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Asiaunec · Joined: 13 Dec 2005 Posts: 9 Location: Nanxun, Zhejiang

If you are a student in the university, and you will go abroad after two years, it is a good chance to you that you can approach your success. In this time, you meeting a person that maybe he is your favorite in your life. But he can�t go abroad with you because his family doesn�t agree with him to go out. You really love him very much, and he also loves you so much. You feel very sad and don�t know what you should do. You are in trouble with this problem. Go abroad or give up? Keep education or choose your lover? Wink

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asterix · Joined: 26 Jan 2003 Posts: 1654

Stay with your education.
Your education will be of value to you all your life.
If you go abroad, you will gain a different perspective on many things.
You are young and it is not likely that this is the person you will marry, even though you love him/her at the moment, but if you still feel the same when your education is completed, you will have tested your love for each other and you are more likely to have a happy marriage.

eda · Joined: 01 Apr 2005 Posts: 379 Location: Ankara/Turkey

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RedRose · Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China

Stay with your study of course!!!

You can easily find a new lover, but it's the only chance to go abroad for your study!!

To Keep highly educated, you will be the eternal winner!

Jekzhou · Posted: Sat Apr 15, 2006 12:38 pm Post subject:

If the person really loves me very much and I love her, then it's not big deal to study abroad.

she'll understand how important study is. (if not then she's not the 1)
I'll visit her if I get any possible opportunity.

Loves conquers all!!! Very Happy

aoikokoro · Joined: 24 Feb 2006 Posts: 22 Location: Mexico, Queretaro

Like Thelonius says:

-"You can't sacrifice grades for romance."

The study is always first..
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Asiaunec · Joined: 13 Dec 2005 Posts: 9 Location: Nanxun, Zhejiang

You are all right!
When I was a little girl, I thought love is the most important thing in my life. I want to be loved and made a lot of beautiful love dreams while I was a teenage. Then as I growing up, I saw my friends changed their boyfriends or girlfriends so quickly and also saw many people got divorced just as usual as changed clothes! I know in this world, the real love is very hard to find! I even thought I can not meet my Mr. Right. But now, I�m very lucky, I have a boyfriend who loves me so much, my life is so happy that I nearly can without him!
Although life is always hard to choose, I think I just do what I want to do!
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garfield_jesse · Joined: 17 Oct 2005 Posts: 271

If i were you i would choose the education, with me education is more important, getting education you will have more chances to get good job, having good future. First you should feed yourself without depending on others, you are sure confident. Love? You are young, and the chances to look for and meeting many guys. And if you and he really love together, the distance is not big problem. You go to aboard to study and you will come back...
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ieltsinsider · Joined: 16 May 2006 Posts: 170

I actually know someone who had to make this decision. She decided to stay in her country with her boyfriend and study in her country rather than a foreign one. Successful studies in a foreign country require emotional stability. This is something that (in particular) many East Asian students and their parents fail to understand. Most of the East asian students I know ho have studied in the States or Britain or Australia have learnt almost nothing. By the way, the girl now has a great job with an American firm in her home country and is marrying the guy later this year.

RedRose · Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China

I used to hear a saying: love is everything of women, but it's just a part of men. I can't agree on it anyway.

I am a woman, but love isn't everything for me. if I have to choose one between love and education, I prefer the latter. As I said before, we have a lot of chances to find lovers, but the chance of education is rare and precious, and you will benefit from your education in your entire life!! and it never gets away from you!! with high level of education, you can easily find a job anytime, no need to worry about unemployment or something like that. it would be your resource of living.

Don't give up!

ltp-008 · Joined: 09 Apr 2006 Posts: 258

When you have a choice between education and love,what would you do?

This is a difficult question to answer,whenever it come to love ,you are always in the dilemma situation.

Love for most romatic girls is always the most important thing for their lives,once they fall in love with some white-horse king,they always think that they are the happiest girls in the world.

But with social changes,now many girls don't take love very seriously any more,they can change their boyfried very often,they can have sexes with a few boyfriends,they consider that sex is a fun thing to do ,you don't have to take it very seriously,it is just mutual needs.

When girls grow up and become ladies,they will consider more material things such money and houses than spiril thing,it is natural for them to pursue the material things.

When you still are young ,once you face the dilemma situation,it 's hard for you to choose.But if you ask adult ladies which choice they would choose,I'm sure more than 90 percent of ladies would choose the advanced educaiton instead of the love.Because they believe education abroad is once life-time opportunity ,but love is only short period feeling,you can also find love abroad.You can find good man everywhere who is waiting for you!