I can't seem to face up to the facts
I'm tense and nervous and I can't relax
I can't sleep cause my bed's on fire
Don't touch me I'm a real live wire

Psycho killer, qu'est que c'est
Far better
Run away
Psycho killer, que'st que c'est
Far better
Run away
Oh yeah

You start a conversation you can't seem to finish it
You're talkin' a lot but you're not sayin' anything
When I have nothing to say my lips are sealed
Say something once why say it again


Ce que j'ai fait, ce soir la
Ce qu'elle a dit, ce soir la
Realisant, mon espoir
Je me lance vers la gloire
We are vain and we are blind
I hate people when they're not polite
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Rteacher



Joined: 23 May 2005
Location: Western MA, USA

PostPosted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 4:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are lots of clubs listed in KScene magazine, and there are even a few - including free "learn Korean" classes for foreigners in the English newspapers. I used to attend some classes on Saturdays near Sookmyung Women's University run mainly by Korean women wanting to meet and help foreigners, and there were always new faces every week...

There are also sites like "Korean friend finder" which mostly list Koreans along with a significant number of foreigners... (If you're interested in vegetarianism, check out the Seoul Veggie Club:
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=53723&start=150&sid=b393e3bca6ee0847a8951fa7425afa86
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bombenhagen



Joined: 21 Jun 2006
Location: NL

PostPosted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 5:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

wylies99 wrote:
yeah- or someone for who this is not just a song- "It's REALITY, man" Surprised Laughing Laughing

I can't seem to face up to the facts
I'm tense and nervous and I can't relax
I can't sleep cause my bed's on fire
Don't touch me I'm a real live wire

Psycho killer, qu'est que c'est
Far better
Run away
Psycho killer, que'st que c'est
Far better
Run away
Oh yeah

You start a conversation you can't seem to finish it
You're talkin' a lot but you're not sayin' anything
When I have nothing to say my lips are sealed
Say something once why say it again


Ce que j'ai fait, ce soir la
Ce qu'elle a dit, ce soir la
Realisant, mon espoir
Je me lance vers la gloire
We are vain and we are blind
I hate people when they're not polite


Someone watched Rockstar Supernova last night Wink
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 5:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well I live in the same area as mamaille.

You just got here, as in within a week or two? I can show you around the area if you want.

I'll tell you how I meet people: I choose a random apartment door and then just stand there waiting for the person to come out. When they do, I make sure they hit me with the door and act like I was just walking by. That starts up a conversation, and we become lifelong pals.

Seriously, though, weekends are a good time. If you work a night shift at a hagwon, I'm not averse to going to Beer Club or some other happening place on occasion after work.
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cruisemonkey



Joined: 04 Jul 2005
Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.

PostPosted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 9:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Drink heavily... foreign 'scrubs' will gravitate to you... and Ks who want free English lessons will find you hard to resist. Wink
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shevek



Joined: 29 Jul 2003

PostPosted: Thu Aug 31, 2006 10:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

JeJuJitsu wrote:
Please post a photo and a more extensive profile of yourself.


Hahahaha....why did that make me laugh so hard??
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animalbirdfish



Joined: 04 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 2:20 am    Post subject: Re: Just got here and have no friends.......help Reply with quote

mamaille wrote:
I'm the only foreign teacher at my school so I have no one to show me around or hang out with. I'm trying to enjoy the city and it's hard to do it alone. Can anyone give me some pointers on how/where to meet people here. I'm one stop from Olympic park in Dunchon Dong.


Not sure if you noticed, but Seoul has about 20 million people. You're bound to bump into one of them sooner or later.

Seriously, though, join some clubs, hit the English bookstores, enroll in a Korean language program, find the local hagwon street, ride the subway and get off at random stations...you'll be wallowing in friends before you know it.
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SPINOZA



Joined: 10 Jun 2005
Location: $eoul

PostPosted: Fri Sep 01, 2006 2:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

11 replies and no-one's said it.....

GO TO ITAEWON.
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