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The wh ore-ification of the West
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kermo



Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.

PostPosted: Tue Sep 26, 2006 10:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Satori wrote:
The word is risque, or revealing. Desribing this style of dress as "slutty" or like a "whore" is misogynistic, judgemental, and old school.


Good point. A girl who wants to show off her body isn't necessarily a girl who wants to sell it.
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 1:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Something about this topic I don't like. Women who dress however they want are whores and its against the entire women's movement.

Makes it sounds like feminism/women's movement was all about moving things back to the Victorian Era. (Contrary to everything I've read).

This 'if she doesn't cover up really really well.. she's a whore' mentality should have died out ages ago.
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Moldy Rutabaga



Joined: 01 Jul 2003
Location: Ansan, Korea

PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 1:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I once had an argument with a girl who said that she had the right to dress in any way she pleased, and that men who thought she was a bad girl were wrong to judge her. Well, to me, every society has social conventions about what kind of dress sends what message, and a girl two-thirds naked swivelling her bum at everyone tells me she's not necessarily a wh*re (prostitute), but likely a sl*t (promiscuous). [That was beeped, and I don't know why.]

We can argue that such mores are unnecessary, but for now our culture has them, and I don't think I'm being old school by thinking that a girl with a tiny T-shirt saying "Ruv you rong time" has a certain lifestyle. If I'm told I'm not allowed to assume anything, I feel cheated in a way; someone wants to have it both ways, like that girl, by dressing the way society says a tart dresses in order to shock everyone, but blaming me for having the dirty mind.

I'm establishing a balance. Of course, I think such standards need to evolve, and a little controversy (and a lot of Jessica Alba) makes life interesting. But I'm not buying this argument that, I'm a liberated woman, I can walk around in a g-string, and you have no right to judge me. Stop you, maybe I don't. Offer my opinion that it's vulgar and a poor example, I do.

Ken:>
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kermo



Joined: 01 Sep 2004
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 2:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Moldy Rutabaga wrote:
I once had an argument with a girl who said that she had the right to dress in any way she pleased, and that men who thought she was a bad girl were wrong to judge her. Well, to me, every society has social conventions about what kind of dress sends what message, and a girl two-thirds naked swivelling her bum at everyone tells me she's not necessarily a wh*re (prostitute), but likely a sl*t (promiscuous). [That was beeped, and I don't know why.]


Sure, there are societal conventions. I don't really like to see women going to extreme lengths to look sexy, especially where street fashion is concerned. It's tacky, and sometimes even grotesque.

However, I have to disagree on your sl*t diagnosis. You could conclude that a girl is dressing up in order to attract male attention which will lead to indiscriminate, irresponsible sex, and you could bet on a few other people agreeing with you. Nevertheless, I'd guess that a lot of girls just like the attention in and of itself. They may select their sex partners extremely carefully, or not at all. It's not really up to you to peer into their minds and decide what they want.
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flotsam



Joined: 28 Mar 2006

PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ChimpumCallao wrote:
red dog wrote:
Junior wrote:
having subdued their men, western women are now moving on to anyone who still provides a challenge and will dominate them, ie blacks. Fine by me as I'm all for the mixing of the races.


Where do you get this racist crap? This is another post the mods should do something about.


take a lawn chair, park it outside of a wall-mart in say, columbus, OH and you'll get the picture.


As evidenced by this and the "nationality" thread, I don't remember you being this saucy and hard(that's a bit mixed, there) when you were in Korea. I like it. Tell it like it is, sister.
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Junior



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

red dog wrote:
Junior wrote:
having subdued their men, western women are now moving on to anyone who still provides a challenge and will dominate them, ie blacks. Fine by me as I'm all for the mixing of the races.


Where do you get this racist crap? This is another post the mods should do something about.


How can I be racist if I'm Ok with white women marrying blacks and enjoy the fact that the races are mixing?????
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kato



Joined: 28 Aug 2006
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 4:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

"The girl says, "Wait a minute! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a wh0re!" Which is true. Gentlemen, that is true. Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't ever forget it. But ladies, you must understand that that is fucking confusing! It just is.

Now that would be like me...walking down the street in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me, saying "Oh, thank God. Officer, help us! Come on. They're over here. Help us!" "OHH!! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer!" All right, ladies, fine. You are not a wh0re. But you are wearing a wh0re's uniform, I'll tell you that." -Dave Chapelle
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blaseblasphemener



Joined: 01 Jun 2006
Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be

PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 4:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

red dog wrote:
1. No, I mean uncommon. In that situation, I really doubt the mother could leave town with the kid, "automatically."

