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medstudent
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 Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 8:08 pm Post subject: ? |
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SPINOZA
Joined: 10 Jun 2005
Location: $eoul
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| Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 8:14 pm Post subject: |
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I'm 28 and I say....Why in God's name do you feel you should end it prematurely? Stay with each until he leaves. And in three years, when your time in Korea is up, who knows? A romantic reunion perhaps? Or moved on completely?
Don't break up. Kiss goodbye and cry together at Incheon Airport in 8/9 months. That's good advice. Break up then.
Totally bemused by your thinking, frankly. |
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Ginormousaurus
Joined: 27 Jul 2006
Location: 700 Ft. Pulpit
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| Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 8:18 pm Post subject: Re: Would you continue this relationship? |
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| medstudent wrote: |
| You will be my rebound guy or just friends. |
How you doin'? |
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gang ah jee
Joined: 14 Jan 2003
Location: city of paper
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| Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 8:29 pm Post subject: |
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medstudent, you wouldn't happen to be an atheist would you?
And wow has eslcafe totally turned into a personals board in the space of a couple of days. |
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flotsam
Joined: 28 Mar 2006
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| Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 8:38 pm Post subject: |
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medstudent, you wouldn't happen to be an atheist would you?
And wow has eslcafe totally turned into a personals board in the space of a couple of days. |
We need pictures. |
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Zyzyfer
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: who, what, where, when, why, how?
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| Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 8:47 pm Post subject: Re: Would you continue this relationship? |
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| medstudent wrote: |
| You will be my rebound guy or just friends. |
Hahah well points for honesty at least. |
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Tiberious aka Sparkles
Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!
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| Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 8:50 pm Post subject: Re: Would you continue this relationship? |
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I met him in OZ a year and half ago. He was a friend of friends. We kinda clicked at frist. I don't think I was attracted to him physically though . We met, chat and had wonderful time. I was in bad shape when I first arrived in OZ and seemed like my life was great cuz he was there.
We were like best friends. He's leaving korea next year which is 8 or 9 months away from now. We fell in love. But he's leaving. I am staying in Korea for another 3 years.
I tried to break up a few months ago but it didn't work. and here I am again thinking I cannot go any deeper in this relationship.
I need to break up and it's not easy. He wants me to be with him till he leaves. but I don't think I can unless he changes about leaving korea and be with me. of course I brought that up to him, he doesn't want to change his plan.
I know the answer for the question is quite easy which is be with him or not. Some of my friends think I am silly that I am willing to try to continue this relationship and I think it is now.
The question is I wish I could break up.
Therefore I need to go out on dates. I don't know many people. I live in singal. what would you say? At this point, being les doesn't sound so bad. I have been straight all along though.
You will be my rebound guy or just friends. I am not sure which one would be. I am hoping to be positive and willing to move on after many months of struggle "getting over this relationship".
I am asking for help^^ and reaching out.
Hope to hear from many interesting and smart people under the age of 28. |
Ah...not me of course, but I know this guy. Really funny, handsome eyes, great basketball player... |
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Leslie Cheswyck
Joined: 31 May 2003
Location: University of Western Chile
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| Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 9:19 pm Post subject: Re: Would you continue this relationship? |
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| medstudent wrote: |
| I met him in OZ a year and half ago. He was a friend of friends. We kinda clicked at frist. I don't think I was attracted to him physically though ... |
There's the whole problem right there. If you're not physically attracted to him, then no amount of "clicking" will make it work. Be friends, hang out, chat etc. But be honest with him. |
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riley
Joined: 08 Feb 2003
Location: where creditors can find me
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| Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 11:21 pm Post subject: |
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| Maybe someone should create a personals section on Dave's. We certainly seem to be getting a large amount. Speaking of that, doesn't pusanweb have one in their classifieds? |
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jinju
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
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Its easy.
If he likes Radiohead, drop him.
If he doesnt, he's a keeper! |
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JongnoGuru
Joined: 25 May 2004
Location: peeing on your doorstep
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| Posted: Sat Oct 21, 2006 11:53 pm Post subject: Re: Would you continue this relationship? |
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| medstudent wrote: |
| Therefore I need to go out on dates. I don't know many people. I live in singal. what would you say? At this point, being les doesn't sound so bad. I have been straight all along though. |
Kids these days.  |
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