2. "... since they have sole custody." So a father with sole custody would have the same rights, wouldn't he? This isn't gender discrimination.

3. I was referring to a single father with custody, and you changed the example. If the child has never lived with his or her father, I don't see why the mother should necessarily have her rights restricted. However, it goes both ways -- a non-custodial mother can't prevent her child's father from moving with the child either. Where is the gender discrimination?

4. No, in my original example it was a teenager who made a stupid mistake and could either move with her family or stay behind to be near her teenage boyfriend ... should she be forced to stay, regardless of whether the boy can support his new family and is mature enough to be a responsible parent? Should she be forced to go on welfare if she doesn't have to or want to?

5. Your demeanour on these boards has been vulgar, abusive, hostile and misogynistic from the get-go. Don't sit there and act innocent.


You mean on this post, don't you? Because since this is the first time you've personally attacked me, either a) it's the first time I've said something to offend you or b) you never said anything before about it.

Personal attacks are the mark of a weak argument and a weak debater, and you fail on both counts miserably. I accused you of being drunk, but that was hyperbole and not at all serious. Seriously, I think you're just not that bright. Otherwise, why would you hurl accusations so freely, without merit? Show me where I have been vulgar, abusive and hostile. You will be looking all day without any luck. As far as misogynistic, well, if you call someone using the word wh ore, guess I'm guilty. Quick, call the PC police!
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daskalos



Joined: 19 May 2006
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 4:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kermo wrote:
You could conclude that a girl is dressing up in order to attract male attention which will lead to indiscriminate, irresponsible sex, and you could bet on a few other people agreeing with you. Nevertheless, I'd guess that a lot of girls just like the attention in and of itself. They may select their sex partners extremely carefully, or not at all.


I think Kermo may be on to something here.

As long as there are many men who will appreciate looking at scantily clad women, there will be women who will dress scantily. In an age with few sexual strictures, there will be more women who do. Regardless of what it says about the frequency of a woman's sexual adventures, getting lots of men to drop their jaws, pop their eyes and store up mental footage for later one-handed use ... well, that's a position of power. It's a rush, and I'm betting it's more often about that rush than it is about getting laid. It does nothing for me (and wouldn't even if I weren't gay), but more power to them.
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huffdaddy



Joined: 25 Nov 2005

PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 5:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

blaseblasphemener wrote:
all these women celebrities seemingly becoming famous just from having the 'ho-quotient, and just a general attitude of sleaziness that was never out there in the 80s and early 90s.


Like this woman?



Okay, not quite as sleezy. But pretty sleezy for the 1920's and 30's. Point is - it isn't a new phenomenom. Just the boundaries have been pushed further.
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Rteacher



Joined: 23 May 2005
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 5:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think that if school uniforms were instituted in all public and private schools through college it would serve to lessen the impact of excessively risque fashions targeting young people...

I think that it would also be conducive to a somewhat better learning environment and help level the playing field between those who can afford "designer" clothes and those who can't.

(Of course, the rich kids will still have their expensive cell phones, and MP3 players, etc. - and those items probably shouldn't be allowed in classrooms either...)
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kermo



Joined: 01 Sep 2004
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 10:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kato wrote:
"The girl says, "Wait a minute! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a wh0re!" Which is true. Gentlemen, that is true. Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't ever forget it. But ladies, you must understand that that is *beep* confusing! It just is.

Now that would be like me...walking down the street in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me, saying "Oh, thank God. Officer, help us! Come on. They're over here. Help us!" "OHH!! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer!" All right, ladies, fine. You are not a wh0re. But you are wearing a wh0re's uniform, I'll tell you that." -Dave Chapelle


I've got to give props to Dave.
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red dog



Joined: 31 Oct 2004

PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tiger Beer wrote:

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Something about this topic I don't like.


Thank you. I agree.

OP, you're nauseating and not worth responding to.
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flotsam



Joined: 28 Mar 2006

PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 3:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

red dog wrote:
Tiger Beer wrote:

Quote:
Something about this topic I don't like.


Thank you. I agree.

OP, you're nauseating and not worth responding to.


Honestly, can you please teach me how you manage to convey snivelling whinging so effortlessly via the Internet?

--EDIT--

Holy Mother of Buddha!!! I've got it! How could I have been so blind???

RED DOG

Oh, well done, Sir. My hat is off to you.

P.S. I am backing off now...nice Mods. Sit. Good Mod. Wink
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kermo



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 27, 2006 8:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Flotsam, you are smart. Scary-smart. You're clever and altogether lots of fun. However, you've been accumulating grudges at an alarming rate lately. Chill, homey.
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